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By *rcadian110 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Hi guys,

My wife and I have been going to a club for the last few weeks and have gotten a little interest on here from some stunning couples but have yet to play out as both of us are really nervous.

How did you approach your first time swinging and what advice would you give

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had our first experience a week or so ago, having been on the site 5 weeks. Just relax and don't force it, talk to couples in clubs in the bar areas arrange socials and talk about boundries. Then things will just happen from there.

Do things in your own time.

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By *layfulpairsxCouple
over a year ago

Southend

Nervous can be either endearing or a huge turn off. You've been to clubs before so relax. Have fun together. Others who are attracted to you will want to join it's that simple.

Don't stress x

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

We have taken a few swingers virginity just chill it will happen.

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By *rcadian110 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Thanks guys. Think it's just taking that next step that's eluding us. Our home is a bit of a mess at the min after a long period of illness and we are making it presentable again so we can accommodate lol. Hoping the club scene will help with the next step tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nerves are normal, meet the right person, get to know them a little, set boundaries and have a chat when you meet them. If you’re meeting the right person/people then it’ll all flow easily and be a good experience.

At least that’s how it worked for us x

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