FabSwingers.com forum: What single men should not do?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

we should not moan or whine or be negative about meets which is a big turn off on which I found out and to this day it still horns me when I not that type of person in real life. What thing would you and to the list that men should not do here?

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

Mail without reading profiles.

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By *YC SausageMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Expect messages to be opened......and if they are then expect messages to be ignored......and if they are replied to then expect a polite “no thanks”

Just me then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mail without reading profiles."

And today’s winner is.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mail with either over the top compliments, or, worse, opening lines of how graphically and explicit your desires are.

As well as the one word/one line/text speak messages.

God, I sound awful.....

Vamp x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep remessaging after we have already told you sorry we arent interested

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

"Mail without reading profiles.

And today’s winner is.....

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100% true the bane of my life on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Keep remessaging after we have already told you sorry we arent interested"

Absolutely.

Usually with begging and whining to start, then insults when told to go away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mail without reading profiles.

And today’s winner is.....

Preach sista!

To be fair this is something nobody should do, but many do anyway. Or, even worse in our opinion, message you saying "I've read your profile" and then make literally no reference to the contents, as if simply reading it was a tickbox for a reply.

And even worse still; read it and message you despite them clearly not being what you're looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And even worse still; read it and message you despite them clearly not being what you're looking for."

Amen

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By *rego69Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

A lady mailed me yesterday apologising for messing me about before deleting her account. She said the reason she wasn’t staying here was due to the pestering messages and the ones that then turned vile and nasty.

She had been away since Friday returning late BH Monday to a pile of whinging moaning emails and the newer they were the viler they got.

Seems to bear out statements above that failing to reply is a crime punishable by abuse in subsequent emails.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Keep remessaging after we have already told you sorry we arent interested

Absolutely.

Usually with begging and whining to start, then insults when told to go away.

Its when they "forget" they have already messaged as if they remessage and youve changed your mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send unsolicited dick pictures.

Or start unsolicited dirty chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send pictures of your cock and be rude

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

The comment made to me by a single woman, who is popular, was that most male profiles/messages and quite a few couples list what they are looking for and what their needs are without ever stating what they have to offer. Does your profile or message answer her unstated question "What's in it for me ?" or is it all about you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message someone saying you want to eat their tight arse and say in the same sentence I want to punch her in the face and leave her black and blue

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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Keep messaging other single guys offering discreet oral after being told, not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thou shalt not make a private photo public to get around message filters, and then hide it again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

men should do as the please and want and not be turned into fab robots by not being themselves that way we can all make real decisions about wanting to meet or not

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By *r FirecrackerMan
over a year ago

London

"Message someone saying you want to eat their tight arse and say in the same sentence I want to punch her in the face and leave her black and blue

WTF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Message someone saying you want to eat their tight arse and say in the same sentence I want to punch her in the face and leave her black and blue

Well...it takes all sorts.

Seriously, this guy needs to be removed from the site, for the safety of everyone...his especially!!

Report and block...but, I imagine that has already been done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Message someone saying you want to eat their tight arse and say in the same sentence I want to punch her in the face and leave her black and blue

Well...it takes all sorts.

Seriously, this guy needs to be removed from the site, for the safety of everyone...his especially!!

Report and block...but, I imagine that has already been done."

Yep hubby reported it straight away. Never had a message like that before. Didn't bother to engage further just block and report

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be impolite.

Have “hung” in their name when in possession of an average penis. (Which is fine FYI, just don’t kid yourself or anyone else).

Send “meet now” messages.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

It's not for me to start telling someone else what to do here,I wouldn't like someone saying it to me so I'm not going to start doing it to them.

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By *mJamsCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

[Removed by poster at 27/08/19 15:44:40]

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By *mokeynbubblyCouple
over a year ago

poole

How about not having a couples or single females profile

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By *c1989Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

"Be impolite.

Have “hung” in their name when in possession of an average penis. (Which is fine FYI, just don’t kid yourself or anyone else).

Send “meet now” messages.

I'm often asked what you lot are up to these days...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple really, we shouldn't lie. About situation, girth, stamina, likes, dislikes etc just to get a meet.

I have my likes and dislikes, same as any woman or couple here, and if I want to meet someone they have to be what I want as much as me what they want. Only way it works.

Oh, and be a decent human being. But that should go without saying!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Expect messages to be opened......and if they are then expect messages to be ignored......and if they are replied to then expect a polite “no thanks”

Just me then?

