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"Nothing. I do it every time I get my pill." Snap | |||
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"I am surprised how limited and inflexible Manchester is with it since living here, can be a mission trying to arrange appointment and not many places to chose from. " That really surprises me x especially after Manchester’s open and inclusive nature I’m north west based ( not Manchester City centre) and I had several places to choose from all within 15 mile radius x | |||
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"I recently went for my regular checkups It was at my local hospital It was effortless Form to complete x Can be anonymous if you choose x Short wait x In the consulting room - brief chat with the nurse Then onto the bed for visual examination Another health care professional was present for that Then blood sample x Results txted one week later x So for piece of mind and your own sexual health safety - what’s stopping you x" Its not always as easy as that Ive been using a postal service while ive been working away which is great (learned about it on here although i do have to pretend to be under 25 for it) But in Glasgow its usually a 3 month + wait , after at least 40 mins on hold just to make the appointment (reminds me i should have booked smear ages ago!) and even with an appointment probably at least a half day off work with the time you spend in the waiting room and you have to call a results line in a weeks time Before i had moved i actually had started just using the gp as its so much quicker but kind of defeats the purpose of having a sexual health service i guess | |||
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"Lots on here claim to get tested but don't there is a lot of "talk" but less actually going to get tested. " Last time I went the place was totally empty. | |||
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"Lots on here claim to get tested but don't there is a lot of "talk" but less actually going to get tested. Last time I went the place was totally empty. " Only one person in the last time and two people the time before it makes you think. | |||
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"Lots on here claim to get tested but don't there is a lot of "talk" but less actually going to get tested. Last time I went the place was totally empty. Only one person in the last time and two people the time before it makes you think. " I'm jealous. I always have to wait at least an hour at the clinic. | |||
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"Lots on here claim to get tested but don't there is a lot of "talk" but less actually going to get tested. Last time I went the place was totally empty. Only one person in the last time and two people the time before it makes you think. I'm jealous. I always have to wait at least an hour at the clinic." Same here, 45 minute to one hour wait nearly every time no matter what day or time I go. Very surprised to hear about empty waiting rooms elsewhere | |||
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"Lots on here claim to get tested but don't there is a lot of "talk" but less actually going to get tested. " How do you know that? | |||
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"I go at every change of partner or at two year interval as recommended by the clinic. Always get bloods done too. I don't see the point until at least 3 months has passed since the last unprotected sex. That way the test is conclusive. Got 3 Local clinics all with 10 minute drive and its completely painless in out in 30 mins drop in times are on the websites, no appointment necessary Free condoms advice etc and results in usually 10 days by recorded message. Always been clear of everything in 6 tests over 10 years odd. No reason to not get tested regularly.. " even if using condoms should get regular testing. more regular than you state if youre a swinger. not just when you have an accident or bareback sex. condoms decrease chances of catching an std but not eliminate them. going to get tests quarterly would be smart thing to do or more often depending how much you think you could be at risk. | |||
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"In the Midlands you can order yours online via the umbrella organisation. It's free and super easy to do and you get a text with your results! It's easy and awsome." only Birmingham and Solihull, midlands is a huge place i live in the middle of staffordshire but come under stoke on trent 2 separate councils how they deal with it there and here is different. so saying midlands can get them free is incorrect | |||
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"Lots on here claim to get tested but don't there is a lot of "talk" but less actually going to get tested. How do you know that? " How do you know that? How naive are you? I mean it really how naive are you really? The site is full of bullshitters the forums even more so giving lip service with out actually doing what they say. Far too many believe what ever people say on here and other swingers sites. | |||
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"Lots on here claim to get tested but don't there is a lot of "talk" but less actually going to get tested. How do you know that? How do you know that? How naive are you? I mean it really how naive are you really? The site is full of bullshitters the forums even more so giving lip service with out actually doing what they say. Far too many believe what ever people say on here and other swingers sites. " | |||
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"Every 8-10 week, simples. We're so fortunate in the UK as it is free whereas in Spain it costs about €250 for a full check." It costs the NHS £120 per test. | |||
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"We do ours NHS postal " I use the postal ones as well, so much easier! Except the finger prick blood test, I can never make that work so I just chat to my GP when I'm there for something else and get it sorted then. Simple. | |||
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"Not sure how I could get tested via the post? As a previous poster said I'm honest with my sex life to the nurses etc. Most times I go I have blood tests, give wee samples and swabs of my mouth, nose and bum. I occasionally have injections as well but I can never remember what they are for. If the professionals suggest I do something, I will. " Injections are probably for hepatitis prevention, I've had them too, 3 separate injections x | |||
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"Lots on here claim to get tested but don't there is a lot of "talk" but less actually going to get tested. How do you know that? How do you know that? How naive are you? I mean it really how naive are you really? The site is full of bullshitters the forums even more so giving lip service with out actually doing what they say. Far too many believe what ever people say on here and other swingers sites. " I don't believe everyone who says they do it actually do. It's a shame really. It's one thing someone you are meeting lying when you ask but why bother lying on a forum about it rather than simply not posting? I don't get it. I will probably get flamed for saying this, but my opinion is that the people who get tested the least are guys, followed by women, followed by couples. I think the couples generally do it more because there are two of them who knows the other one swings and has unprotected sex with each other, so they are more conscious of what the other one can pass to them. A lot of couples also have children, so they generally get tested more because their swinging can affect their family. That doesn't mean all couples do by any means. I know Data Protection is an issue, but there should be an opt-in service for verifying STI tests online. For example, if I had a random ID like abc123xyz and could give out a pin number to anyone I wanted like 7890, they could go onto a dedicated NHS site, enter the details and it would list test dates and results. Nothing else, no personal names, addresses, locations, etc. As long as this is an opt in service you have to request, it is advertise as a "share your test results with others" type of service so there is no mistake what it is for, and sign a data protection waiver, I see no reason it couldn't be done. It promotes public awareness and sexual responsibility. | |||
