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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all so I was wondering how did u all feel watching your partners fuck other women I'm really unsure how I'd feel he's fine with me playing with other guys and I feel selfish saying I don't want him to play what rules did u put in to place

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By *ikeandmollyCouple
over a year ago

swindon

I absolutely love it and love to see the look on her face as he is fucking her too.

Molly

XX

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By *limaxinnylonCouple
over a year ago

CHESTER

You need to remember sex is not love. He let's you fuck other guys and you don't love them and he is aware of that. Same if he fucks another woman he isn't doing it as he loves them he is doing it for sex only. Sex is anamalistic and is something we need to do. Person we spend our lives with is our choice. That's how I see it anyway. I love watching Jon slide his cock in another woman's pussy it's very horny

You could try couple next to each other on bed and watch each other I think you would enjoy it

Jayne x

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We enjoy sharing each other....that's all part of the fun for us....it's sex....erotica....porn....experimentation...all rolled into one but what we have together is special and nothing is going to take that away.

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By *qua vitaeWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire/Midlands

I was unsure at first too, but when I saw how much pleasure he was giving to her, it was very erotic.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I don't think you can ever be sure until you do it.

Fortunately, we both find it a turn on watching each other pleasuring someone else.

There's still an element of voyeurism.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I loved it. Honestly loved it. So sexy.. would love to do it again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say if you're really unsure, then don't do it

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Love the glimpses of each other having funb

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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago

lanarkshire

We just enjoy sharing and doing it together, don’t think anytime during our play I was left watching him, everyone played together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love watching him fuck women.

I am definitely the ‘cuck’ in this relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love it. Such a turn on watching each other play especially when we take turns to play with a female and then a free for all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does nothing for me. If anything, I find it a bit cringe. Now we meet separately so he still gets to have his fun and I get to go and have mine. Our marriage is very happy and we know that we love each other and our relationship and family is our priority. It might be a strange set up for some but I thought I'd give an opposing view to the majority of "I love watching him fuck someone else".

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By *rtraymondo76Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"It does nothing for me. If anything, I find it a bit cringe. Now we meet separately so he still gets to have his fun and I get to go and have mine. Our marriage is very happy and we know that we love each other and our relationship and family is our priority. It might be a strange set up for some but I thought I'd give an opposing view to the majority of "I love watching him fuck someone else". "

Sounds fair to me. Always two sides to every opinion.

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By *uriousTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Love it!!! Happy to accept applicants and volunteers lol

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By *plpxp2Couple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Watching each other has always been the biggest turn on when playing, love seeing him with others

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I prefer to not even join in. I think it’ll be like marmite though. You either bloody love it or it really won’t be for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it, both ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it, both ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hot both ways, we love to watch and even encourage each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all so I was wondering how did u all feel watching your partners fuck other women I'm really unsure how I'd feel he's fine with me playing with other guys and I feel selfish saying I don't want him to play what rules did u put in to place "
I can’t speak for all, but I’m having fun with men’s wives, obviously all parties are aware of the facts.... most guys are happy to see their misses getting proper fucked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I watched mine for the first time Friday night & it actually made my pussy tingle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need to remember sex is not love. He let's you fuck other guys and you don't love them and he is aware of that. Same if he fucks another woman he isn't doing it as he loves them he is doing it for sex only. Sex is anamalistic and is something we need to do. Person we spend our lives with is our choice. That's how I see it anyway. I love watching Jon slide his cock in another woman's pussy it's very horny

You could try couple next to each other on bed and watch each other I think you would enjoy it

Jayne x"

Completely agree I love the idea of my man screwing someone else and vice versa

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

What about the women who's men are bi he doesnt do anal but tacking and wanking .I have no issue with it as long as I'm there so it's a win .win

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

The wife loves watching me with women! Shame it’s only happened with one ladie. Love to meet others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always loved seeing my ex play, it was some of the most erotic sights I have ever seen! We always loved the talk after as well, discussing what we liked, did not like....the intense feeling of looking at each other while we played.

Can only hope to rekindle that with my next partner!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It does nothing for me. If anything, I find it a bit cringe. Now we meet separately so he still gets to have his fun and I get to go and have mine. Our marriage is very happy and we know that we love each other and our relationship and family is our priority. It might be a strange set up for some but I thought I'd give an opposing view to the majority of "I love watching him fuck someone else". "

This is very honest. We tried it and it also did nothing for me, plus it was almost impossible to find a couple we were both attracted to. Luckily my OH finds watching me with other guys a huge turn on so we just do that now. Maybe give it a try OP and if you don't like it don't do it again?

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

We love it!! I love watching. Usually I'm playing too but not always.

