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By *ed-devils OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hitchin

A guys profile says straight and once my partner replied he said he was bi,should we just block and move on because I think he’s only after my mrs.he said he took bi off his profile because no one was talking to him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most men do ask him questions like what have u done with guys before as we have same thing with lads they say it's coz it puts women off but we dont have that problem and it states that we are bi on our profile x

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

If something doesn't feel quite right OP, block and move on.

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

We get messages from fabstraight guys all the time that say they won't put bi on their profile because it puts women off. We tell them all the same thing when we reply, that our profile is honest and upfront and we expect the profiles of the guys we meet to be in a similar vein.

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By *ark_sentinelCouple
over a year ago

Andover


"We get messages from fabstraight guys all the time that say they won't put bi on their profile because it puts women off. We tell them all the same thing when we reply, that our profile is honest and upfront and we expect the profiles of the guys we meet to be in a similar vein."

Bravo. Spot on

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I get a lot of straight guys contacting me, even though I expressively state on my Profile I won’t meet them. In my case it’s because a few will accept me as third best to a single woman or couple. In the end a hole is a hole and a BJ will almost certainly happen.

My advice stick to your guns, a true Bi guy will be interested in both of you. So I’d expect that guy (or girl) to want to know what both of you want and not just concentrate on the female half.

Good Luck with your search xx

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By *i de BiCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

We get loads of straight guys trying their luck . They think ,all they have to do is suck cock for 30 secs and that gives them the green light to fuck Mrs Bi.

We tell them they will get fucked by Mr Bi before Mrs Bi will join in.....amazingly 99% suddenly not interested

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"A guys profile says straight and once my partner replied he said he was bi,should we just block and move on because I think he’s only after my mrs.he said he took bi off his profile because no one was talking to him."

I think you are right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We get messages from fabstraight guys all the time that say they won't put bi on their profile because it puts women off. We tell them all the same thing when we reply, that our profile is honest and upfront and we expect the profiles of the guys we meet to be in a similar vein."

Bang on

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Ultimately your call whether you carry on talking to him or not OP - but it's true many bi guys will say they are straight because they think it increases their chances on here (which it doesn't) and many straight guys will tell bi couples they are bi because they think it's a way to get to the lady.

Personally I wouldn't meet someone that wasn't comfortable to be open and honest about their sexuality and would wonder what else they were lying about.

However, as a previous poster suggested if you are interested in chatting to this guy more and want to check how genuine he is - suggest that the lady will have no part in a first meet and just wants to watch the two guys play but may join in if she feels comfortable - that usually sorts them out

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

The labels aren't very good at trying to force the incredibly expensive range of interests into a tiny number of categories. As so many aspects of people exist upon each and every spectrum, perhaps for those who specifically want absolute sexual activity interests, fab could introduce something along those lines, eg MM cock sucking, give and receive, MM kissing: Y or N, MM fucking: Give and receive, etc. And perhaps these settings could only be viewed by bi people, screening them from others.

People obviously aren't limited by what they have done but there could also be an option to indicate if you have already experienced any of these activities or if it's just a desire. Such more detailed information could help others seek out those - usually men - who others have found often try to deceive their cock into your knickers.

I know there are tons of site improvements that are desirable but something more detailed like this could help the site to be less of a standard-leaning site, to more of one that reflects the needs of real-world swinging today, alongside the huge complexity of sexual tastes.

This could be copy/pasted into site suggestions area, if there's wider agreement

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

That should have read Expansive', not expensive - ad much as some of us like the finer things in life.

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

Haha "straight" men on fab! Where is that laughter with tears emoji on fab?! xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had many messages from couples were the man is listed as straight and they don’t state that they’re interested in TV’s on their profile.

That is not always a deal breaker for us. What is though is if it becomes obvious that the male is more interested in me than Abby.

For us it’s either four way or no play.

Follow your instincts OP

Miss V

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By *hangerMan
over a year ago

brighton

I am a bi guy and most of the guys contacting me for a meet that are on the site as part of a couple, want to meet me solo yet say in their profile that they are straight!

So for whatever reason, there are lots of people on this site (and others!) with misleading or falsehoods in their profile!

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

I think we must all be bi curious with all the sexy people on here I definitely appreciate a nice cock these days

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By *umslaveTV/TS
over a year ago

Sheffield

There's an infestation of 'any holes a goal' fabstraight men on here. It makes me slightly peeved when they contact me. They're liars and if they lie about that what else are they lying about? If you're not comfortable in accepting who you are and want to hide it then you're not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't blame them for hiding their sexuality.

As others have said, just say the men will play first while the woman just watches. It works.

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By *exy Sarah and MichaelCouple
over a year ago

Torquay

Fab is full of idiots lying about their sexuality!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have Bi curious on my profile and I can categorically confirm it puts most women and couples off.

Possibly with couples it's maybe they think it's Fab straight !!!

I do play with, and suck cock,not topped a guy yet but it's on the cards

Not been topped by a guy either but again it's on the cards, especially if my head is buried in pussy lol

Definitely not looking to kiss the guy tho sorry

Been pegged and milked before and enjoyed very much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree...most guys are bi curious but do not want to admit it (especially to themselves)...

A cock is fascinating both mine and others...

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By *ikerswingCouple
over a year ago

mcr

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By *ikerswingCouple
over a year ago

mcr


"Can't blame them for hiding their sexuality.

As others have said, just say the men will play first while the woman just watches. It works. "
our mantra this .guy/guy play to start s out the chaff and mrs b loves to watch before joining in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't blame them for hiding their sexuality.

As others have said, just say the men will play first while the woman just watches. It works.

our mantra this .guy/guy play to start s out the chaff and mrs b loves to watch before joining in "

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

Each to their own I try not to judge others I just like friendly people

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