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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What are the signs that my wife is bi(curious) in and out of the bedroom?

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Visiting Blackpool

She’ll probably say she fancies Women as well as Men

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"She’ll probably say she fancies Women as well as Men "

She is very shy and body concious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are the signs that my wife is bi(curious) in and out of the bedroom? "
she's always out with her best friend,she cuts her hair shorter and wears jeans a lot

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

She may have some redness around the lips and lipstick on her pussy

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Are you suspicious or hopeful, op? Simplest way is to talk to her about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She may have some redness around the lips and lipstick on her pussy "
lol that could be a guy these days as you well know

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you suspicious or hopeful, op? Simplest way is to talk to her about it. "

I am suspocious. As she is very shy

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Does she know you're bisexual ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What are the signs that my wife is bi(curious) in and out of the bedroom? she's always out with her best friend,she cuts her hair shorter and wears jeans a lot "

She does like to go out with one friend in particular and does get dressed up when they do go out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does she know you're bisexual ?"
you've gotta me miss Marple tell me I'm right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does she know you're bisexual ?you've gotta me miss Marple tell me I'm right "
be

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does she know you're bisexual ?"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are the signs that my wife is bi(curious) in and out of the bedroom? she's always out with her best friend,she cuts her hair shorter and wears jeans a lot

She does like to go out with one friend in particular and does get dressed up when they do go out."
see I'm right knew it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What are the signs that my wife is bi(curious) in and out of the bedroom? she's always out with her best friend,she cuts her hair shorter and wears jeans a lot

She does like to go out with one friend in particular and does get dressed up when they do go out.see I'm right knew it "

?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She may have some redness around the lips and lipstick on her pussy "

OP is frantically checking his cat for any signs of lipstick and hoping like crazy that he can find some!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have kids and i work away alot so would be hard for a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have kids and i work away alot so would be hard for a meet"
She meets at hers

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.


"She may have some redness around the lips and lipstick on her pussy

OP is frantically checking his cat for any signs of lipstick and hoping like crazy that he can find some! "

Great, now I’ve just spat out all over my phone....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have kids and i work away alot so would be hard for a meetShe meets at hers "

Shes a divourcee with kids aswell

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"We have kids and i work away alot so would be hard for a meet"

Would be hard for her to meet or hard for you to meet as a couple ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have kids and i work away alot so would be hard for a meet

Would be hard for her to meet or hard for you to meet as a couple ?"

For her

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


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She does like to go out with one friend in particular and does get dressed up when they do go out."

Maybe she is dressing to attract men when she goes out and not her friend?

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs

Does she enjoy the music of kd lang?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does she enjoy the music of kd lang? "

Shes only 30

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how are we suppose to know ?? your married to her ask her ... simple enough ??

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Visiting Blackpool


"how are we suppose to know ?? your married to her ask her ... simple enough ??"
Good call....ask her

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"Does she enjoy the music of kd lang?

Shes only 30"

I wasn’t aware that kd had age limits

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have tried but she blanks it off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does she enjoy the music of kd lang?

Shes only 30

I wasn’t aware that kd had age limits "

Whats kd got to do with being bi

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By *heEpicureanMan
over a year ago

Warminster


"What are the signs that my wife is bi(curious) in and out of the bedroom? "

This may blow your mind but......sit with her and ask “are you attracted to other women?” I’m not one to judge but if you can ask a forum of strangers but not your wife then you’re a wrongun

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"Does she enjoy the music of kd lang?

Shes only 30

I wasn’t aware that kd had age limits

Whats kd got to do with being bi "

About as much as someone dressing up to go out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does she enjoy the music of kd lang?

Shes only 30

I wasn’t aware that kd had age limits

Whats kd got to do with being bi

About as much as someone dressing up to go out "

She does like billie eilish music

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Visiting Blackpool

You could ask her along the lines “excuse the random question, I wondered if you fancy Women as well as Men”. We’d love to know the answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does she enjoy the music of kd lang?

Shes only 30

I wasn’t aware that kd had age limits

Whats kd got to do with being bi

About as much as someone dressing up to go out

She does like billie eilish music "
she's definitely bi then case solved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why the labels or inferences...just have fun..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why the labels or inferences...just have fun.."