Don’t forget that classic reply to your well thought-out message;

“Lol x”

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Ask to meet in a 1st message,err how on earth would i know if i wanna meet with no chats or pics?

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The list of don'ts on here don't just apply to men. Js. Unsolicited cock shots might be harder for themv to send though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we should not moan or whine or be negative about meets which is a big turn off on which I found out and to this day it still horns me when I not that type of person in real life. What thing would you and to the list that men should not do here?

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haunts you Lol horn is what lead you here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Assume a woman is free there & then this really winds me up

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By *hangerMan
over a year ago

brighton

Expect a reply to one word messages or a message with one very short sentance.

If the sender can't be bothered to write a proper message and better still, actually read my profile, then I won't waste my time replying!

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

Take any notice of advice given by strangers on a forum ,

they offer their thoughts of what they'd like knowing little or nothing about you.

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By *agenta400Woman
over a year ago

All over the shop

If a person been polite enough to say you’re not my cuppa tea/not my type/don’t float my boat after a face pic, then don’t interrogate the person as to why!!

We all know what’s attracts us instinctively but sometimes it’s difficult to put into words.

It’s about mutual attraction. It’s not compulsory to return the attraction if it’s not genuinely there.

Accept the rejection with grace and maturity.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"men should do as the please and want and not be turned into fab robots by not being themselves that way we can all make real decisions about wanting to meet or not"

This

100%

Just be yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single men ( the same one )should not advertise on the “meet” section every Friday and Saturday night!!! It screams desperate!

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Here's one that occurred tonight:

What single men should not do?...

Openly state the time date and location of a social in their status!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the above advice, some good, some not so, can be applied to single women and couples too x

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By *oti100Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I think most of us including my self we are wasting aver time because in the site perhaps are 90 percent single man and 10 percent woman's and couples so is no point to message any one.

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By *artin TorMan
over a year ago

London

You shouldn't wank before the meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Keep remessaging after we have already told you sorry we arent interested"

Agreed

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Message someone saying you want to eat their tight arse and say in the same sentence I want to punch her in the face and leave her black and blue

WTF

Yup, had that one too, wasn't my arse though. And they wonder why they don't get to meet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never eat garlic....... Ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send repeat messages when they dont get a reply

Send messages that say 'u want a good fuk doll'

Instant turn off

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs

Become prime minister and suspend parliament

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"men should do as the please and want and not be turned into fab robots by not being themselves that way we can all make real decisions about wanting to meet or not"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Keep remessaging after we have already told you sorry we arent interested"

Yes this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Singles.. young ..forget the we have lives outside of fab and cant always reply straight away ..ive fallen asleep b4 now still on line and they thought i was ignoring ..ooops!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Singles.. young ..forget the we have lives outside of fab and cant always reply straight away ..ive fallen asleep b4 now still on line and they thought i was ignoring ..ooops!"

Yes... them young "whipper snappers" don't understand the need for nap time when you get old. Luckily I'm not that old yet

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there really any point to posts like this?

Those that really need the advice don't read it,or fail to act upon it

And those that don't need it,are already way more successful than the rest of the crowd.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Send messages, offering money for sex

I'm not a fucking prostitute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single men should not care so much. Looking desperate isn't good

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By *teve48ukMan
over a year ago

Ware

Post in forum without reading your text first!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for most comments and some not so nice or friendly ones have fun all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Message someone saying you want to eat their tight arse and say in the same sentence I want to punch her in the face and leave her black and blue

This happened to you guys? Omg! what happened to respect?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Message someone saying you want to eat their tight arse and say in the same sentence I want to punch her in the face and leave her black and blue

This happened to you guys? Omg! what happened to respect?

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By *tudiousPipWoman
over a year ago

W Yorks

Use the phrase 'looking for gash'.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Just because there MAY be someone for everyone, please don't persist to become a stalker, when you are sure that you have found yours.

Take lots of photos of yourself - then discard any with poor lighting, where someone else is the main person in the pic, they don't give a realistic representation of you, or your cock is shown in its millionth pose.

If you can get more and better sex elsewhere, please do so, you are clearly God's gift. Just don't expect applause when you post how inferior fab is.

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By *avid566Man
over a year ago

tidworth

I just make sure I am polite and if it's a no then leave it at that there is not need to be vile or rude.

Manners maketh man and all that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just make sure I am polite and if it's a no then leave it at that there is not need to be vile or rude.

Manners maketh man and all that."

In total agreement in my book no means no. I like you are very respectful

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