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By *histler OP   Man
over a year ago

Guildford

So lots of threads about what to say. I thought I’d go one further and see what people thought about the last message I sent. No names in here so anonymity protected. Here goes...

I love the poses in your pics. Maybe it’s that your body looks delicious. Either way the reaction is good.

I’m a lips man and yours look so nice. Like to think I’m a good kisser and I can imagine kissing you. A lot.

Trying to choose a favourite pic. Think it’s the one on 30 May. Love the red outfit. Close call with the first pic as you’ve got a really sexy look.

Then there’s your profile. You sound cool and fun. I’m the same as you, not looking for notches. I love the build up, finding out more about someone and going from there.

Come say hi x

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By *histler OP   Man
over a year ago

Guildford

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By *histler OP   Man
over a year ago

Guildford

Face pics were also sent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the lady of the couple, if I read that...WOW!

It appears to me, personally, that as well as perusing the pics, you have made an effort to read the profile.

My only one, small criticism, maybe picked out a specific point or two from the profile, and added your own opinion?

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By *histler OP   Man
over a year ago

Guildford


"As the lady of the couple, if I read that...WOW!

It appears to me, personally, that as well as perusing the pics, you have made an effort to read the profile.

My only one, small criticism, maybe picked out a specific point or two from the profile, and added your own opinion?"

Thanks!

Fair comment. Wasn’t loads to go on but definitely try to do that as much as possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me personally I'd find it a bit too much of an overkill. Compliments are nice but you sounds very, very keen which would unsettle me.

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By *histler OP   Man
over a year ago

Guildford


"For me personally I'd find it a bit too much of an overkill. Compliments are nice but you sounds very, very keen which would unsettle me. "

Hmm, but you’d want some compliments in the initial mail?

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"For me personally I'd find it a bit too much of an overkill. Compliments are nice but you sounds very, very keen which would unsettle me.

Hmm, but you’d want some compliments in the initial mail?"
thing is op we’ve heard them all before on here.

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By *histler OP   Man
over a year ago

Guildford


"For me personally I'd find it a bit too much of an overkill. Compliments are nice but you sounds very, very keen which would unsettle me.

Hmm, but you’d want some compliments in the initial mail? thing is op we’ve heard them all before on here. "

Yeah, I can imagine that you get people saying that all the time.

So if not compliments what would you like to hear as often the reason someone wants to chat/meet is going to be linked to those compliments...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would delete. It’s too much, too soon. Not even introduced and you’re saying you are imagining kissing. You’ll be better off saying. “ I see you go to the following clubs, which one do you prefer?”

Wait for a few messages in before you start saying what you would like to do. Yes it’s a sex site but the majority of people want to know if there’s a connection before they want to play. So always start with normal chat first.

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By *histler OP   Man
over a year ago

Guildford


"We would delete. It’s too much, too soon. Not even introduced and you’re saying you are imagining kissing. You’ll be better off saying. “ I see you go to the following clubs, which one do you prefer?”

Wait for a few messages in before you start saying what you would like to do. Yes it’s a sex site but the majority of people want to know if there’s a connection before they want to play. So always start with normal chat first. "

Nice advice. Thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope that helps. Just think you are chatted up the pretty blonde girl at work. You wouldn’t just rush in, you’d take your time. It’s exactly the same here. Patience has better rewards.

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By *histler OP   Man
over a year ago

Guildford

Definitely following your advice on this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me personally I'd find it a bit too much of an overkill. Compliments are nice but you sounds very, very keen which would unsettle me. "

This Op.

Over kill

It feels false.

Be yourself always Op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me personally I'd find it a bit too much of an overkill. Compliments are nice but you sounds very, very keen which would unsettle me. "

This .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’ve got a good profile with a good selection of pictures, as people have said “be yourself” . At least you have taken the effort to read said profile. Also don’t be to presumptuous on what you would like to do to them , let the women suggest to you what they would you to do . Recon you’ll be fine on Fab fella

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By *histler OP   Man
over a year ago

Guildford


"You’ve got a good profile with a good selection of pictures, as people have said “be yourself” . At least you have taken the effort to read said profile. Also don’t be to presumptuous on what you would like to do to them , let the women suggest to you what they would you to do . Recon you’ll be fine on Fab fella "

Maybe that is being myself. I’m screwed! Lol

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