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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi, just wondering about guys experiences with bi curiosity.

I’ve been curious for a long time and enjoy chatting pic/vid swaps and watching gay/bi/ts porn, which leaves me wanting to try the real thing but the few of times I’ve had meets I really struggled to get hard and couldn’t perform even though I wanted to. So now I’m very reluctant to even contemplate meets.

What are your experiences?

DM me if you’d rather not talk in public

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By *hangerMan
over a year ago

brighton

If you have given anal with women, then frankly there is no difference in the sensation between fucking a male or a female anally, so you could give it a try and not worry about getting hard.

If you worry, you probably will struggle!

Alternatively, why not really go for it and try receiving. Start with a guy with a fairly small cock and of course, plenty of lube as always for anal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, just wondering about guys experiences with bi curiosity.

I’ve been curious for a long time and enjoy chatting pic/vid swaps and watching gay/bi/ts porn, which leaves me wanting to try the real thing but the few of times I’ve had meets I really struggled to get hard and couldn’t perform even though I wanted to. So now I’m very reluctant to even contemplate meets.

What are your experiences?

DM me if you’d rather not talk in public

"

Sounds like it’s the over thinking? If your nervous about it or really want to try it and never have, maybe it’s just about meeting the right guy, chilling and chatting for a while then playing?

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By *hangerMan
over a year ago

brighton

I should also have said, try some gay sites like the brother site Fabguys. You are likely to get much better response to a good profile there than on a swinger's site.

As has been said above, you are probably over thinking things, so try and go with the flow more.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys but I wasn’t really after advice per se, more just what others experience of trying bi was like

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

When I first started trying sucking cock I didn't have any problem getting aroused by it. Probably helped that the first few times it was during a Bi mmf session

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When I first started trying sucking cock I didn't have any problem getting aroused by it. Probably helped that the first few times it was during a Bi mmf session"

Yeah I can see how that would work, if you’re already hard with the woman then switch attention to the guy

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

With me I have to be dressed for my bi side to come out, it’s a mindset. So when I dress my feminine side is enhanced and engaged which makes it easier and enjoyable to be with a guy.

That’s when my preferences come out for the sort of guys I fancy, muscular dominant types that make me feel more feminine in their company. However I do find younger feminine guys a turn on as well, which brings out a more dominant side to myself.

Complicated eh

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Definitely try before you bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can relate to that. I found the prospect of being with a guy a turn-on, but the reality made me uncomfortable. Maybe best to start slow, just say what you are willing to do, then when you get comfortable with it try new things. You have to find what works for you.

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By *corcherMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

What others have said. Porn leads to unrealistic expectations. When you get there & actually get started, it's not like you've seen & maybe your brain starts over thinking.

Maybe you've not met people who've truly excited you enough? I don't find men as beautiful as women to look at, but I've had some great times with both

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for everyone’s input, it’s been very interesting and particularly the guys who DM’d me. It’s been good to chat to people who don’t just offer a bj or shag straight off the bat

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By *anther81Man
over a year ago

Drogheda

I found was much more bottom/sub than I thought. Do enjoy Bi fun with the other guy taking charge. Enjoy mutual sucking but go soft when being fucked but like it that way. Haven’t done it loads and need to be on the mood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would maybe try a bi mmf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would maybe try a bi mmf "

Yup.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bi, but have no interest in fucking a guy, it might sound strange but I don't find guys attractive,and I don't kiss guys but I enjoy sucking a nice cock, I've had some nice meets over the yrs with guys.

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

I think an mmf or a gorgeous Ts would be rest for a first meet for me

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

Try a MMF with bi hubby ,as suggested thats what hubby and i are ,and we have had straight guys who are happy to suck etc ,but we dont do anal so that seems to help as most wont go that far ,no pressure on anyone and the best of both worlds for all concerned ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try a MMF with bi hubby ,as suggested thats what hubby and i are ,and we have had straight guys who are happy to suck etc ,but we dont do anal so that seems to help as most wont go that far ,no pressure on anyone and the best of both worlds for all concerned .."

Sounds like a great experience...

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

Believe me it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Believe me it is "

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I used to be straight but got chatting to a couple in a pub and they invited me back. Long story short is I decided NOT to push her off my face when I felt his mouth sucking my cock. The sensation was too intense to stop. I then joined fab to see if I was bi. After a few more mmf sessions I decided I was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to be straight but got chatting to a couple in a pub and they invited me back. Long story short is I decided NOT to push her off my face when I felt his mouth sucking my cock. The sensation was too intense to stop. I then joined fab to see if I was bi. After a few more mmf sessions I decided I was. "

Nice..... that sounds amazing....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am bi but find 98% of males unattractive or intimidating. I can happily play with a guy without getting hard but with the right person I am rock solid and I absolutely go for it. I love sucking cock but precum still makes me gag and cum is a big turn off. I'd say I'm more attracted to gay than bi guys and have had a better experience with a gay guy.

Hope that helps, it took me a while to understand there are so many different levels of bi sexuality

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am bi but find 98% of males unattractive or intimidating. I can happily play with a guy without getting hard but with the right person I am rock solid and I absolutely go for it. I love sucking cock but precum still makes me gag and cum is a big turn off. I'd say I'm more attracted to gay than bi guys and have had a better experience with a gay guy.

Yeah I know what you mean, I can’t stand my own cum never mind anyone else’s

Hope that helps, it took me a while to understand there are so many different levels of bi sexuality "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never tried but have been fantasizing about being with a bi couple being seen to and seeing to

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By *unky harryMan
over a year ago

bridgend

Just turn off the lights you would not know the difference...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great... An excellent way to become.'involved'...

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over a year ago

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By *inkyfun2013Couple
over a year ago

lewisham

Agree with others that playing with a couple is a good start. 69 her with you underneath and him fucking her from behind. You end up licking his cock and her pussy in one motion. Delicious!

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

I don’t find guys themselves attractive in any way really.

But wave a nice looking hard cock in front of my face and I’ll happily have a play!

- John

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By *ark_sentinelCouple
over a year ago

Andover


"I don’t find guys themselves attractive in any way really.

But wave a nice looking hard cock in front of my face and I’ll happily have a play!

- John"

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By *ack_greenfinchMan
over a year ago

bristol


"I don’t find guys themselves attractive in any way really.

But wave a nice looking hard cock in front of my face and I’ll happily have a play!

- John"

Yes, this is how it is for me, too.

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By *urreynudistMan
over a year ago

staines

agree with others, try a mmf.

also don't find guys attractive but do enjoy the feel of a nice hard cock in my mouth and if you get the chance to 69 a couple as they fuck go for it - best of both worlds

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By *ogging DougMan
over a year ago

Guildford

Dark room with MMF, then moved to a more of an open room...

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"I’ve been curious for a long time and enjoy chatting pic/vid swaps and watching gay/bi/ts porn, which leaves me wanting to try the real thing but the few of times I’ve had meets I really struggled to get hard and couldn’t perform even though I wanted to. So now I’m very reluctant to even contemplate meets.

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Why not try for a threesome with a cpl that have a bi/bi curious male, and try oral first.

Maybe baby steps are what you need?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah bi couples are looking like a good place to start, even with the lights off lol

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