FabSwingers.com forum: Open relationship

By *rworldwide2000 OP Man
over a year ago

wakefield

My partner and I are in an open relationship. We both have separate fab profiles. She does very well in fab. However I can’t seem to meet anyone. Any ideas or suggestions gratefully recieved.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Why did it take your partner two years to verify you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in simple terms your partner is female you are male ...females in demand ... males a plenty

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"in simple terms your partner is female you are male ...females in demand ... males a plenty"

Simples lol + the veri ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"in simple terms your partner is female you are male ...females in demand ... males a plenty"
This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also adjust your profile bio it all seems to be about your wife & hardly about you

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By *harliebbwWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

me and my partner are in the same boat ish. he has a fab profile can't remember the last time he logged on. we also have a couples profile. but he fines his meets on... a social network site. but still in the last 2 years he has only met 3 people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My partner and I are in an open relationship. We both have separate fab profiles. She does very well in fab. However I can’t seem to meet anyone. Any ideas or suggestions gratefully recieved. "

Your partner is stunning no wonder she does very well.

It's never easy for single men online.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Hello! Just seen this. To address the issue of why it’s taken me two years to verify is that he made an account but never used it (echoes what the lady further up says) where as I’m obsessed with the forums (read: nosey lil beggar!) and get hundreds of messages (as all ladies do) so am here allll dayyyy lol.

It’s very hard for single men as there’s absolutely so many of them, also it takes a lot of time and effort to build up connections and friendships/relationships. That’s where events kick in. A chance to meet people. I’ve been on here years too.

Ps. Welcome to the forum. Xx

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

Maybe you should get to some clubs and events with your partner.

Also spend a bit of time on the forums

Anything that gets you better known.

Your partner is hot. She’s probably with you for a reason

Bottom line is though, it’s so much more like hard work for guys to get sex.

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By *OXO2018Couple
over a year ago

Norfolk

We used to be the same.

It’s because your a guy, MrXOXO had the same experience sadly. He’d approach women get chatting and dare to suggest they meet up for some fun most women would either block him, call him pushy, only be looking for ladies, couples or not meeting atm...

Then we got a joint profile and the fun hasn’t stopped

MrsXOXO

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By *ntraditionalwomanWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Get the feeling its a competition. Its not one you are going to win i fear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My partner and I are in an open relationship. We both have separate fab profiles. She does very well in fab. However I can’t seem to meet anyone. Any ideas or suggestions gratefully recieved. "
it's difficult to say really could be the beard could be the Mike can I ask are you a stand up comedian?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To ‘do well’ on here, you have to put in the effort and it can become a full time job. We all know there are a lot of hot guys on here and the 437:1 ratio can make it hard to get noticed. That said I know some guys who are experts here. Attending socials and clubs and making sure you mingle is the best way forward. There are a couple of threads to follow with pointers.

You’re in the lucky position of being in a great social circle of Fab royalty. If you put the effort in you’ll start to get more meets.

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By *orny daddy 22Man
over a year ago

barry south wales

"Hello! Just seen this. To address the issue of why it’s taken me two years to verify is that he made an account but never used it (echoes what the lady further up says) where as I’m obsessed with the forums (read: nosey lil beggar!) and get hundreds of messages (as all ladies do) so am here allll dayyyy lol.

Ps. Welcome to the forum. Xx

well said xx

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I think your profile is just a bit sparse but it is a lot harder for men on here,I'm sure your partner could give you some advice on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having known the OP and his partner for some time now. I have to say it's difficult for single guys on here. Like someone said further up you are in a very good position having such a great circle of friends and been the partner of a fab celebrity.

Get to some of the socials and get involved in the forums.

It's like been out with fab Royalty when going out with her.

She is with you for a reason and you should take advantage of that. Have a look on my bio.

At the bottom there's some great advice for single guys on here. Happy Fabbing my friend

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness

"My partner and I are in an open relationship. We both have separate fab profiles. She does very well in fab. However I can’t seem to meet anyone. Any ideas or suggestions gratefully recieved. "

The mathematics of supply and demand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think your profile is just a bit sparse but it is a lot harder for men on here,I'm sure your partner could give you some advice on your profile."
I looked at yours and it's very sparse lol

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

"in simple terms your partner is female you are male ...females in demand ... males a plenty"

I'm going to guess that Mrworldwide is aware of the dynamic on FAB, who isn't? I think what he's after is advise to help increase his chances.

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By *c-ukMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

Its an open relationship, she can shag who she wants and you cant..

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Its an open relationship, she can shag who she wants and you cant..

Yes. That’s deffo how it works

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By *otfabcouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

As the male half of the couple, 99.9% of the interest in her not me lol

It's just the way of the world I'm afraid, ladies pretty much hold all the cards!

