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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would love people's opinions on my profile,i have no face pics but will halpily send them to any couples or women who ask as i would love an honest opinion.Broad shoulders so wont dont have to be coy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would love people's opinions on my profile,i have no face pics but will halpily send them to any couples or women who ask as i would love an honest opinion.Broad shoulders so wont dont have to be coy "

It's a bit shit mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The majority of your profile text is that useless Sydney University crap in fact it's like a super combo version of all of them that are kicking around rolled into one.

First thing to do is to get rid of that.

KJ x

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

UK

Your photos are hugely off putting to me. I know more about what some random woman looks like than what you do...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thats an easy fix,suppose i just got dragged into the hype there lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your photos are hugely off putting to me. I know more about what some random woman looks like than what you do..."

I did have other pics up before but they have been stolen and used on other profiles twice now so i wont do it anymore.

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

UK


"Your photos are hugely off putting to me. I know more about what some random woman looks like than what you do...

I did have other pics up before but they have been stolen and used on other profiles twice now so i wont do it anymore."

Always your choice of course, but it would be an instant no from me and many other women feel the same.

You don’t have to put face pictures up. Anonymous body shots are much more appealing than dick pics. We all know what they look like, I’m much more concerned with what it’s attached to!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Appreciate the advice..thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Appreciate the advice..thank you."

Just looked at your pics, went eewww and didn't even go to the text. Pictures are the first thing I see and look at. If they put me off I don't even read the profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So loose the cumshots and cock pics yes?..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% lose the pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh keep them on and the dogging veri, says a lot! Not for me..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Its funny because ive met a few women and couples on here and not had verification,cant feel too bad though coz it seems they dont verify anyone.Does annoy me a little though because i know it all helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Appreciate the advice..thank you.

Just looked at your pics, went eewww and didn't even go to the text. Pictures are the first thing I see and look at. If they put me off I don't even read the profile."

Same here

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Appreciate the advice..thank you.

Just looked at your pics, went eewww and didn't even go to the text. Pictures are the first thing I see and look at. If they put me off I don't even read the profile.

Same here "

Put me off too they would have been better left on the porn sites they came from.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Will upload some more pics and change them tomorrow

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

It’s all cool OP. Your profile should be a reflection of your personality. It should let women know exactly what to expect if they choose to engage with you. Your’s says everything about you that they need to know. I wouldn’t touch a thing if I were you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It would be nice though if more women replied when i sent msgs out,hopefully changing a couple of pics and adding a few might help so no harm trying.Always gonna have a cock pic up though

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London


"It would be nice though if more women replied when i sent msgs out"

Why not show us what your messages are like? Then we could advise on those as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would be nice though if more women replied when i sent msgs out,hopefully changing a couple of pics and adding a few might help so no harm trying.Always gonna have a cock pic up though"

Changing the pics will help.

The text could do with improving too, it’s no different from thousands of others and tells us next to nothing about you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I tend to read the profile to see what might get their attention but normally just say hello and ask if they want to chat..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s all cool OP. Your profile should be a reflection of your personality. It should let women know exactly what to expect if they choose to engage with you. Your’s says everything about you that they need to know. I wouldn’t touch a thing if I were you."

????

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By *estinysswingersCouple
over a year ago

Worsley

Don't like the photos and the profile text is about 50 words.

As my school report once said. Must try harder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without hi-jacking your post, could people please give me some advice on my profile. It’s colder than a penguins pocket here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile pic is awful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile pic is awful "

Thanks I’ll change that now

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London


"Without hi-jacking your post.... "

Actually, that’s exactly what you’ve done.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I dont mind,i think alot of us would benefit more if people replied to us with reasons why they dont like our profile rather than just ignoring or blocking us.A little courtesy goes a long way lol.

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London


"I dont mind,i think alot of us would benefit more if people replied to us with reasons why they dont like our profile rather than just ignoring or blocking us.A little courtesy goes a long way lol."

That’s never going to happen. At risk of replicating advice that has been given hundreds of times, most women and couples on fab get dozens of messages a day. They can’t possibly reply to any other than the ones which interest them. When you message it’s unsolicited. No one has asked you to do it. So it’s the equivalent of spam. Image if you had to reply to every piece of junk email you received to explain why you wouldn’t be taking them up on their offer. You’d never get any time for yourself. Just accept it as how things work here. Refine your technique and profile and be patient.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont mind,i think alot of us would benefit more if people replied to us with reasons why they dont like our profile rather than just ignoring or blocking us.A little courtesy goes a long way lol."

OP, are you reading and matching the profiles of those you contact?

If so are you delivering an interesting engaging initial message with a clear face pic? Because if not I can see why this is happening as well as your not attractive profile.