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"Lots on here claim to get tested but don't there is a lot of "talk" but less actually going to get tested. How do you know that? How do you know that? How naive are you? I mean it really how naive are you really? The site is full of bullshitters the forums even more so giving lip service with out actually doing what they say. Far too many believe what ever people say on here and other swingers sites. I don't believe everyone who says they do it actually do. It's a shame really. It's one thing someone you are meeting lying when you ask but why bother lying on a forum about it rather than simply not posting? I don't get it. I will probably get flamed for saying this, but my opinion is that the people who get tested the least are guys, followed by women, followed by couples. I think the couples generally do it more because there are two of them who knows the other one swings and has unprotected sex with each other, so they are more conscious of what the other one can pass to them. A lot of couples also have children, so they generally get tested more because their swinging can affect their family. That doesn't mean all couples do by any means. I know Data Protection is an issue, but there should be an opt-in service for verifying STI tests online. For example, if I had a random ID like abc123xyz and could give out a pin number to anyone I wanted like 7890, they could go onto a dedicated NHS site, enter the details and it would list test dates and results. Nothing else, no personal names, addresses, locations, etc. As long as this is an opt in service you have to request, it is advertise as a "share your test results with others" type of service so there is no mistake what it is for, and sign a data protection waiver, I see no reason it couldn't be done. It promotes public awareness and sexual responsibility." Most people get their text results texted to them. Totally respect your scepticism on this but I suppose they could send you a screenshot of their results with the date on etc, however as you know anyone is only as good as their last fuck and that could have been since their last results. However always best playing with people that get tested regularly and practice safe sex anyway otherwise you'd never end up meeting anyone if you know what I mean. | |||
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"Not sure how I could get tested via the post? As a previous poster said I'm honest with my sex life to the nurses etc. Most times I go I have blood tests, give wee samples and swabs of my mouth, nose and bum. I occasionally have injections as well but I can never remember what they are for. If the professionals suggest I do something, I will. Injections are probably for hepatitis prevention, I've had them too, 3 separate injections x " Yes they are for hepatitis. They do this if you have had a lot of partners from outside of Europe. No you wouldn't be able to do yours by post. If they believe you need to be tested for hepatitis they make you go to a clinic unfortunately. | |||
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"Lots on here claim to get tested but don't there is a lot of "talk" but less actually going to get tested. How do you know that? How do you know that? How naive are you? I mean it really how naive are you really? The site is full of bullshitters the forums even more so giving lip service with out actually doing what they say. Far too many believe what ever people say on here and other swingers sites. I don't believe everyone who says they do it actually do. It's a shame really. It's one thing someone you are meeting lying when you ask but why bother lying on a forum about it rather than simply not posting? I don't get it. I will probably get flamed for saying this, but my opinion is that the people who get tested the least are guys, followed by women, followed by couples. I think the couples generally do it more because there are two of them who knows the other one swings and has unprotected sex with each other, so they are more conscious of what the other one can pass to them. A lot of couples also have children, so they generally get tested more because their swinging can affect their family. That doesn't mean all couples do by any means. I know Data Protection is an issue, but there should be an opt-in service for verifying STI tests online. For example, if I had a random ID like abc123xyz and could give out a pin number to anyone I wanted like 7890, they could go onto a dedicated NHS site, enter the details and it would list test dates and results. Nothing else, no personal names, addresses, locations, etc. As long as this is an opt in service you have to request, it is advertise as a "share your test results with others" type of service so there is no mistake what it is for, and sign a data protection waiver, I see no reason it couldn't be done. It promotes public awareness and sexual responsibility. Most people get their text results texted to them. Totally respect your scepticism on this but I suppose they could send you a screenshot of their results with the date on etc, however as you know anyone is only as good as their last fuck and that could have been since their last results. However always best playing with people that get tested regularly and practice safe sex anyway otherwise you'd never end up meeting anyone if you know what I mean. " Oh yes I agree. I mean if I wanted to know if you were getting tested, it would be really personal and feel almost like an attack on you personally of I said I want a screenshot of your results to prove it to me. Although I don't believe half the people who pretend to be tested actually do, I think I would almost be offended by that if they didn't word it well and might not even meet them. An actual official system for verifying results would take that personal attack feeling away. If it was commonplace for people on Fab to say Do you get tested regularly? Yeah of course here are my details to check online, the whole thing is less personal and more the norm or expected thing to do of that makes sense | |||
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"Lots on here claim to get tested but don't there is a lot of "talk" but less actually going to get tested. How do you know that? How do you know that? How naive are you? I mean it really how naive are you really? The site is full of bullshitters the forums even more so giving lip service with out actually doing what they say. Far too many believe what ever people say on here and other swingers sites. I don't believe everyone who says they do it actually do. It's a shame really. It's one thing someone you are meeting lying when you ask but why bother lying on a forum about it rather than simply not posting? I don't get it. I will probably get flamed for saying this, but my opinion is that the people who get tested the least are guys, followed by women, followed by couples. I think the couples generally do it more because there are two of them who knows the other one swings and has unprotected sex with each other, so they are more conscious of what the other one can pass to them. A lot of couples also have children, so they generally get tested more because their swinging can affect their family. That doesn't mean all couples do by any means. I know Data Protection is an issue, but there should be an opt-in service for verifying STI tests online. For example, if I had a random ID like abc123xyz and could give out a pin number to anyone I wanted like 7890, they could go onto a dedicated NHS site, enter the details and it would list test dates and results. Nothing else, no personal names, addresses, locations, etc. As long as this is an opt in service you have to request, it is advertise as a "share your test results with others" type of service so there is no mistake what it is for, and sign a data protection waiver, I see no reason it couldn't be done. It promotes public awareness and sexual responsibility. Most people get their text results texted to them. Totally respect your scepticism on this but I suppose they could send you a screenshot of their results with the date on etc, however as you know anyone is only as good as their last fuck and that could have been since their last results. However always best playing with people that get tested regularly and practice safe sex anyway otherwise you'd never end up meeting anyone if you know what I mean. Oh yes I agree. I mean if I wanted to know if you were getting tested, it would be really personal and feel almost like an attack on you personally of I said I want a screenshot of your results to prove it to me. Although I don't believe half the people who pretend to be tested actually do, I think I would almost be offended by that if they didn't word it well and might not even meet them. An actual official system for verifying results would take that personal attack feeling away. If it was commonplace for people on Fab to say Do you get tested regularly? Yeah of course here are my details to check online, the whole thing is less personal and more the norm or expected thing to do of that makes sense" It's a good point actually and something I'd never thought about before. A history of test dates and results would be good. God knows how it would work in reality, and I like I said before you are only as good as your last sex session, but at least it gives you a good idea if someone is genuine or not. I'm sure most genuine swingers wouldn't object. | |||
