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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Looking at peoples pictures alot of them are showing bare back sex. Is this common nature as thought safe sex was the way to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than likely they are with their partner in the photos we have bareback sex together but don't do it with others

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By *teve261970Man
over a year ago

Gateshead

What you'll find when they are bareback photos is that they'll say they're with partner, ex-partner husband etc, but they don't do that on meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If safer sex is the way to go, the population is fucked.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"More than likely they are with their partner in the photos we have bareback sex together but don't do it with others "

Oh rite ok. Just that some pics look different people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If safer sex is the way to go, the population is fucked. "

Why that then. Thought it was all about safe sex when swinging?

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By *anes HubbyCouple
over a year ago

Babbacombe Torquay

Then the obvious answer would be to avoid the people who's profiles offend you

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester


"Looking at peoples pictures alot of them are showing bare back sex. Is this common nature as thought safe sex was the way to go"

Its hilarious because when you say you don't play with barebackers they say they don't do it but they clearly are advertising it.

The reality is 90% are stolen photos and the sad fuckers claim its an ex which it isn't.

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

Partner will obviously be bareback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking at peoples pictures alot of them are showing bare back sex. Is this common nature as thought safe sex was the way to go

Its hilarious because when you say you don't play with barebackers they say they don't do it but they clearly are advertising it.

The reality is 90% are stolen photos and the sad fuckers claim its an ex which it isn't. "

I don't know where you get that figure from, you are pretty much calling 90% of bareback photos stolen.

We have bareback photos of ourselves having sex on this profile and both our single profiles. They are of us both together and definitely not stolen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brilliant pics too x

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester


"Looking at peoples pictures alot of them are showing bare back sex. Is this common nature as thought safe sex was the way to go

Its hilarious because when you say you don't play with barebackers they say they don't do it but they clearly are advertising it.

The reality is 90% are stolen photos and the sad fuckers claim its an ex which it isn't.

I don't know where you get that figure from, you are pretty much calling 90% of bareback photos stolen.

We have bareback photos of ourselves having sex on this profile and both our single profiles. They are of us both together and definitely not stolen."

9/10 people messaging with them have been so far that even with simple mathematics skills equate to 90%. There are so many sad fuckers on here who aren't genuine its sad really.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Let's all just worry about ourselves.

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By *ave-and-LouiseCouple
over a year ago

Torquay

We have some up on friends pics, but every bareback pic of us is US, Louise and Dave, and we've been together for over 15 years and have both been regularly tested, since we've been swinging at least. Bareback pics, especially on a couple's profile, doesn't necessarily mean they've been doing that or will do that with anyone else.

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By *anana JoeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Pictures do say a lot about people I guess.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"Looking at peoples pictures alot of them are showing bare back sex. Is this common nature as thought safe sex was the way to go"

Why are you here judging if people are happy to play BB it's there prerogative ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would agree that every picture people have of bareback on their profiles is usually with their partner , although lots of men like to ask for bareback I will say...... I just tell them that’s not me....

Safe is the way forward unless you would like something nasty... each to their own though if they want to do it let them , just don’t be a part of it and move onto the next person.....

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead


"Looking at peoples pictures alot of them are showing bare back sex. Is this common nature as thought safe sex was the way to go

Its hilarious because when you say you don't play with barebackers they say they don't do it but they clearly are advertising it.

The reality is 90% are stolen photos and the sad fuckers claim its an ex which it isn't.

I don't know where you get that figure from, you are pretty much calling 90% of bareback photos stolen.

We have bareback photos of ourselves having sex on this profile and both our single profiles. They are of us both together and definitely not stolen.

9/10 people messaging with them have been so far that even with simple mathematics skills equate to 90%. There are so many sad fuckers on here who aren't genuine its sad really. "

I agree with you and the real 10% the chances of meeting them is probably only 1% so odds are stacked against us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can of worms this lol. Literally too among other things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With the rise of PrEP offered for free on the NHS (Pre Exposure Prophylaxis - an antiviral pill which effectively prevents HIV infection), and immunisation (injections) against Hepatitis A and B and HPV/Warts, more people are barebacking than ever.

I had a conversation about this with a sexual health nurse. Apparently when the scheme was first introduced about 2 years ago, there was an initial increase in STIs, but then this decreased to lower than before. They think that this is because to receive PrEP, users have to have a full sexual health screen every 3 months, so most infections are getting caught early before they can spread amongst the most promiscuous people. Also, thanks to PrEP, new HIV diagnoses are down 38%, which is a huge reduction. This effect will likely increase as PrEP is expanded across the NHS to groups more at risk.

Of course, even with PrEP the advice is to use a condom as it doesn't protect you against Syphilis, Gonorrhea or Chlamydia. Luckily these are treated with a single course of antibiotics. It offers some protection against Herpes - about a 30% reduction in chances of catching, though I wouldn't bank on that - remember Herpes is for life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With the rise of PrEP offered for free on the NHS (Pre Exposure Prophylaxis - an antiviral pill which effectively prevents HIV infection), and immunisation (injections) against Hepatitis A and B and HPV/Warts, more people are barebacking than ever.

I had a conversation about this with a sexual health nurse. Apparently when the scheme was first introduced about 2 years ago, there was an initial increase in STIs, but then this decreased to lower than before. They think that this is because to receive PrEP, users have to have a full sexual health screen every 3 months, so most infections are getting caught early before they can spread amongst the most promiscuous people. Also, thanks to PrEP, new HIV diagnoses are down 38%, which is a huge reduction. This effect will likely increase as PrEP is expanded across the NHS to groups more at risk.

