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its the apparently age old profile advice question

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By *oonytoon OP   Man
over a year ago

derby

I've been on this site just over a month now and apart from the odd polite decline and friend request followed by deletion which I'm guessing is to see my private photos I don't seem to be managing to even engage in conversation let alone anything else which I presume is down to the content of my profile so help is now needed...

I am an intelligent bloke that isn't the worst looking person and don't have problems in the standard world and its not like I don't have a sense of humour or the confidence to talk as I'm in sales and marketing so do it on a daily basis for a living....so any tips, advice or constructive critisism would be most welcome thank you

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury

maybe a variation from the cock pics might help your profile is ok so its not that but you are a single male on here which means the odds are stacked against you from the start i have male friends on here who have been on months and still not got a meet so dont be disheartened it will come eventually

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By *oonytoon OP   Man
over a year ago

derby

Thank you what sort of pics do you suggest because I tryed to give a variety without giving away my true identity altho I do have face pics in my private gallery but prefer to remain discreet to your average pic and profile browser until we've spoken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you work in sales then i guess you should know how to sell ,, its like me being a mechanic and not knowing how to fix a cortina ( that gives my age away ) i,m sure you will find a formula that works for you ,, good luck

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By *ellhatterMan
over a year ago

slough

a face pic really does help -- but can understand the privacy concern. send in the pm/email perhaps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally i think your profiles comes across as a bit desperate. The PS in particular

As a singleman that can't accomodate that always appears to be seen negatively judging by similar threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't see anything desperate about your profile, I thought it pretty OK really just not 'stand-out' from the crowd

Not so keen on the pics to be honest though, bad quality, colourless, could be much better

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

You might be intelligent, good looking and personable but have you see the rest of them on here ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Change your name to "Shirley the girly", show a bit of leg, and add a few provocative pics and your luck will change.

Trust me, it works

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Swinging is a very slow way to get a shag,because ppl are looking for exactly what they want...the site is only a tool,get active on it,and off it.Get to socials and get to meet ppl for real...then you will stand out.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The meets will come! Ive been on here over a year now although just nicely come back on after a 4month ish break... It took me awhile for "the 1st meet" when it does happen make sure you dont freeze & cancel the meet as word can get around especially local to your area. Overall im impressed with the amount of meets ive had. It can be a slow game so it will test your patience... As long as you dont get obsessed about the site youll be fine... Ive not read your profile but id keep tinkering with it till your happy with it... Somebody out there will like it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you what sort of pics do you suggest because I tryed to give a variety without giving away my true identity altho I do have face pics in my private gallery but prefer to remain discreet to your average pic and profile browser until we've spoken "

well not showing public face pic and not being to accomodate will limit you very much on this site, as alot will reply to someone else who isnt bothered about either

if you had two women message you and you could only reply to one and one of them never had photos and couldnt accomodate and the other did and could and you were attracted to them then its a no brainer which profile you going to reply to

if you want meets you have to stand out from the crowd, if you dont then things will always be very slow

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