Let's face it, if you have nothing to offer why would they bother and blocking is one way of discluding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont mind,i think alot of us would benefit more if people replied to us with reasons why they dont like our profile rather than just ignoring or blocking us.A little courtesy goes a long way lol.

That’s never going to happen. At risk of replicating advice that has been given hundreds of times, most women and couples on fab get dozens of messages a day. They can’t possibly reply to any other than the ones which interest them. When you message it’s unsolicited. No one has asked you to do it. So it’s the equivalent of spam. Image if you had to reply to every piece of junk email you received to explain why you wouldn’t be taking them up on their offer. You’d never get any time for yourself. Just accept it as how things work here. Refine your technique and profile and be patient. "

Yes take a leaf out of Mr Jake's book, good pic, good write up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm no brad Pitt but ive never been called ugly really,not everyones type obviously.If you want to see a pic of me and make your own judgement then i can and you can tell me if i'm ugly haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thing with the write up is that when i read other peoples long qnd descriptive specifics and wants then it tends to limit what your seeking.I'm quite open minded and interested in meeting all types really,feel i dont want to come off picky when i'm not toshef myself lol

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By *ackieSteveCouple
over a year ago

Newbridge

Your profile sucks more than Jackie. Haha.

Saying I'm not putting pictures up means you're fucked from the off as the other 10,000 men will happily do it, so no one will really want to waste their time asking to check in case you're decent looking.

Also it's all cock pics and not good ones.

Get your chest out, butt, legs, anything but your dick.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

The profile pic is enough to put me off tbh.

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

UK


"I'm no brad Pitt but ive never been called ugly really,not everyones type obviously.If you want to see a pic of me and make your own judgement then i can and you can tell me if i'm ugly haha"

The previous poster wasn’t calling you ugly... she said it was an ugly profile.

You might like those pictures but I can assure you most women don’t.

The cum shots literally turn my stomach

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London


"Yes take a leaf out of Mr Jake's book, good pic, good write up. "

Why thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ive had my profile pics stolen before and whats worse is that they have arranged and had meets with them,i know its one of the risks of the site and need to get over it i suppose

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

UK


"I dont mind,i think alot of us would benefit more if people replied to us with reasons why they dont like our profile rather than just ignoring or blocking us.A little courtesy goes a long way lol.

That’s never going to happen. At risk of replicating advice that has been given hundreds of times, most women and couples on fab get dozens of messages a day. They can’t possibly reply to any other than the ones which interest them. When you message it’s unsolicited. No one has asked you to do it. So it’s the equivalent of spam. Image if you had to reply to every piece of junk email you received to explain why you wouldn’t be taking them up on their offer. You’d never get any time for yourself. Just accept it as how things work here. Refine your technique and profile and be patient. "

This is great advice and from someone with a good profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gonna be frank about this because I get dozens of messages a day from people with profiles like yours who ask if I 'want to chat' or 'what u into'. I usually ignore them, and it had bugger all to do with 'courtesy'. It might sound harsh, but there is not a single person on this site to whom I owe my time.

I put the effort in to my profile, so I expect people to do me the 'courtesy' of doing the same.

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

UK


"Ive had my profile pics stolen before and whats worse is that they have arranged and had meets with them,i know its one of the risks of the site and need to get over it i suppose"

Put your username on them in a prominent position

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, when I see a single guy profile with pictures where a random girl sucking his cock is shown more prominently than the owner of said cock, I wonder if that girl consented to you using her pictures like this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Will do some more pics over the weekend then,i do appreciate the criticism in an honest way aswell thanks all you lot.Always been better in person than on paper so find it hard to show it but cheers guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics are poor.

Guys with mostly females on their pics I'd scroll past.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Also, when I see a single guy profile with pictures where a random girl sucking his cock is shown more prominently than the owner of said cock, I wonder if that girl consented to you using her pictures like this."

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

2 of the girls are off here and said its ok and the other 2 know their on my profile but dont want their face shown.I sometimes meet with them so they know whats going on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And why do you think other women want to see more of a random woman sucking your dick, when you are advertising yourself as a single man?