Of course, even with PrEP the advice is to use a condom as it doesn't protect you against Syphilis, Gonorrhea or Chlamydia. Luckily these are treated with a single course of antibiotics. It offers some protection against Herpes - about a 30% reduction in chances of catching, though I wouldn't bank on that - remember Herpes is for life. "

There was some sort of super gonorrhoea (i think) going round leeds a couple of years ago though. Supposedly resistant to everything.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Looking at peoples pictures alot of them are showing bare back sex. Is this common nature as thought safe sex was the way to go

Why are you here judging if people are happy to play BB it's there prerogative ...

"

I don't see him judging, he's not said its wrong, just asking a question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless you're on a couples profile i don't want to see pictures of you with another bb or not. Op make it clear what you want but don't necessarily judge by photos many reasons why and asking gives you insight rather than assuming

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By *hongguyMan
over a year ago

heckmondwike

bitch bitch bitch bitch bitch what a sad place this as become

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With the rise of PrEP offered for free on the NHS (Pre Exposure Prophylaxis - an antiviral pill which effectively prevents HIV infection), and immunisation (injections) against Hepatitis A and B and HPV/Warts, more people are barebacking than ever.

I had a conversation about this with a sexual health nurse. Apparently when the scheme was first introduced about 2 years ago, there was an initial increase in STIs, but then this decreased to lower than before. They think that this is because to receive PrEP, users have to have a full sexual health screen every 3 months, so most infections are getting caught early before they can spread amongst the most promiscuous people. Also, thanks to PrEP, new HIV diagnoses are down 38%, which is a huge reduction. This effect will likely increase as PrEP is expanded across the NHS to groups more at risk.

Of course, even with PrEP the advice is to use a condom as it doesn't protect you against Syphilis, Gonorrhea or Chlamydia. Luckily these are treated with a single course of antibiotics. It offers some protection against Herpes - about a 30% reduction in chances of catching, though I wouldn't bank on that - remember Herpes is for life.

There was some sort of super gonorrhoea (i think) going round leeds a couple of years ago though. Supposedly resistant to everything. "

Yes I asked about that. Apparently it comes from tourists in Portugal. Its not resistant to everything. You just need to stay in hospital for iv med.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


"Looking at peoples pictures alot of them are showing bare back sex. Is this common nature as thought safe sex was the way to go"

I would only have bareback with my husband.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because you cant see a condom doesnt always mean there isnt one. I hate seeing condoms in photos so always try to use photos where it cant be seen.

If that makes people think everyone I meet is bareback then I honestly couldnt care less

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

Even more naive is thinking because you see a condom they’ve never had, or don’t have, bare sex.

People who only meet people with condom only pics and thinking they are ‘safe’ are living in a world of delusion

All you can do is do what you want to feel comfortable with your chosen level of risk, taking into account the only safe sex is no sex, relying on pictures on profiles has no basis in reality

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By *inkerbell67Woman
over a year ago

Clacton on sea essex

I do owo but have safe sex ,it puts me off when guys send me pics of them having unprotected sex so i dont bother to reply ..

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I do owo but have safe sex ,it puts me off when guys send me pics of them having unprotected sex so i dont bother to reply .."

same here..

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I do owo but have safe sex ,it puts me off when guys send me pics of them having unprotected sex so i dont bother to reply .."

Isn’t oral as risky as bareback in catching a disease?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a TV/ CD profile on here with loads of verifications from straight men and loads of bareback pics of all different dicks. Must be a big exchange of diseases going on.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"There is a TV/ CD profile on here with loads of verifications from straight men and loads of bareback pics of all different dicks. Must be a big exchange of diseases going on."

Why are you looking at TV/CD profiles when you have no interest in them ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a TV/ CD profile on here with loads of verifications from straight men and loads of bareback pics of all different dicks. Must be a big exchange of diseases going on.

Why are you looking at TV/CD profiles when you have no interest in them ?"

Following strings of verifications, it can be quite a journey and you unveil so much

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By *edonismproMan
over a year ago

Essex


"I do owo but have safe sex ,it puts me off when guys send me pics of them having unprotected sex so i dont bother to reply ..

Isn’t oral as risky as bareback in catching a disease? "

No, it isn't. And risks associated with unprotected sex range from a 40% transmission rate for chlamydia to 0.04% for HIV.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do owo but have safe sex ,it puts me off when guys send me pics of them having unprotected sex so i dont bother to reply ..

Isn’t oral as risky as bareback in catching a disease?

No, it isn't. And risks associated with unprotected sex range from a 40% transmission rate for chlamydia to 0.04% for HIV."

I hate posts likes yours because you make it sound like barebacking with someone has a 40% chance of getting chlamydia. When it is nowhere near that number.

I am in Scotland so I will use figures generated in Scotland 2014/2015

Lets say there is approximately 2 million adult men in Scotland. Roughly 6000 cases of chlamydia in men were reported in Scotland in 2015

So for me as a female if I had bareback sex with a man I would statistically have a 0.003% chance of meeting someone with Chlamydia and then a 40% chance of actually getting it myself.

This doesnt even take into consideration 68% of those infected were under the age of 25 and I dont meet men that young. And I imagine the central belt of Scotland has a higher risk than where I live.

So its all very good sprouting off percentages you found from google but actually working out the information can show something completely different.

PS my maths actually sucks so I could be a little wrong but my point still stands that the chances of getting an STD through bareback sex if you are careful with who you play with is not even close to what many people on here seem to think.

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By *edonismproMan
over a year ago

Essex

Alright, I should have said at the outset that those are the transmission rates not taking into account the probability of having unprotected sex with a person with the disease. I was actually trying to make the same point as you - i.e people think the diseases are far easier to catch than they actually are.

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

Bareback, like everything else in life, is an informed choice. Consenting adults can do what they please. I do play bareback and still alive and in one piece.

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