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By *ikerswing OP   Couple
over a year ago

mcr

hi everyone.before i put this i just want to say this is NOT a validate us please post.

after taking a break for a few years we recently started to go to clubs again having had a couple of nice private meets at home.

but we seem to be having a problem out of 4 club nights we have done both in blackpool and local northwest clubs we havnt been approached once .now i know our age may put a few off but we are in good shape look after ourselves and allways make an effort to look good .she great underwear or pvc dress great figure , he designer boxers allways muscular physique.

we are getting a bit of a complex that we seem or give an impression of dont come near us.we have allways had great fun catting and playing in infusion in blackpool but seem to strike out in local clubs .we know we have to put some effort into starting convos which we do , and cples we have met outside of clubs say we are a hoot to have a night out with.have clubs changed that much in the last few years ? .we were the couple in white on sat night her pvc him calvin boxers if your saw us please give us your impression of our demeanour .all comments taken in good spirit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was there Saturday night and I think some nights go your way, others don’t. The night had a wide range of people and I believe it’s just about chatting; head to the bar and strike up conversation. That’s generally where I meet people or pole dancing

Generally, staying sitting tells me someone doesn’t want to engage in chat so walk around, shoot pool and lean on the bar. Sure it’s just a bad run and next time will be good.

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By *ikerswing OP   Couple
over a year ago

mcr

yup played pool stood at bar wandered around spent time in cples room.lol did all we could .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never take it personal if you feel that you maybe unapproachable, it's their loss, For us we have no expectations, and always say that if things happen with another couple than it's a "brucy bonus" we have two favourite clubs that we mainly attend on couples only nights, as we find is easier to chat and social, x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like that ‘Brucy bonus’

I’ve had many nights where the bar stool is where I stay #sob ... just doesn’t pan out

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By *inderellaRockerfellazCouple
over a year ago

warrington


"hi everyone.before i put this i just want to say this is NOT a validate us please post.

after taking a break for a few years we recently started to go to clubs again having had a couple of nice private meets at home.

but we seem to be having a problem out of 4 club nights we have done both in blackpool and local northwest clubs we havnt been approached once .now i know our age may put a few off but we are in good shape look after ourselves and allways make an effort to look good .she great underwear or pvc dress great figure , he designer boxers allways muscular physique.

we are getting a bit of a complex that we seem or give an impression of dont come near us.we have allways had great fun catting and playing in infusion in blackpool but seem to strike out in local clubs .we know we have to put some effort into starting convos which we do , and cples we have met outside of clubs say we are a hoot to have a night out with.have clubs changed that much in the last few years ? .we were the couple in white on sat night her pvc him calvin boxers if your saw us please give us your impression of our demeanour .all comments taken in good spirit

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Guys please feel free to come chat with myself or other staff at the bar & it makes easier to engage in banter with others around. That way it’s not “approached” or to “approach” - it’s just a natural fun & friendly interaction with other people that may just feel the same way as you guys xxx B

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By *estinysswingersCouple
over a year ago

Worsley

We were there on the 17th. Not sure if you saw us but we always talk to anyone/everyone. Don’t think clubs have changed that much but sometimes can be difficult to break the ice is everyone is chatting etc.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

You say "we haven't been approached once". Why dont next time you take the initiative and try to start a conversation with another couple?

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By *ikerswing OP   Couple
over a year ago

mcr

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By *ikerswing OP   Couple
over a year ago

mcr

lol we did try.and suprised we didnt speek to any guys either .

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By *jones150Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"hi everyone.before i put this i just want to say this is NOT a validate us please post.

after taking a break for a few years we recently started to go to clubs again having had a couple of nice private meets at home.

but we seem to be having a problem out of 4 club nights we have done both in blackpool and local northwest clubs we havnt been approached once .now i know our age may put a few off but we are in good shape look after ourselves and allways make an effort to look good .she great underwear or pvc dress great figure , he designer boxers allways muscular physique.

we are getting a bit of a complex that we seem or give an impression of dont come near us.we have allways had great fun catting and playing in infusion in blackpool but seem to strike out in local clubs .we know we have to put some effort into starting convos which we do , and cples we have met outside of clubs say we are a hoot to have a night out with.have clubs changed that much in the last few years ? .we were the couple in white on sat night her pvc him calvin boxers if your saw us please give us your impression of our demeanour .all comments taken in good spirit

Guys please feel free to come chat with myself or other staff at the bar & it makes easier to engage in banter with others around. That way it’s not “approached” or to “approach” - it’s just a natural fun & friendly interaction with other people that may just feel the same way as you guys xxx B "

Exactly this!

I've had some great meets in clubs after standing and chatting away at the bar with Bruce and the many other great ladies behind it... It seems to make everything a little less awkward and often leads to finding others who are exactly in your situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we’ve seen you twice recently in Cupid’s. We’re fairly new to the scene and just plonked ourselves by the bar, found it easier to chat to folk that were passing by.

We’ve been lucky the last 2 visits that we’d already arranged to meet people in the there which is easier.

When we’d finished playing we just took ourselves off to couples room, watched and played. Found it easier in there if you were talking to similar couples.

Come and say hello next time, can’t miss the Mrs, Blonde!

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