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By *urly1234uk OP   Man
over a year ago

EASTBOURNE

Strongly thinking about deleting my account as just not getting anywhere here tbh

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Probably best.

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By *urly1234uk OP   Man
over a year ago

EASTBOURNE

Thanks

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Bye then. Have fun.

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

[Removed by poster at 11/08/19 06:55:36]

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Strongly thinking about deleting my account as just not getting anywhere here tbh

"

No stay think about it give your self time xxxx

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax


"Strongly thinking about deleting my account as just not getting anywhere here tbh

"

Your profile needs some work as to what you are looking for etc. Read other profiles & see what they put .

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By *urly1234uk OP   Man
over a year ago

EASTBOURNE

I have tried but don’t know what to say really tbh so maybe I’ll give it one last week and see

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

Did you go to the recent Hastings and Sussex socials OP? that's your solution.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I wouldn't bother mate. If, after a couple of years this isn't working for you why prolong it? Just cut the strings and try something else.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I have tried but don’t know what to say really tbh so maybe I’ll give it one last week and see "

Yes stay x

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By *urly1234uk OP   Man
over a year ago

EASTBOURNE

Set up account few years ago but didn’t bother then but yes you are right thanks

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Just hide it, take a wee break and then you can come back. Look around at other successful mens profiles and see how their profile looks.

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax


"Just hide it, take a wee break and then you can come back. Look around at other successful mens profiles and see how their profile looks. "

Good advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't bother mate. If, after a couple of years this isn't working for you why prolong it? Just cut the strings and try something else."

Don't be so mean

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"I wouldn't bother mate. If, after a couple of years this isn't working for you why prolong it? Just cut the strings and try something else.

Don't be so mean "

It's not being mean. It's being realistic. If something isnt working then why do it? Unless of course this post is a 'oh please stay' one. Fab is supposed to be fun. The OP has said he's thinking of leaving...his choice.

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Isn’t it said that insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, but expecting different results?

Maybe change your approach rather than give up entirely.

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Get yourself a woman to swing with you’ll have loads more fun on here then , it’s too hard for men on here apart from a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried going to a club? Great fun getting to know folk.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"I wouldn't bother mate. If, after a couple of years this isn't working for you why prolong it? Just cut the strings and try something else.

Don't be so mean

It's not being mean. It's being realistic. If something isnt working then why do it? Unless of course this post is a 'oh please stay' one. Fab is supposed to be fun. The OP has said he's thinking of leaving...his choice."

Exactly, but we all know the people that really do want to leave just do it without announcing it.

If every one just replied to the attention seeking threads

" Ok then, off you fuck"

people would stop doing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Strongly thinking about deleting my account as just not getting anywhere here tbh

"

You don't have to delete just hibernate it and hide it. You will lose any verifications you have if you delete and it may be hard to get one if you return so just hide it and have a break rather than delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going by the green arrow OP you’ve asked for advice a few times.

You’re the only person who can make the changes needed to make your time in Fab more successful.

V

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!

Ok guys,we need to stop this continued exodus of frustrated males from the site.I propose we draw up a list of whose turn it is to take one for the team

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"Just hide it, take a wee break and then you can come back. Look around at other successful mens profiles and see how their profile looks. "

Good advice.

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Going by the green arrow OP you’ve asked for advice a few times.

You’re the only person who can make the changes needed to make your time in Fab more successful.

V"

This!! You’ve been on threads for advice & don’t seem to have taken much on board

I can’t give you any profile advice as you haven’t asked for it (fab rules) - but you’ve been given the advice of checking the profiles of other, successful males. This is sound advice!

You’ve also had the recommendations of going to clubs. You can play one on one in clubs; you don’t have to play at all - but it will get you into a swinging environment where you will meet real people, get some social veri’s, maybe even find a club buddy.

You get out what you put in, especially for single guys.

No one knows exact ratios, but it’s somewhere in the region of 100 guys to every single female. Not all of those are looking for guys either. If you want to succeed, you need to stand out, or branch out into clubs & socials.

If you can’t do that, then maybe Fab isn’t for you!

Good luck OP!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Strongly thinking about deleting my account as just not getting anywhere here tbh

"

Where do you want to get

Why delete

It's a patient situation on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Strongly thinking about deleting my account as just not getting anywhere here tbh

You don't have to delete just hibernate it and hide it. You will lose any verifications you have if you delete and it may be hard to get one if you return so just hide it and have a break rather than delete. "

It's not hard to get people to re verify I seen it on profiles loads of times. Just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Going by the green arrow OP you’ve asked for advice a few times.

You’re the only person who can make the changes needed to make your time in Fab more successful.

V

This!! You’ve been on threads for advice & don’t seem to have taken much on board

I can’t give you any profile advice as you haven’t asked for it (fab rules) - but you’ve been given the advice of checking the profiles of other, successful males. This is sound advice!

You’ve also had the recommendations of going to clubs. You can play one on one in clubs; you don’t have to play at all - but it will get you into a swinging environment where you will meet real people, get some social veri’s, maybe even find a club buddy.

You get out what you put in, especially for single guys.

No one knows exact ratios, but it’s somewhere in the region of 100 guys to every single female. Not all of those are looking for guys either. If you want to succeed, you need to stand out, or branch out into clubs & socials.

If you can’t do that, then maybe Fab isn’t for you!

Good luck OP!"

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