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"Lots on here claim to get tested but don't there is a lot of "talk" but less actually going to get tested. How do you know that? How do you know that? How naive are you? I mean it really how naive are you really? The site is full of bullshitters the forums even more so giving lip service with out actually doing what they say. Far too many believe what ever people say on here and other swingers sites. I don't believe everyone who says they do it actually do. It's a shame really. It's one thing someone you are meeting lying when you ask but why bother lying on a forum about it rather than simply not posting? I don't get it. I will probably get flamed for saying this, but my opinion is that the people who get tested the least are guys, followed by women, followed by couples. I think the couples generally do it more because there are two of them who knows the other one swings and has unprotected sex with each other, so they are more conscious of what the other one can pass to them. A lot of couples also have children, so they generally get tested more because their swinging can affect their family. That doesn't mean all couples do by any means. I know Data Protection is an issue, but there should be an opt-in service for verifying STI tests online. For example, if I had a random ID like abc123xyz and could give out a pin number to anyone I wanted like 7890, they could go onto a dedicated NHS site, enter the details and it would list test dates and results. Nothing else, no personal names, addresses, locations, etc. As long as this is an opt in service you have to request, it is advertise as a "share your test results with others" type of service so there is no mistake what it is for, and sign a data protection waiver, I see no reason it couldn't be done. It promotes public awareness and sexual responsibility. Most people get their text results texted to them. Totally respect your scepticism on this but I suppose they could send you a screenshot of their results with the date on etc, however as you know anyone is only as good as their last fuck and that could have been since their last results. However always best playing with people that get tested regularly and practice safe sex anyway otherwise you'd never end up meeting anyone if you know what I mean. Oh yes I agree. I mean if I wanted to know if you were getting tested, it would be really personal and feel almost like an attack on you personally of I said I want a screenshot of your results to prove it to me. Although I don't believe half the people who pretend to be tested actually do, I think I would almost be offended by that if they didn't word it well and might not even meet them. An actual official system for verifying results would take that personal attack feeling away. If it was commonplace for people on Fab to say Do you get tested regularly? Yeah of course here are my details to check online, the whole thing is less personal and more the norm or expected thing to do of that makes sense It's a good point actually and something I'd never thought about before. A history of test dates and results would be good. God knows how it would work in reality, and I like I said before you are only as good as your last sex session, but at least it gives you a good idea if someone is genuine or not. I'm sure most genuine swingers wouldn't object. " id love to be able access my own results with my id number then easy to show playmates and potential ones. plus also piece of mind when had a test i will know when i log in instead of waiting for the test or lack of text forcing me to call and be stuck in the call waiting, like today after 20 mins they answered and hung up on me wasnt best pleased took 10 mins get through again. having access would cut out needing to call about results saving them time dealing with people needing to make appointments or queries | |||
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"Lots on here claim to get tested but don't there is a lot of "talk" but less actually going to get tested. How do you know that? How do you know that? How naive are you? I mean it really how naive are you really? The site is full of bullshitters the forums even more so giving lip service with out actually doing what they say. Far too many believe what ever people say on here and other swingers sites. I don't believe everyone who says they do it actually do. It's a shame really. It's one thing someone you are meeting lying when you ask but why bother lying on a forum about it rather than simply not posting? I don't get it. I will probably get flamed for saying this, but my opinion is that the people who get tested the least are guys, followed by women, followed by couples. I think the couples generally do it more because there are two of them who knows the other one swings and has unprotected sex with each other, so they are more conscious of what the other one can pass to them. A lot of couples also have children, so they generally get tested more because their swinging can affect their family. That doesn't mean all couples do by any means. I know Data Protection is an issue, but there should be an opt-in service for verifying STI tests online. For example, if I had a random ID like abc123xyz and could give out a pin number to anyone I wanted like 7890, they could go onto a dedicated NHS site, enter the details and it would list test dates and results. Nothing else, no personal names, addresses, locations, etc. As long as this is an opt in service you have to request, it is advertise as a "share your test results with others" type of service so there is no mistake what it is for, and sign a data protection waiver, I see no reason it couldn't be done. It promotes public awareness and sexual responsibility. Most people get their text results texted to them. Totally respect your scepticism on this but I suppose they could send you a screenshot of their results with the date on etc, however as you know anyone is only as good as their last fuck and that could have been since their last results. However always best playing with people that get tested regularly and practice safe sex anyway otherwise you'd never end up meeting anyone if you know what I mean. Oh yes I agree. I mean if I wanted to know if you were getting tested, it would be really personal and feel almost like an attack on you personally of I said I want a screenshot of your results to prove it to me. Although I don't believe half the people who pretend to be tested actually do, I think I would almost be offended by that if they didn't word it well and might not even meet them. An actual official system for verifying results would take that personal attack feeling away. If it was commonplace for people on Fab to say Do you get tested regularly? Yeah of course here are my details to check online, the whole thing is less personal and more the norm or expected thing to do of that makes sense" I'm always happy to show people the texts on my phone with my results. As much as I like your idea, with no names or personal details you couldn't really be sure the results were even theirs. | |||
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"I am surprised how limited and inflexible Manchester is with it since living here, can be a mission trying to arrange appointment and not many places to chose from. " This. I still do it, but it's a pain in the arse. | |||
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"Nothing. I do it every time I get my pill." Same here. My local clinic even does home tests kits you can take away with you and freepost for your results within a week. Couldn't be easier. | |||
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"My nearest clinic is over 20 miles away and nearly an hours drive away. Plus £5 parking and an hours drive back home again. It means a half day off work and probably costs about £25. That would put a lot of people of. Not me though, I go every 6 months. " Blimey! That's a big ask. Time is money too so add what your time value is and that'll cone to some charge to you. Lucky for me mine's is a mile away. My last was done one day after work. I got home and just ran there. Was in for about an hour. Didn't have a visual though; I'd have thought that's for the doctor. | |||
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"Anyone who thinks it too personal and unwilling to show a potential meet if asked in my opinion is a red flag. Why wouldn't you want to ease their concerns in a culture where, Gonorrhea is at it highest for over a decade increasing by 16% over previous year and a few other sti have increased as has HIV in certain sectors and area of UK, unless you've something to hide or haven't been tested. After all it's not just about you, it's also about them and any others you're playing with that it effects. The sooner people take this more seriously and realise it's not just about them and their own personal use the better and safer we will all be. The place I go sends results as a txt message and that's why I go there. I have results to show anyone I meet, it also sits a a reminder of when I need to book again. It takes 45 drive and sometimes about an hr wait depending on how busy they are." I have asked a few people to see results and strangely they didn't have them to hand. I think a lot less get tested than say they do. | |||