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Fab mathematics... Women pretty much have the ability to choose who they meet. Men must put in the effort to be the one out of 20 who a lady decides to reply to when she opens her inbox after a long day at work.

Also some women won't meet married men, including those of us in open marriages.

Any man here needs to sell himself, think of your profile as a shop window.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Also i thought that it was against fab rules for spouses/partners to veri each other?

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Also i thought that it was against fab rules for spouses/partners to veri each other? "

Is it? Didn’t know that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just keep hanging in there mate it took me a while but now it’s ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also i thought that it was against fab rules for spouses/partners to veri each other?

Is it? Didn’t know that. "

When you varify someone this wording comes up on an unverified profile

"Please think before verifying. Verification ticks are really important. If you verify a fake or an account of your own, you'll be banned."

It says nothing about verification for your partner you just can't varify your own e.g. a couples profile running alongside two singles profile .

Correct me if I'm mistaken.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

When the wife and I first joined it was certainly in the site rules that spouses/partners should not verify each other.

I don't see it in the FAQ, now so perhaps it's changed? Personally I think it should be permitted so partners can confirm "yes, I'm happy for my partner to see others"

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"When the wife and I first joined it was certainly in the site rules that spouses/partners should not verify each other.

I don't see it in the FAQ, now so perhaps it's changed? Personally I think it should be permitted so partners can confirm "yes, I'm happy for my partner to see others" "

That was my reasoning behind it. So many women labelling everyone a cheater. Would rather be honest about the situation

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I think your profile is just a bit sparse but it is a lot harder for men on here,I'm sure your partner could give you some advice on your profile.I looked at yours and it's very sparse lol "

No dopey it's just hidden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think your profile is just a bit sparse but it is a lot harder for men on here,I'm sure your partner could give you some advice on your profile.I looked at yours and it's very sparse lol

No dopey it's just hidden

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really doc where's snow white tonight?

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

Become a tgirl and you will be inundated with men

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By *asteregg01Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Why didnt you go to Quest with your partner on Saturday night?

She could have introduced you to a lot of people.

I think that meeting people face to face is probably the best way forward.

Or if your partner arranges another South Leeds social, then attend that to meet people.

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By *asteregg01Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My partner and I are in an open relationship. We both have separate fab profiles. She does very well in fab. However I can’t seem to meet anyone. Any ideas or suggestions gratefully recieved. "

Same here mate, however it’s just how fab is. Get yourself out into the real world you will do much better.

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By *ill4cherMan
over a year ago

Bristol

"Have a look on my bio. At the bottom there's some great advice for single guys on here. Happy Fabbing my friend "

And damn good advice it is too

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By *empsey and hotpieceMan
over a year ago

North west

"As the male half of the couple, 99.9% of the interest in her not me lol

It's just the way of the world I'm afraid, ladies pretty much hold all the cards! "

This

I know it’s always kim that attracts people, not me, if I was single or in an open relationship, I’d be in the same boat as the OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As the male half of the couple, 99.9% of the interest in her not me lol

It's just the way of the world I'm afraid, ladies pretty much hold all the cards!

This

I know it’s always kim that attracts people, not me, if I was single or in an open relationship, I’d be in the same boat as the OP"

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs

You appear to have just realised you’re getting the shit end of the stick here.

Not much you can do about it sadly - thank your lucky stars you’ve got a hot woman (occasionally) to be with and do other things which relieve the frustration. Walking is very good, as is basket weaving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My partner and I are in an open relationship. We both have separate fab profiles. She does very well in fab. However I can’t seem to meet anyone. Any ideas or suggestions gratefully recieved. "

Try meeting men like her that will multiply your options tenfold

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Just remembered this thread.

Happy to report that he’s much happier and involved in the scene now.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

"Just remembered this thread.

Happy to report that he’s much happier and involved in the scene now.

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By *uilder506Man
over a year ago

bognor

"My partner and I are in an open relationship. We both have separate fab profiles. She does very well in fab. However I can’t seem to meet anyone. Any ideas or suggestions gratefully recieved. "

Grow some flaps and a pair of boobs that’s the only way to get the same as her

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By *rworldwide2000 OP Man
over a year ago

wakefield

It’s defiantly hard work as a male but that hard work does paid off. I have learnt a lot and made some cracking new friends on the way.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

We just keep one couples profile then it’s very clear and no suspicion, I do fine on here, Mrs is obviously inundated, but most just get bulk deleted, just focus on getting to know people rather than sex. You sound a nice guy ( if Mrs N Stars says so you must be!) but you profile isn’t very good

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Just remembered this thread.

Happy to report that he’s much happier and involved in the scene now.

