FabSwingers.com forum: When your OH says "I'm doing it for you"

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When he or she says that, what do you think?

When you move on to stage two, EG he or she is getting fucked really hard and appearing to really enjoy it but hide it from you as you are watching, what do you think?

When the sexy lady, or the stallion has left after giving a good, hard fuck to your OH and they insist they did it for you, what do you think?

Today my wife did it for me as she put it via phone sex. I left the room as she is "shy" but they talked for a good 40 minutes, I heard giggles and quite bits and she was only wearing knickers and a bra when I had left her but end of call when I went it, knickers were pulled to one side and my cock just slipped in and she came twice and not done that for 30 years or so. What really got me was that she said she did it for me. I can live with that as long as she does it again and then build up to a nice, hard fuck from a stranger.

By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I think that's really something only you can talk through together to find the answers. Sometimes in this game you have to break a few egg, finding what works and what doesn't is a little trial and error. So talk through it together including the feelings at play. Hopefully then you'll find the way going forward and if you want to do this again or not.

I think one of the biggest areas of swinging as a couple is the effects feelings and emotions have on everyone. It can be difficult. I hope that everyone replays to this thread with a supportive and sensitive mannor. Because I think an open, honest and kind discussions about the emotional side to swinging is of great value to everyone.

By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

It sounds like she enjoyed it and wanted to make you happy too, so all good.

If she had said she didn't enjoy it but would do it again because you liked it then that's different