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"I have asked a few people to see results and strangely they didn't have them to hand. I think a lot less get tested than say they do. " May not be the case. I get tested regularly at local NHS sexual health clinic and get the results via text message. My phone broke down over the weekend and now I'm on a new phone. That means I've lost all the messages, pictures etc that I had on my old phone. Including the test results. So now won't have proof until I get tested next time. | |||
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"I have asked a few people to see results and strangely they didn't have them to hand. I think a lot less get tested than say they do. May not be the case. I get tested regularly at local NHS sexual health clinic and get the results via text message. My phone broke down over the weekend and now I'm on a new phone. That means I've lost all the messages, pictures etc that I had on my old phone. Including the test results. So now won't have proof until I get tested next time." Not all trusts provide the results. They work on the basis that no news is good news. | |||
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"Ahh reading all this I go every week double tests and go for the deluxe test. Honest I do im not just saying that for public perception on here. " Is that on the NHS?? | |||
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" As much as I like your idea, with no names or personal details you couldn't really be sure the results were even theirs. " Yeah ok smart ass That is true | |||
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"I have asked a few people to see results and strangely they didn't have them to hand. I think a lot less get tested than say they do. May not be the case. I get tested regularly at local NHS sexual health clinic and get the results via text message. My phone broke down over the weekend and now I'm on a new phone. That means I've lost all the messages, pictures etc that I had on my old phone. Including the test results. So now won't have proof until I get tested next time." This is why an online system would be better | |||
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"I have asked a few people to see results and strangely they didn't have them to hand. I think a lot less get tested than say they do. May not be the case. I get tested regularly at local NHS sexual health clinic and get the results via text message. My phone broke down over the weekend and now I'm on a new phone. That means I've lost all the messages, pictures etc that I had on my old phone. Including the test results. So now won't have proof until I get tested next time." Some here will say ‘that old chestnut’. I believe you.... Lol. | |||
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"I have asked a few people to see results and strangely they didn't have them to hand. I think a lot less get tested than say they do. May not be the case. I get tested regularly at local NHS sexual health clinic and get the results via text message. My phone broke down over the weekend and now I'm on a new phone. That means I've lost all the messages, pictures etc that I had on my old phone. Including the test results. So now won't have proof until I get tested next time. Not all trusts provide the results. They work on the basis that no news is good news. " Personally I think this is a terrible idea. We do STI testing at my work and have had samples go missing in the post to the lab or people provide incorrect phone numbers so we haven't been able to contact them with their results. | |||
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"I have asked a few people to see results and strangely they didn't have them to hand. I think a lot less get tested than say they do. May not be the case. I get tested regularly at local NHS sexual health clinic and get the results via text message. My phone broke down over the weekend and now I'm on a new phone. That means I've lost all the messages, pictures etc that I had on my old phone. Including the test results. So now won't have proof until I get tested next time." Then get tested again straight away. If you can’t show your results then they don’t exist. | |||
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"I am surprised how limited and inflexible Manchester is with it since living here, can be a mission trying to arrange appointment and not many places to chose from. " Use the web there are loads, granted I go in Salford but it's a dick length away from town. A lot of NHS clinics aren't by appointment, if you go first thing though the wait isn't to long. | |||
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"I have asked a few people to see results and strangely they didn't have them to hand. I think a lot less get tested than say they do. May not be the case. I get tested regularly at local NHS sexual health clinic and get the results via text message. My phone broke down over the weekend and now I'm on a new phone. That means I've lost all the messages, pictures etc that I had on my old phone. Including the test results. So now won't have proof until I get tested next time. Then get tested again straight away. If you can’t show your results then they don’t exist. " I can phone and input my personal id number and it gives you last test results and date | |||
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"I have asked a few people to see results and strangely they didn't have them to hand. I think a lot less get tested than say they do. May not be the case. I get tested regularly at local NHS sexual health clinic and get the results via text message. My phone broke down over the weekend and now I'm on a new phone. That means I've lost all the messages, pictures etc that I had on my old phone. Including the test results. So now won't have proof until I get tested next time. Not all trusts provide the results. They work on the basis that no news is good news. " It's also why you can't trust someone because they can interpret the results as and how they wish. No evidence to say different. Just their word. An online system might work, but I see big problem with giving someone a code to view. Imagine how many people would/could then start using any code given and use that info with another. Whose to say it's really yours? | |||
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"I have asked a few people to see results and strangely they didn't have them to hand. I think a lot less get tested than say they do. May not be the case. I get tested regularly at local NHS sexual health clinic and get the results via text message. My phone broke down over the weekend and now I'm on a new phone. That means I've lost all the messages, pictures etc that I had on my old phone. Including the test results. So now won't have proof until I get tested next time. Not all trusts provide the results. They work on the basis that no news is good news. It's also why you can't trust someone because they can interpret the results as and how they wish. No evidence to say different. Just their word. An online system might work, but I see big problem with giving someone a code to view. Imagine how many people would/could then start using any code given and use that info with another. Whose to say it's really yours?" A code generator thats single use codes would solve that | |||
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"The only thing i dont like about the home tests is it doesnt do the visual checks and not everything is actually tested for. I go every 6 weeks x" Spot on but then if you look at your own cock or fanny wouldn't you see if something is wrong? | |||
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"The only thing i dont like about the home tests is it doesnt do the visual checks and not everything is actually tested for. I go every 6 weeks x Spot on but then if you look at your own cock or fanny wouldn't you see if something is wrong? " You'd think but you might well be surprised. Some don't recognise nor even understand going by the number that don't get tested here. | |||
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"The only thing i dont like about the home tests is it doesnt do the visual checks and not everything is actually tested for. I go every 6 weeks x Spot on but then if you look at your own cock or fanny wouldn't you see if something is wrong? " a cock maybe but I cant really say I look inside myself | |||
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"My nearest clinic is over 20 miles away and nearly an hours drive away. Plus £5 parking and an hours drive back home again. It means a half day off work and probably costs about £25. That would put a lot of people of. Not me though, I go every 6t months. " you can text or phone them or just drop in and get a free home testing kit with free postage to send it back. | |||
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"Get tested every 6 weeks in Southport. Great clinic, they know all about my "Lisa" life. Its always best to be honest about your sex life when you go. " I would want to be too open to be honest, telling them I had 12 cocks in a space of 48hrs. Mind much prefer talking to a gay doctor. | |||