Just curious to know what to look out for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

She does like billie eilish music she's definitely bi then case solved "

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By *coxy69Man
over a year ago

Stone


"Why the labels or inferences...just have fun..

Just curious to know what to look out for "

Why keep guessing, ask her, but once you have asked be prepared for the answer, if she is, great if not, great.

After that let it go

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By *ravelling TogMan
over a year ago

sleaford

Without knowing your wife at all and going off the fact you've said you e tried to raise it and she blanks it off then I'd say drop it.

If she doesn't want to talk about it to you then asking a bunch of people who don't know her isn't going to give you your answer.

If you keep pushing it you could end up driving a wedge in your relationship.

Just enjoy each other and accept her for her. If she is then she'll tell you in time.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Why does it matter to you if she is bi or not ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why does it matter to you if she is bi or not ?"

Just so i know what to expect

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By *ravelling TogMan
over a year ago

sleaford


"Just so i know what to expect"

Do you think she's going to mutate?

Her being bi or not doesn't change who she is.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"What are the signs that my wife is bi(curious) in and out of the bedroom? "

If you can't have the conversation in which you can ask her this question and be confident that she will give you a truthful answer, work on your relationship until you can.

Signs and jokey suggestions from blokes on the net aren't the way forward

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What are the signs that my wife is bi(curious) in and out of the bedroom?

If you can't have the conversation in which you can ask her this question and be confident that she will give you a truthful answer, work on your relationship until you can.

Signs and jokey suggestions from blokes on the net aren't the way forward"

Thank you for your advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put a dish in front of her, if she starts licking it you have your answer

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

You need to have a talk with her.

Assuming she’s bi just because she’s shy, a divorcee with kids and because she likes to dress up when she goes out (with a friend) is not the way forward.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is what she put No I don’t fancy women as well as men but some women are attractive

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"This is what she put No I don’t fancy women as well as men but some women are attractive"

You can find someone of the same sex attractive. It doesn’t mean you want to boff them.

It’s like admiring a fancy sports car. You can enjoy the bodywork but you know you wouldn’t want to drive it cos the legroom would be shite.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"This is what she put No I don’t fancy women as well as men but some women are attractive"

I'm as straight as it's possible to be but I can appreciate that some women are attractive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for clearing that up

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"This is what she put No I don’t fancy women as well as men but some women are attractive"

Yeah, she's not bi then.

If you already asked her and she answered, why are you asking us?

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"What are the signs that my wife is bi(curious) in and out of the bedroom?

If you can't have the conversation in which you can ask her this question and be confident that she will give you a truthful answer, work on your relationship until you can.

Signs and jokey suggestions from blokes on the net aren't the way forward"

I swear I read some stuff from women on this thread. Must have been wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does she enjoy the music of kd lang? "

I do and not a bi bone in my body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PS - doubt she is dressing to the nines for her friend OP

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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago

lanarkshire


"Are you suspicious or hopeful, op? Simplest way is to talk to her about it. "

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By *ambo1450Man
over a year ago

Newport

Ask her when she’s turned on, whilst you’re fucking her etc..... my Mrs has told me quite a lot during sex....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask her when she’s turned on, whilst you’re fucking her etc..... my Mrs has told me quite a lot during sex.... "

L once shouted out her PIN number during a powerful orgasm (hopefully that was the reason why she was calling me a bastard) That was probably the most lucrative 3 minutes of sex I've ever had!

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"Ask her when she’s turned on, whilst you’re fucking her etc..... my Mrs has told me quite a lot during sex....

L once shouted out her PIN number during a powerful orgasm (hopefully that was the reason why she was calling me a bastard) That was probably the most lucrative 3 minutes of sex I've ever had! "

Brilliant

My ambition is to get someone to shout out their long number across the middle of the card; the expert date; and the last three figures on the back of the card.

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs

Expiry date

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By *upergirthukMan
over a year ago

Liverpool UK


"Why the labels or inferences...just have fun..

Just curious to know what to look out for "

Stop pissing about and ask her. If she is, she is, if she's not, she's not. What does it matter anyway?

The sooner you know, the sooner you can adjust but you need to look at your relationship if you can't talk to her. That's how my marriage ended up and petered out. Good luck.

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