FabSwingers.com forum: Profile help

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know so many have asked for it and it probably bugs a few to see this, but really need some help improving my profile. Open to all suggestion ie photos description etc..., come to realise it might be me not others that are the problem lol

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"I know so many have asked for it and it probably bugs a few to see this, but really need some help improving my profile. Open to all suggestion ie photos description etc..., come to realise it might be me not others that are the problem lol"

Your user name and the fact that you're standing there playing with your cock would immediately put you on our block list - up to you what you do but it's not for us - and you did ask

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Your user name and the fact that you're standing there playing with your cock would immediately put you on our block list - up to you what you do but it's not for us - and you did ask

No I appreciate the comments, what would be a better name?, or better photos?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need a white shirt and trousers black and white picture.

Some sophistication

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By *offee and Cream 2Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Loughborough

Maybe it is about time you learnt to tidy up your bedroom before you start taking selfies...............

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Why do you hold your cock in all the pics ? Otherwise will it drop off ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

op be yourself or you'll end up being advised to have a profile like all the fab robots who have asked for advice..

no one knows you ?? only you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you really have sex with a 99 yr old woman? I translate what you’ve written as - I will have sex with anyone who wants too. Your pics are a little uninspiring if I’m honest. As painful as it may seem to some men but the best idea is too check other men’s profiles, look at their pics and see what they’ve written then tailor to your specifications

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"op be yourself or you'll end up being advised to have a profile like all the fab robots who have asked for advice..

no one knows you ?? only you"

This is good advice, just because we don't like something doesn't mean it's wrong - it's just not for us. So keep it as it is or change it up a bit, but keep it true to yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start by filling in more about you and what you are looking for on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have a great body and obviously work at it but your photos are not making the most of it.

Definitely drop the dick pics and take some more artsy type shots. Suit, black and white, jeans, sexy and sensual is the way to go.

Also work on your profile and be more specific. We all know that your shag anything with a pulse, but try and make it a bit more like your dream scenario.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

General advice.

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/introductions/910950

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Hello OP

Firstly, you will need to accept some facts. Some people on here will have zero interest in meeting with you simply because of your age. There is nothing you can do about it, so don't fret. Concentrate on finding the people that would like to meet a young man like you. Refine your search by ticking the "I must match their age requirements too" box. Also refine your search by age, distance etc.

Once you have those search results READ their profiles. It's such basic advice but so few follow it. Don't bother messaging those whose profile you don't meet. If it says they are looking for a bi guy, or a chubby guy, that's not you so don't waste your time or theirs.

Now, providing you have sent a message that will entice them to look further they will 99% of the time look at your profile before responding. So now you have to sell yourself. Quite frankly the 23 words you have managed to write on your profile won't impress anyone.

Your profile couldn't sell a Big Mac to a starving man, so it's not going to sell you to prospective meets. Write something about you, what you're into, what you have to offer, what your limits are etc. Basically - make people interested in you.

Put on some better pics. Face pics are best, cock pics are generally not required in your public profile. Anything in between is great. Believe it or not people are not turned on by seeing pictures with dirty laundry on show.

However your profile is not everything. You've had some involvement with the forums, which is a good place to get to know people, but get involved in the chatroom too. Then get off the site and meet people socially or try a club, you have some nearby and the cubs section can help you.

Good luck.

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By *astyEricMan
over a year ago

Hull

"op be yourself or you'll end up being advised to have a profile like all the fab robots who have asked for advice..

no one knows you ?? only you"

That

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