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"Do some chemist now prescribe certain medicine for STIs now?" Most of them have always done this service | |||
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"Not sure how I could get tested via the post? As a previous poster said I'm honest with my sex life to the nurses etc. Most times I go I have blood tests, give wee samples and swabs of my mouth, nose and bum. I occasionally have injections as well but I can never remember what they are for. If the professionals suggest I do something, I will. Injections are probably for hepatitis prevention, I've had them too, 3 separate injections x Yes they are for hepatitis. They do this if you have had a lot of partners from outside of Europe. No you wouldn't be able to do yours by post. If they believe you need to be tested for hepatitis they make you go to a clinic unfortunately. " That makes sense, every time I go there they always ask about my trips to South East Asia. I go every couple of years as a friend of mine runs motorcycle tours in Thailand. I get to ride around Vietnam, Loas, Burma and Thailand at a very very good deal. But of course everyone thinks I go there for other reasons | |||
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"Ahh reading all this I go every week double tests and go for the deluxe test. Honest I do im not just saying that for public perception on here. " Me too. Daily tests. | |||
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"its only an mot lol,ive just had one done for peace of mind reasons (always burn)" Oh no poor you | |||
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"I go regular and also tell them I'm a swinger .I have the blood test and throat swab everytime. Sexual health is very important to me. " I always said I was a swinger too. Just cause it’s easier to answer the questions if you’re blunt! Mrs | |||
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"Anyone who thinks it too personal and unwilling to show a potential meet if asked in my opinion is a red flag. Why wouldn't you want to ease their concerns in a culture where, Gonorrhea is at it highest for over a decade increasing by 16% over previous year and a few other sti have increased as has HIV in certain sectors and area of UK, unless you've something to hide or haven't been tested. After all it's not just about you, it's also about them and any others you're playing with that it effects. The sooner people take this more seriously and realise it's not just about them and their own personal use the better and safer we will all be. The place I go sends results as a txt message and that's why I go there. I have results to show anyone I meet, it also sits a a reminder of when I need to book again. It takes 45 drive and sometimes about an hr wait depending on how busy they are. I have asked a few people to see results and strangely they didn't have them to hand. I think a lot less get tested than say they do. " I have a text message also as 'evidence'. You'd probably have to formally request results but a negative on a 'recent' text message should help a great deal. Nevertheless, they could still carry an STD as the test is only as good as last visit. Regular testing though indicates seriousness of the matter so perhaps a red flag if someone is not tested. | |||
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"I go regular and also tell them I'm a swinger .I have the blood test and throat swab everytime. Sexual health is very important to me. " Mmm...not sure I'd need a throat swab but definately a mouth swab next time. I just have urine and blood taken. | |||
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"I recently went for my regular checkups It was at my local hospital It was effortless Form to complete x Can be anonymous if you choose x Short wait x In the consulting room - brief chat with the nurse Then onto the bed for visual examination Another health care professional was present for that Then blood sample x Results txted one week later x So for piece of mind and your own sexual health safety - what’s stopping you x Its not always as easy as that Ive been using a postal service while ive been working away which is great (learned about it on here although i do have to pretend to be under 25 for it) But in Glasgow its usually a 3 month + wait , after at least 40 mins on hold just to make the appointment (reminds me i should have booked smear ages ago!) and even with an appointment probably at least a half day off work with the time you spend in the waiting room and you have to call a results line in a weeks time Before i had moved i actually had started just using the gp as its so much quicker but kind of defeats the purpose of having a sexual health service i guess" Loads of clinics in Glasgow doing drop ins you really shouldn’t be waiting 3 months where are you going just now | |||
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"I recently went for my regular checkups It was at my local hospital It was effortless Form to complete x Can be anonymous if you choose x Short wait x In the consulting room - brief chat with the nurse Then onto the bed for visual examination Another health care professional was present for that Then blood sample x Results txted one week later x So for piece of mind and your own sexual health safety - what’s stopping you x" :- Eureka, in Kent. ‘Bi night’. Have qualified nurses present, once a month. Test for everything and have lots of advice, all for free. Totally discreet and quick results. | |||
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"After reading about the postal tests i thought i would look it up as can be a nightmare getting an appointment locally.(usually travel as easier to get an appointment). I couldnt find a full sti check postal. Just a chalmidia screening " They don't all do them! It's so annoying. My area just does postal screening for chlamydia but only for people under 25 | |||
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"I use the NHS postal service. Only problem I find is the filling of the blood pot can be tricky with a lancet but other than that it’s efficient and i can do it in my one time. " yep have the same problem clots before the pot is full. | |||
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"I use the NHS postal service. Only problem I find is the filling of the blood pot can be tricky with a lancet but other than that it’s efficient and i can do it in my one time. yep have the same problem clots before the pot is full. " I find it a struggle to get the blood from the finger to the pot.. literally end up with blood everywhere | |||
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"I use the NHS postal service. Only problem I find is the filling of the blood pot can be tricky with a lancet but other than that it’s efficient and i can do it in my one time. yep have the same problem clots before the pot is full. " Put your hand in warm water before attempting it, dilates the vessels meaning more blood flow before it clots. Cold constricts the blood vessels | |||
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"I recently went for my regular checkups It was at my local hospital It was effortless Form to complete x Can be anonymous if you choose x Short wait x In the consulting room - brief chat with the nurse Then onto the bed for visual examination Another health care professional was present for that Then blood sample x Results txted one week later x So for piece of mind and your own sexual health safety - what’s stopping you x Its not always as easy as that Ive been using a postal service while ive been working away which is great (learned about it on here although i do have to pretend to be under 25 for it) But in Glasgow its usually a 3 month + wait , after at least 40 mins on hold just to make the appointment (reminds me i should have booked smear ages ago!) and even with an appointment probably at least a half day off work with the time you spend in the waiting room and you have to call a results line in a weeks time Before i had moved i actually had started just using the gp as its so much quicker but kind of defeats the purpose of having a sexual health service i guess Loads of clinics in Glasgow doing drop ins you really shouldn’t be waiting 3 months where are you going just now " Sandyford ... they run all NHS sexual services in greater glasgow and stopped their drop ins years ago Both myself and my flatmate have regularly waited that long regularly for the last few years for testing, smears and contraception They did send out consultations recently in changing the appointment system / times / types because they know its not working Terrence higgins offer a drop in but its aimed at gay men and therefore only equipped for them too... urine samples rather than swabs, no bowl to use because guys can aim in the tube etc etc | |||