I’m genuinely pleased it’s working out.

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By *aughty_builder87Man
over a year ago

Keston

Glad it worked out for you in the end. Hopefully eventually it does for me also. In the same boat you was. Any tips?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just remembered this thread.

Happy to report that he’s much happier and involved in the scene now.

Yeah great to see him ..We miss you both

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By *rworldwide2000 OP Man
over a year ago

wakefield

"Glad it worked out for you in the end. Hopefully eventually it does for me also. In the same boat you was. Any tips?"

Got to have lots of trust in your relationship. Without that it won’t work.

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By *aughty_builder87Man
over a year ago

Keston

"Glad it worked out for you in the end. Hopefully eventually it does for me also. In the same boat you was. Any tips?

Got to have lots of trust in your relationship. Without that it won’t work. "

Trust is definitely not an issue. Just waiting for light at the end of the covid tunnel

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I'd meet you (again) in a heartbeat

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My partner and I are in an open relationship. We both have separate fab profiles. She does very well in fab. However I can’t seem to meet anyone. Any ideas or suggestions gratefully recieved. "

Have you guys thought about creating a couples profile. It opens a lot of doors. ...

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"My partner and I are in an open relationship. We both have separate fab profiles. She does very well in fab. However I can’t seem to meet anyone. Any ideas or suggestions gratefully recieved.

Have you guys thought about creating a couples profile. It opens a lot of doors. ..."

We did at a point but was pretty quiet. Might give it another go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My partner and I are in an open relationship. We both have separate fab profiles. She does very well in fab. However I can’t seem to meet anyone. Any ideas or suggestions gratefully recieved.

Have you guys thought about creating a couples profile. It opens a lot of doors. ...

We did at a point but was pretty quiet. Might give it another go "

Keep going never know until u step into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your partner seems to have posted a pic in the past few days having fun with another guy. That would worry me.

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich

"Your partner seems to have posted a pic in the past few days having fun with another guy. That would worry me."

Why? They are in a open relationship and swingers, its clearly not a problem for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your partner seems to have posted a pic in the past few days having fun with another guy. That would worry me."

Then you clearly don't understand swinging and / or open relationship's.

This probably isn't the site for you.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Your partner seems to have posted a pic in the past few days having fun with another guy. That would worry me."

You know what swinging is right?

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"Your partner seems to have posted a pic in the past few days having fun with another guy. That would worry me."

This is a swinging site you know. They also have an open relationship.

I suggest you never swing with someone you have feelings for if posting a picture of her with another guy would worry you.

Maybe you need to take a step bank and think if swinging really is for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not the fact of the other guy that would bother me. It's the intimate fun they're clearly having.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I thought swinging was intimate fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take a look at the pic before posting any more criticism.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read it was about wife swapping that's how it all started.

Yes, I agree it's about having fun fun fun in an intimate way.

When covid is over mind you.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Take a look at the pic before posting any more criticism."

I wasn't criticising you. I was just giving you my definition of swinging.

I can't find the profile.

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By *rworldwide2000 OP Man
over a year ago

wakefield

"It's not the fact of the other guy that would bother me. It's the intimate fun they're clearly having."

It might surprise you to learn the picture doesn’t concern me in the slightest. I knew before she went where she was going and what was going to happen. It had my blessing as it would if the roles were reversed.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"It's not the fact of the other guy that would bother me. It's the intimate fun they're clearly having."

Sorry dude, this is not meant in an offensive way so hope you don't take it that way but I think you might be on the wrong site.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I think this thread is all getting a bit out of hand.

People play in different ways. Some people wouldn’t dream of playing without their partner, some build their whole lifestyle around it etc etc.

So long as everyone is happy and everyone is safe then crack on everyone.

Happy swinging x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your partner seems to have posted a pic in the past few days having fun with another guy. That would worry me."

There's lots of pictures with GG and myself. All with the full consent of her partner. It's never been a problem to them and they are one of my bestie couples and very good friends with myself and my partner. What suits one person doesn't always suit another. We are all wired differently.Good job really

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"It's not the fact of the other guy that would bother me. It's the intimate fun they're clearly having."

Huh? It's swinging. What don't you understand?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1this was us when we had a seperate profiles. She's the pretty one with titts, and I'm not everyone's taste. Cos she was getting flooded inboxes, we deleted it. Just stick to our couples profile now.

But it is 100 men to 1 woman on here lol

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich

"It's not the fact of the other guy that would bother me. It's the intimate fun they're clearly having."

Joins a swinging site but cant get his head round people swinging?

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I’m in an open relationship, just the wife doesn’t know it yet.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"It's not the fact of the other guy that would bother me. It's the intimate fun they're clearly having."

This isn’t Match.com?

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