I'm bi (female) and I was once sat on her face whilst he fucked her that was hot!

Neither of us get jealous it's always about the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I absolutely love it and love to see the look on her face as he is fucking her too.

Molly

XX"

Same!

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness

You will never know for sure until you give it a go.

For some it's great

for others it will be meh

Some will hate it.

But once you know its then down to you as a couple about how you negotiate your swinging lifestyle.

Some couples are happy with the female only swinging approach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely love it. Watched hubby fuck another women recently and he made her squirt for the first time. She not her hubby knew what was going on... but I did as he does it to me all the time.

Absolutely loved it and a massive turn on watching him xx

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

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By *ackieSteveCouple
over a year ago

Newbridge

I love watching Jackie fuck other men. Especially when they're really hung. The look on her face is amazing.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

We've never done that - mainly because I can't stand the thought of it. He's given women oral at clubs when we've played in a couple of group scenarios but generally we play with bi guys which he's happy with.

I actually like seeing 2 men play so it suits me too.

I think the reason for me not wanting to see him fuck another woman is purely down to my own insecurities regarding my body. Might not sound logical but there it is.

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By *hebritukCouple
over a year ago

London

Go for it.... and remember it’s a two way street.

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield


"I love watching him fuck women.

I am definitely the ‘cuck’ in this relationship "

Do you enjoy watching him with another guy too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mark and I are quite new to each other (we met on here as singles) so it was a bit nerve racking initially but there's nothing better than looking over, seeing him with someone, making them groan and moan whilst i'm being pleasured too.

I admit i do get a little twinge of jealous but it's a different kind if that makes sense and we love telling each other about it during reclaim sex, it makes it hotter.

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames


"You need to remember sex is not love. He let's you fuck other guys and you don't love them and he is aware of that. Same if he fucks another woman he isn't doing it as he loves them he is doing it for sex only. Sex is anamalistic and is something we need to do. Person we spend our lives with is our choice. That's how I see it anyway. I love watching Jon slide his cock in another woman's pussy it's very horny

You could try couple next to each other on bed and watch each other I think you would enjoy it

Jayne x"
perfect answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Voyeurism is another aspect erotism...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't do it if you don't want to, Carry on cuckolding him. He loves that too anyway, of that I am sure. If he is pressuring you so that he can fuck other women, tell him enigmatically that you'll think about it but in meantime you fancy that slim handsome hunk off fab round again..... Mhoaw mhoaw. so carry on as you are if you don't feel comfortable about seeing him with other women.

Sexuality changes as we go through life. In a few years time you might think differently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to fuck the others partner as they watch

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By *usciouslips201Couple
over a year ago

North Wales

I'd quite like the chance to sit back and watch my partner play with another lady. I'd get so damn horny! The opportunity never arrises though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us the turn on is about seeing the person you love enjoying the moment! Whatever happens we see ourselves as a collective and communication before after and sometimes even during makes all of those worries easier. Just like anyone we have both had wobbles,we just make sure they are addressed.we only enjoy it when the partner feels comfortable.we always take our time and make sure we are both happy and if not then we stop.x

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"I love watching him fuck women.

I am definitely the ‘cuck’ in this relationship "

This is so me too. My partner gets nothing from watching me play with other guys, however my god the thought of some of the times i've watched him fuck other women still makes me wet....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it xx

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By *uncpl187Couple
over a year ago

Ramsgate

My wife loved watching me fuck a guy.But won't let me fuck another woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is fem replying. We had no luck for ages finding a couple so we had a few 3somes with men. I know it's two faced but when we had a first meet with a couple I was a bit worried I would get a pang of jealousy but I totally didn't. I think it was actually better, I wasn't worried about crossing boundaries and checking hubby was OK like I do when we meet men, (I try to avoid kissing even though hubby hasn't enforced a rule about it, I just feel uncomfortable doing it) we were all having fun so we felt like equals for a change and I was happy for him that he was getting some attention for a change. It also turned me on as it was like seeing what he does to me from a different angle x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I adore watching the husband with other women. In fact, my desire to see it is what started all this for us.

I'm happy to just take a seat and watch and not get involved at all. But if I'm honest, I always end up in amongst it eventually!

We've never set any rules because there's no need for us.

Mrs.

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love watching him with other women, turns me on. I’m not that bothered about playing with another man anyway, so at the mo we tend to play with women.

I admit that sometimes I get worried that she may be hotter etc than me, but that’s my insecurities, and when I sit back and watch them it tends to go away anyway x I love it, you may not, go with what you’re comfortable with, or it won’t be so enjoyable for any involved x Viv x

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