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"I recently went for my regular checkups It was at my local hospital It was effortless Form to complete x Can be anonymous if you choose x Short wait x In the consulting room - brief chat with the nurse Then onto the bed for visual examination Another health care professional was present for that Then blood sample x Results txted one week later x So for piece of mind and your own sexual health safety - what’s stopping you x Its not always as easy as that Ive been using a postal service while ive been working away which is great (learned about it on here although i do have to pretend to be under 25 for it) But in Glasgow its usually a 3 month + wait , after at least 40 mins on hold just to make the appointment (reminds me i should have booked smear ages ago!) and even with an appointment probably at least a half day off work with the time you spend in the waiting room and you have to call a results line in a weeks time Before i had moved i actually had started just using the gp as its so much quicker but kind of defeats the purpose of having a sexual health service i guess Loads of clinics in Glasgow doing drop ins you really shouldn’t be waiting 3 months where are you going just now Sandyford ... they run all NHS sexual services in greater glasgow and stopped their drop ins years ago Both myself and my flatmate have regularly waited that long regularly for the last few years for testing, smears and contraception They did send out consultations recently in changing the appointment system / times / types because they know its not working Terrence higgins offer a drop in but its aimed at gay men and therefore only equipped for them too... urine samples rather than swabs, no bowl to use because guys can aim in the tube etc etc " That is shocking! No one should need to wait that length of time, normally people wanting to get checked have a good reason for it. And need it done sooner rather than later | |||
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"They have emergency appointments for people with symptoms where I think you get seen in a few days but yep it’s months wait other than that " The good thing about sexual health clinics is you can attend any clinic doesn't have to be local. If you travel regularly you can attend one and can be done anonymously. Check out ones in areas you frequent and they usually have websites giving details of their clinics they run and times and whether you need to make appointment or not. If you travel you have more options to sexual health services. | |||
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"Lots on here claim to get tested but don't there is a lot of "talk" but less actually going to get tested. Last time I went the place was totally empty. Only one person in the last time and two people the time before it makes you think. I'm jealous. I always have to wait at least an hour at the clinic." I actually think we were sat opposite each other there the other month. Lol Small world. | |||
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"I recently went for my regular checkups It was at my local hospital It was effortless Form to complete x Can be anonymous if you choose x Short wait x In the consulting room - brief chat with the nurse Then onto the bed for visual examination Another health care professional was present for that Then blood sample x Results txted one week later x So for piece of mind and your own sexual health safety - what’s stopping you x Its not always as easy as that Ive been using a postal service while ive been working away which is great (learned about it on here although i do have to pretend to be under 25 for it) But in Glasgow its usually a 3 month + wait , after at least 40 mins on hold just to make the appointment (reminds me i should have booked smear ages ago!) and even with an appointment probably at least a half day off work with the time you spend in the waiting room and you have to call a results line in a weeks time Before i had moved i actually had started just using the gp as its so much quicker but kind of defeats the purpose of having a sexual health service i guess Loads of clinics in Glasgow doing drop ins you really shouldn’t be waiting 3 months where are you going just now Sandyford ... they run all NHS sexual services in greater glasgow and stopped their drop ins years ago Both myself and my flatmate have regularly waited that long regularly for the last few years for testing, smears and contraception They did send out consultations recently in changing the appointment system / times / types because they know its not working Terrence higgins offer a drop in but its aimed at gay men and therefore only equipped for them too... urine samples rather than swabs, no bowl to use because guys can aim in the tube etc etc " Yup maybe this is why my clinic always empty the no drop in service anymore unless you’re under 18 it’s all by appointments but I’m ok because I have appointment for other services in clinic and usually always a slot available if need be because they also do emergency service which isn’t even used, pretty shocking though considering the vast amount of people being sexually explorative these days and more access to sites where online hook ups make finding sex easier | |||
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"id happily go to a clinic with anyone and get tested or if tested recently ring them on speaker phone and have them confirm them. il happily hold anyones hand if they are scared to go alone to a clinic. they dont realise they can go to any clinic anonymously all the clinic needs is a phone number a valid one. im not embarrassed to be seen in a clinic its being responsible and sex is natural shouldnt be frowned upon. also accidents happen and shouldnt be ashamed of them. if a person is scared about the potential results and not want to be alone il hold their hand and be there for them. since the clinic will inform you that youd need to come in, not sure if they would ring or text you this. but either way accidents happen only people who should be ashamed of themselves are people deliberately spreading stds." Love this, such a great attitude and so compassionate and caring. I wish I had someone to hold my hand the first time I went, I felt embarrassed. | |||
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"id happily go to a clinic with anyone and get tested or if tested recently ring them on speaker phone and have them confirm them. il happily hold anyones hand if they are scared to go alone to a clinic. they dont realise they can go to any clinic anonymously all the clinic needs is a phone number a valid one. im not embarrassed to be seen in a clinic its being responsible and sex is natural shouldnt be frowned upon. also accidents happen and shouldnt be ashamed of them. if a person is scared about the potential results and not want to be alone il hold their hand and be there for them. since the clinic will inform you that youd need to come in, not sure if they would ring or text you this. but either way accidents happen only people who should be ashamed of themselves are people deliberately spreading stds. Love this, such a great attitude and so compassionate and caring. I wish I had someone to hold my hand the first time I went, I felt embarrassed. " I was 12 the first time I went. I was so embarrassed when the Indian doctor sent me behind the curtain to produce a urune sample I couldn't go. Anyway, I said to him I couldn't and he said "Dry! Dry!" which I said "I am rather, yes." but I got there in the end. Later on I realised that the doctor was insisting that I "Try! Try!" and not asking if I was empty. I almost pissed myself laughing. | |||
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"id happily go to a clinic with anyone and get tested or if tested recently ring them on speaker phone and have them confirm them. il happily hold anyones hand if they are scared to go alone to a clinic. they dont realise they can go to any clinic anonymously all the clinic needs is a phone number a valid one. im not embarrassed to be seen in a clinic its being responsible and sex is natural shouldnt be frowned upon. also accidents happen and shouldnt be ashamed of them. if a person is scared about the potential results and not want to be alone il hold their hand and be there for them. since the clinic will inform you that youd need to come in, not sure if they would ring or text you this. but either way accidents happen only people who should be ashamed of themselves are people deliberately spreading stds. Love this, such a great attitude and so compassionate and caring. I wish I had someone to hold my hand the first time I went, I felt embarrassed. I was 12 the first time I went. I was so embarrassed when the Indian doctor sent me behind the curtain to produce a urune sample I couldn't go. Anyway, I said to him I couldn't and he said "Dry! Dry!" which I said "I am rather, yes." but I got there in the end. Later on I realised that the doctor was insisting that I "Try! Try!" and not asking if I was empty. I almost pissed myself laughing. " You had an std test when you were 12? | |||
