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By *onyMad123 OP   Couple
over a year ago

nottingham/ derby

So after a long break we back and playing, but I am extreemly troubled by female intimate grooming, to the point I took it all off and the pain of it growing back, and a subsequent ingrowing hair, has caused a really slow healing sore spot, lots of pain and resembling a plucked chicken.

I never grow a thick mass abundance of thick hair, I have tried removal creams which resulted in almost third degree burns, shaving is fine for the first 24/36 hours, ive ensured correct direction, blades, preparation of skin, also aftercare from gentle creams, to full exfoliation just gets no better , I can bear doing the lips and under carraige for outings, but question is, do you think something neatly trimmed is better than a bald, spotty painful muff area????

from a lady in a quandry than would love a smooth pain free porn star muff area

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By *inkyNinjaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the rainbow...

If you want smooth then magic foof powder is your friend.

I can’t shave - it irritates me - same with creams. But with this, even though you mix it to the consistency of thick cream, I have no irritation.

But if you don’t want smooth then just have it however you like it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have similar problems but hate body hair on me so I keep on shaving. I apply Nads ingrow solution after 24 hours (available from Boots) and it really helps with spots and the like caused by ingrown hairs. I also use something called Smooth Touch by art naturals from Amazon and it's magic for relieving pain / redness around spots and helping them to settle. Nothing fixes the problem but both do help considerably.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

You need to do what is best for you.

I would imagine most guys would not mind nearly trimmed.

You will get people at all ends of the spectrum from those who will only go down on completely shaven to those who will only want a full bushel.

But for most is simply about not coming away with a mouthful of floss.

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By *onyMad123 OP   Couple
over a year ago

nottingham/ derby

Im going to let it relax for a few weeks, exfoilate it daily and try and source some cream then think i will just trim the upper and skim the lower, its not think or course hair it just seems to irritate, i try to wear limited underwear at home for free air flow, but having outdoor work means are times where i have to wear it, i have questioned weather wash powder etc makes it worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im going to let it relax for a few weeks, exfoilate it daily and try and source some cream then think i will just trim the upper and skim the lower, its not think or course hair it just seems to irritate, i try to wear limited underwear at home for free air flow, but having outdoor work means are times where i have to wear it, i have questioned weather wash powder etc makes it worse. "

Have you tried waxing? X

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By *onyMad123 OP   Couple
over a year ago

nottingham/ derby

Nope, this scares me slightly, i reacted to wax on brows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope, this scares me slightly, i reacted to wax on brows "

Oh dear...

Must admit it is easier x

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"Nope, this scares me slightly, i reacted to wax on brows "

I can't shave, or use any lotions, creams etc

I react very very badly, end up looking like I have a dose of something nasty

I get hot waxed, and have absolutely no problems.

A little spotty rash which disappears within a, few hours at the worst

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope, this scares me slightly, i reacted to wax on brows

I can't shave, or use any lotions, creams etc

I react very very badly, end up looking like I have a dose of something nasty

I get hot waxed, and have absolutely no problems.

A little spotty rash which disappears within a, few hours at the worst "

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By *ng1983Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon tyne

I've had exactly the same problem! I'm now leaving it alone. Just neatly trimming it and shaving outer labia and undercarriage. It takes some getting used to because I'm usually bare. Massive pain because I play with women and most women prefer it smooth

Gem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does anyone have a home wax kit? Are they any good?

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Waxing for me was the best choice. The initial appointment was the most painful. I went back 4 weeks later and now it's every six weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Waxing for me was the best choice. The initial appointment was the most painful. I went back 4 weeks later and now it's every six weeks.

"

I have to agree waxing causes least problems and lasts longest too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the same issue, shaving ends in an angry red chicken skin disaster and cream sets my foof on fire! Waxing is just as bad. In the end I decided to just stop, let it grow. What is so bad about a bit of natural body hair anyway? We've been conditioned to feel it's unattractive and that's such a shame. Now I just trim my foof and shave along my bikini line and it feels much better. Nobody has seen it and run screaming yet. If they did I'd just know they couldn't handle me if they were scared off by a wee furry patch

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By *onyMad123 OP   Couple
over a year ago

nottingham/ derby

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

Waxing is the best alternative though the most painful at the time.

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By *xybumWoman
over a year ago

East Kilbride

Exfoliate exfoliate exfoliate! Get an exfoliating glove, use it every day,shave with conditioner and use cheap razors that you only use once... I’ve never had a rash doing it this way

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By *hropsDuoCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire


"Does anyone have a home wax kit? Are they any good? "

I have one, about to do mine tonight ready for Cap. It's just a cheap one off Amazon. I use Hive wax. It's a bit painful if you leave it too long and have lots of hair, so would suggest a salon wax the first time, after that I do mine about every 3 weeks and doesn't hurt at all, in fact I enjoy the feeling!

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