I don't really care what your explanation is for it, I'm just telling you that is the impression it gives. It's an instant turn off for me and I suspect many others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to agree the pictures put me straight off

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London


"2 of the girls are off here and said its ok and the other 2 know their (sic) on my profile but dont want their face shown.I sometimes meet with them so they know whats going on"

I call bullshit. You don’t have any veris from single women. I’d be surprised if it’s even your cock.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I sometimes meet with 2 of the girls as a "couple/fb's",it used to say that on my profile but got so sick of guys messing about asking for more pics and vids of them and then never actually turning up to the meet with the same old excuses.Yes i do need to change my pics by the looks of it but thats why i'm asking for criticism from women and couples,and please bare in mind the bi- part of my profile..have to think of what guys like aswell

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is my point,i can honestly tell you that they are all me and genuine women i have met with myself but because some people dont bother verifying then it looks bad.This is why i am asking other to help,there would be even more pics if there werent creeps on here who use them as theirs

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

How did that conversation go ? After the BJ you ok I upload these on my profile ? ..yes ..cheers

Why would you ? do you think women on here think, oh look he's had sex think I'll ask for a face picture and let's have a nice day out in sunny Scunthorpe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why should I or anyone else believe you, or indeed even let you get to the point where you can provide that explanation?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The same way couples want to share their profile pics i imagine,with the hope a guy will join them,even though we are just fuck buddies its the same thing.The fact you are a TV/CD aswell means you should understand i show them because i want MMF bi-meets but then again..i dont use snapchat filter for my profile pics so what do i know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also why do you think that bi/gay guys would find a picture of that random woman sucking your cock appealing?

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Too be honest I block any males with dick pics as profile or one like yours or a blank profile ... it just shows lack of thought and imagination ... and then I think would I want to end up with my gob round your dick as a profile pic

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The thing is that ive got all of your views and opinions now and can adjust and change my profile in the hope i might get some more attention from GENUINE people..I will loose some of the pics of the girls and have just me in them.If that doesnt work then can try other things..like dating sites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont use snapchat filter for my profile pics so what do i know"

I mean, they have a lot more verifications than you do, so maybe your petty sniping is counterintuitive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha..i get exactly what you are saying but i can promise the whole point in the vids and pics was to show ourselfs off a little in the chance of a meet.We didnt want to mess anyone about

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Blimey I must gather more verifications before becoming genuine ... I obviously don’t know what I’m talking about

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"The same way couples want to share their profile pics i imagine,with the hope a guy will join them,even though we are just fuck buddies its the same thing.The fact you are a TV/CD aswell means you should understand i show them because i want MMF bi-meets but then again..i dont use snapchat filter for my profile pics so what do i know"

As a person I have enough respect for any partner I have been intimate with, NOT to post pictures of them, and as a TV I don't understand at all !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol..not sure who that was aimed at but i get your point,i'm not looking for loads of veri's,i have 3 that i choose not to show for other reasons aswell but despite any of that..criticisms,constructive or not will help me hopefully in the end so glad youve all joined in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But we play as a couple sometimes it helps if we want to meet,so many guys ask for a pic so i can tell them there is aready one on my profile.Think you can agree that if any guy asks to see more than what i'm already showing then he is likely to be a messer..

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

I’d get out of your ever increasing hole now if I were you. Otherwise it’s going to just keep getting deeper.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d get out of your ever increasing hole now if I were you. Otherwise it’s going to just keep getting deeper. "

And not in the way he wants...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If any of you read this back you will see that nothing i could of said would of made any of you think different,i asked for advice..and i thanked you.Then when people criticised..i tried to explain and nobody wants to hear it or believe me so whats the point.I will take your advice and use it though as you lot have more verifications than me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Appreciate the advice..thank you.

Just looked at your pics, went eewww and didn't even go to the text. Pictures are the first thing I see and look at. If they put me off I don't even read the profile.

Same here

Put me off too they would have been better left on the porn sites they came from. "

The fa t you think they came from porn sited is actually a compliment haha.Please tell me how i can prove i am genuine and i will..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are just giving you the help you asked for, and you're trying to push back against it despite it being entirely for your benefit. Your explanations for the photos don't matter here because they won't matter to the majority of women you're messaging, that's the whole point! You have too much competition on here to expect women to give you the time to explain, plain and simple.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am taking all advice on board and will be changing my profile in the next day or two,i would do it now but i am not comfortable with taking selfies of just myself.Maybe sounds wierd considering all thats been said but i dont like taking selfies,pics of me and women will be mosty removed and will get my friend to take some pics of me that she says will look good.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have listened to everything you said artemissme,i only pushed back because 3 people on here are saying my profile is fake,nothing ive said on my profile or the pictures are fake or stolen and i can promise that.I will be changing things on my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The thing is that ive got all of your views and opinions now and can adjust and change my profile in the hope i might get some more attention from GENUINE people..I will loose some of the pics of the girls and have just me in them.If that doesnt work then can try other things..like dating sites"

Do they let you post facial shots on dating sites?

Blimey, I'm so naive

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

They probably dont but the way people behave on tinder and that these days your more likely to get one than on here lol.

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