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"id happily go to a clinic with anyone and get tested or if tested recently ring them on speaker phone and have them confirm them. il happily hold anyones hand if they are scared to go alone to a clinic. they dont realise they can go to any clinic anonymously all the clinic needs is a phone number a valid one. im not embarrassed to be seen in a clinic its being responsible and sex is natural shouldnt be frowned upon. also accidents happen and shouldnt be ashamed of them. if a person is scared about the potential results and not want to be alone il hold their hand and be there for them. since the clinic will inform you that youd need to come in, not sure if they would ring or text you this. but either way accidents happen only people who should be ashamed of themselves are people deliberately spreading stds. Love this, such a great attitude and so compassionate and caring. I wish I had someone to hold my hand the first time I went, I felt embarrassed. I was 12 the first time I went. I was so embarrassed when the Indian doctor sent me behind the curtain to produce a urune sample I couldn't go. Anyway, I said to him I couldn't and he said "Dry! Dry!" which I said "I am rather, yes." but I got there in the end. Later on I realised that the doctor was insisting that I "Try! Try!" and not asking if I was empty. I almost pissed myself laughing. You had an std test when you were 12? " Yep. I was fuckin clueless and it was a different time back then. I had a urinary tracht infection from wanking so much or so hard or something or other and I had a little discharge so I went. It was good few years before I even had sex and just didn't have a clue. | |||
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"id happily go to a clinic with anyone and get tested or if tested recently ring them on speaker phone and have them confirm them. il happily hold anyones hand if they are scared to go alone to a clinic. they dont realise they can go to any clinic anonymously all the clinic needs is a phone number a valid one. im not embarrassed to be seen in a clinic its being responsible and sex is natural shouldnt be frowned upon. also accidents happen and shouldnt be ashamed of them. if a person is scared about the potential results and not want to be alone il hold their hand and be there for them. since the clinic will inform you that youd need to come in, not sure if they would ring or text you this. but either way accidents happen only people who should be ashamed of themselves are people deliberately spreading stds. Love this, such a great attitude and so compassionate and caring. I wish I had someone to hold my hand the first time I went, I felt embarrassed. " If I could have I would have. I'm not embarrassed to go but what used to go through my mind is the episode of shameless where they go the clinic and Veronica starts talking about a woman in the clinic. It's not nice but that's what I thought happened when I went the clinic someone thinking "oh who would fuck her ... ugly cow" Now I don't care what people think when I go even if they see me there regularly. It's empowering I'd say taking control of your sexual health, knowing you're being responsible about it. Some people can go through many feelings visiting a clinic. Be it embarrassment or scared or feeling stupid that youd need to be there and even angry at the situation thats took them there. But it helps with a supporting person you won't feel you're going through it alone. Also someone there for you if it's walk in clinic and the wait is hours, someone who can keep you company and not go insane from the daytime tv crap on a tiny screen I know for some it's hard to ask a family member or friend so il be a support happily. | |||
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"I am surprised how limited and inflexible Manchester is with it since living here, can be a mission trying to arrange appointment and not many places to chose from. " Much agreed try to get an appointment and they are like finding rocking horse shit allegedly they aren't possible only other option is to sit in waiting room for hours and watch people with appointments go in before you apparently appointments can be made for certain circumstances but not told what they are I guessed it was for the regulars from what I saw, I did eventually manage it however and it was quick and very efficient polar opposite to the process of trying to get in the room | |||
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"We go to our local clinic where we are registered, all we do is leave a water sample in a box. Then they notify you by txt if everything is ok or you need to go in to see anyone." Urine sample can't be used to test for everything. That's why swabs are done and bloods taken. I suggest asking about making appointments for a full screen. All you'd be tested for with urine is chlamydia and gonorrhea I'd hazard a guess probably only the chlamydia though. Even though syphilis is bacterial it doesn't show in urine tests. Even blood tests it's only up to 86% accurate at 90 days after infection. | |||
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"We go to our local clinic where we are registered, all we do is leave a water sample in a box. Then they notify you by txt if everything is ok or you need to go in to see anyone. Urine sample can't be used to test for everything. That's why swabs are done and bloods taken. I suggest asking about making appointments for a full screen. All you'd be tested for with urine is chlamydia and gonorrhea I'd hazard a guess probably only the chlamydia though. Even though syphilis is bacterial it doesn't show in urine tests. Even blood tests it's only up to 86% accurate at 90 days after infection. " We get those done aswell we’ve been tested for everything and we get tested regular. | |||
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"New Croft Centre in Newcastle great, walk in service quick fast can be a pain i know if you ar gay as your not allowed to use quick service as stated on the form not 100% sure why, as I still get tested for HIV they just don't discuss it. But quick walk in pee in a cup and then few quick question and bloods. Got the results in 24 hours but they advice up to a week. " Appalled they don't allow gay people to use quick service. I wouldn't be happy about that at all. Assuming would apply to bisexuals also. The tests are the same, the advice is the same. So why on earth do they feel they can refuse?!? I'm dumbfounded by this it's discriminatory to refuse services of this nature because of sexuality surely!? It's not like it's a gay man trying get a smear test is it. But testing which would be the same whether straight guy or gay guy | |||
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"New Croft Centre in Newcastle great, walk in service quick fast can be a pain i know if you ar gay as your not allowed to use quick service as stated on the form not 100% sure why, as I still get tested for HIV they just don't discuss it. But quick walk in pee in a cup and then few quick question and bloods. Got the results in 24 hours but they advice up to a week. Appalled they don't allow gay people to use quick service. I wouldn't be happy about that at all. Assuming would apply to bisexuals also. The tests are the same, the advice is the same. So why on earth do they feel they can refuse?!? I'm dumbfounded by this it's discriminatory to refuse services of this nature because of sexuality surely!? It's not like it's a gay man trying get a smear test is it. But testing which would be the same whether straight guy or gay guy " If you are that appalled why don't you contact them and find out the full facts before you start slagging off the service as discriminating. They may offer a better service for gay men that is more appropriate to their needs. Don't forget to feedback what you find out. | |||
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"New Croft Centre in Newcastle great, walk in service quick fast can be a pain i know if you ar gay as your not allowed to use quick service as stated on the form not 100% sure why, as I still get tested for HIV they just don't discuss it. But quick walk in pee in a cup and then few quick question and bloods. Got the results in 24 hours but they advice up to a week. Appalled they don't allow gay people to use quick service. I wouldn't be happy about that at all. Assuming would apply to bisexuals also. The tests are the same, the advice is the same. So why on earth do they feel they can refuse?!? I'm dumbfounded by this it's discriminatory to refuse services of this nature because of sexuality surely!? It's not like it's a gay man trying get a smear test is it. But testing which would be the same whether straight guy or gay guy If you are that appalled why don't you contact them and find out the full facts before you start slagging off the service as discriminating. They may offer a better service for gay men that is more appropriate to their needs. Don't forget to feedback what you find out." I wont be ringing them as i cant use their services since the fact im several hours away from that clinic. Why cant someone who is not heterosexual use the quick services? What difference does it make doing the tests? My local clinic has special clinics for LGBTQ teens on saturdays at a different venue. Thats the only difference, walk in accepts all and appointments everyone is accepted. Regardless of gender or sexuality theres even staff on hand to deal with LGBTQ related info and support. Id assume that straight clinic would still offer barebackers PrEP same as they would a gay man and Hep B vaccine just the same. Medical tests dont make a difference what sexuality you have. | |||
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"New Croft Centre in Newcastle great, walk in service quick fast can be a pain i know if you ar gay as your not allowed to use quick service as stated on the form not 100% sure why, as I still get tested for HIV they just don't discuss it. But quick walk in pee in a cup and then few quick question and bloods. Got the results in 24 hours but they advice up to a week. Appalled they don't allow gay people to use quick service. I wouldn't be happy about that at all. Assuming would apply to bisexuals also. The tests are the same, the advice is the same. So why on earth do they feel they can refuse?!? I'm dumbfounded by this it's discriminatory to refuse services of this nature because of sexuality surely!? It's not like it's a gay man trying get a smear test is it. But testing which would be the same whether straight guy or gay guy If you are that appalled why don't you contact them and find out the full facts before you start slagging off the service as discriminating. They may offer a better service for gay men that is more appropriate to their needs. Don't forget to feedback what you find out." | |||
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"New Croft Centre in Newcastle great, walk in service quick fast can be a pain i know if you ar gay as your not allowed to use quick service as stated on the form not 100% sure why, as I still get tested for HIV they just don't discuss it. But quick walk in pee in a cup and then few quick question and bloods. Got the results in 24 hours but they advice up to a week. Appalled they don't allow gay people to use quick service. I wouldn't be happy about that at all. Assuming would apply to bisexuals also. The tests are the same, the advice is the same. So why on earth do they feel they can refuse?!? I'm dumbfounded by this it's discriminatory to refuse services of this nature because of sexuality surely!? It's not like it's a gay man trying get a smear test is it. But testing which would be the same whether straight guy or gay guy If you are that appalled why don't you contact them and find out the full facts before you start slagging off the service as discriminating. They may offer a better service for gay men that is more appropriate to their needs. Don't forget to feedback what you find out. I wont be ringing them as i cant use their services since the fact im several hours away from that clinic. Why cant someone who is not heterosexual use the quick services? What difference does it make doing the tests? My local clinic has special clinics for LGBTQ teens on saturdays at a different venue. Thats the only difference, walk in accepts all and appointments everyone is accepted. Regardless of gender or sexuality theres even staff on hand to deal with LGBTQ related info and support. Id assume that straight clinic would still offer barebackers PrEP same as they would a gay man and Hep B vaccine just the same. Medical tests dont make a difference what sexuality you have." Mixed clinics make sense but a separate male only or female only should cover most people whatever their orientation. I am straight and can't really speak for the LGBTQ community but I do wonder what the majority of them prefer? I think the most flexible options for all should be everyone's aim so there are no barriers to them getting tested and that will encourage more people to attend across the board. | |||
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"Not every clinic sends texts. Some operate a no news is good news policy" That's why those are only good for the person going and of no value to others unless they completely trust you, which generally isn't a fab trait. For those who say they go every two months or less, there are a number of STIs that don't show much before 3 months and my clinic said it was of no benefit going more frequently unless you were suddenly concerned, and then you'd need a second test to be 100% sure. Again why I go out of my way to visit the clinic further away that does send by txt as this helps with it not being just my word. | |||
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"Lots on here claim to get tested but don't there is a lot of "talk" but less actually going to get tested. " I insist on seeing the text message with their results. When you’re a prolific swinger the minimum testing time is 12 weeks. I’ve heard many people say they’ve had their annual test . That’s mad. | |||
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"Lots on here claim to get tested but don't there is a lot of "talk" but less actually going to get tested. " We get tested regularly 3 to 6 months generally and always willing to share the txt message with anyone thinking of playing. | |||
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"After reading about the postal tests i thought i would look it up as can be a nightmare getting an appointment locally.(usually travel as easier to get an appointment). I couldnt find a full sti check postal. Just a chalmidia screening " You need to go in to the clinic and pick it up from there then you are free to go home. In the pack you have pots for your urine samples and a separate pot for blood you even get a lancette to prick your finger. | |||
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"I'm lucky enough to have a NHS walk in clinic close by. No appointments and just takes 20 mins. " Off for mine next week, no walk in, just a call to make appointment. No fuss, no hassle. | |||
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"Lots on here claim to get tested but don't there is a lot of "talk" but less actually going to get tested. Last time I went the place was totally empty. " Last time I went it was absolutely rammed with people and I had to wait for ages. Due to go back soon but I'll make an appointment rather than go to the drop in this time. | |||
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"I am surprised how limited and inflexible Manchester is with it since living here, can be a mission trying to arrange appointment and not many places to chose from. " Rubbish. I work in the nhs and the sexual health centre on hathersage road is a walk in centre. No appointment necessary. | |||
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"Nothing. We do it every 3 months although we’ve recently changed to doing the home testing kits - even easier " How does that work then? Do you take the blood yourself with a syringe from you arm like the doctors do? I am intrigued. | |||
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"Nothing. We do it every 3 months although we’ve recently changed to doing the home testing kits - even easier How does that work then? Do you take the blood yourself with a syringe from you arm like the doctors do? I am intrigued. " Does the test check for herpes syphilis etc? Or just HIV | |||
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"Nothing. We do it every 3 months although we’ve recently changed to doing the home testing kits - even easier How does that work then? Do you take the blood yourself with a syringe from you arm like the doctors do? I am intrigued. " It's a finger prick. Fill the bottle up that way. | |||
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"Nothing. We do it every 3 months although we’ve recently changed to doing the home testing kits - even easier How does that work then? Do you take the blood yourself with a syringe from you arm like the doctors do? I am intrigued. Does the test check for herpes syphilis etc? Or just HIV " chlamydia, gonorrhoea, syphilis & HIV | |||
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"How much are the home kits and the best place to get them from?" Free. If you type in SH24 onto the search engine it should come up. Not sure if I'm allowed to post the Web address | |||
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"I always get my ones on line, so the test and you get the results back in about 5/10 days via a simple text message. Don’t think everywhere is covered by the people I use (Essex), but I would not be without my peace of mind.....and come on....it’s not hard....a small prick (on the finger), pee in tune.....and you have the knowledge your healthy! I think this service should be available to everyone free of charge. Those who don’t get tested.....may as well go play chicken on the M1! " There are those who do! | |||
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"How much are the home kits and the best place to get them from? Free. If you type in SH24 onto the search engine it should come up. Not sure if I'm allowed to post the Web address " Thank you. Dont always have the time to go to the clinic and booking time off work to do so eats too much into holiday allowance. | |||
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