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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are there any genuine couples on here? We have been chatting to so many couples on here who sound great, we really get on then nothing. Don't even have the decency to say no thanks. We're not pushy, always respect boundaries. Don't know what we're doing wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are there any genuine couples on here? We have been chatting to so many couples on here who sound great, we really get on then nothing. Don't even have the decency to say no thanks. We're not pushy, always respect boundaries. Don't know what we're doing wrong"

We have found that too. Sadly the lovely ones are too far away that we chat to. I dont even initiate messages now as its knocked my confidence abit now. Your probably not doing anything wrong... good luck xx

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Lots of us genuine couples but we favour clubs rather than pic exchanges etc

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By *aughty Lovers 69Man
over a year ago

Wallasey


"Are there any genuine couples on here? We have been chatting to so many couples on here who sound great, we really get on then nothing. Don't even have the decency to say no thanks. We're not pushy, always respect boundaries. Don't know what we're doing wrong

We have found that too. Sadly the lovely ones are too far away that we chat to. I dont even initiate messages now as its knocked my confidence abit now. Your probably not doing anything wrong... good luck xx"

We are finding this too, we have learnt to not take it personal and the right people will eventually come along, try to not let it knock your confidence and persevere. We are going to try out a club and see how different it is there. We like to chat to all different people on here even if they do live far away, it's just nice to get to know others even if a meet is not necessarily going to happen xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are there any genuine couples on here? We have been chatting to so many couples on here who sound great, we really get on then nothing. Don't even have the decency to say no thanks. We're not pushy, always respect boundaries. Don't know what we're doing wrong

We have found that too. Sadly the lovely ones are too far away that we chat to. I dont even initiate messages now as its knocked my confidence abit now. Your probably not doing anything wrong... good luck xx

We are finding this too, we have learnt to not take it personal and the right people will eventually come along, try to not let it knock your confidence and persevere. We are going to try out a club and see how different it is there. We like to chat to all different people on here even if they do live far away, it's just nice to get to know others even if a meet is not necessarily going to happen xxx "

We have the same problem. We find a couple get talking and then the convo goes dead. We also having no interest :/ xx

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I think a lot of couples have busy lives and stuff going on in the back ground. Sometimes other things get in the way of fab and you find yourself not really having the time or possibility to meet. Then things just fizzle out. The fizzle out thing happens a lot for everyone on here. But your right some closure would be a decent thing, rather than slipping off the RADAR. I think that's why clubs are a great place to meet people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of us genuine couples but we favour clubs rather than pic exchanges etc"

Same here! My OH and I prefer to meet at clubs and bother very little with fab (forums aside). Find it all very false at times, much more straightforward at a club

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Lots of us genuine couples but we favour clubs rather than pic exchanges etc

Same here! My OH and I prefer to meet at clubs and bother very little with fab (forums aside). Find it all very false at times, much more straightforward at a club "

Club is night out, making friends, connections with real people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even single guys get the same thing chat for a while give a small amount of information away then whoosh they either block or dissapear from the site....clearly fakes ???.

I still have some genuine friends from here so its not all bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a lot of couples have busy lives and stuff going on in the back ground. Sometimes other things get in the way of fab and you find yourself not really having the time or possibility to meet. Then things just fizzle out. The fizzle out thing happens a lot for everyone on here. But your right some closure would be a decent thing, rather than slipping off the RADAR. I think that's why clubs are a great place to meet people."

This! Also. Getting four people all equally attracted to/comfortable with each other is a bit of a task in itself.

Club meets seem easier to us as there is less conversation over a period of time which can often highlight anything which might not appeal in a longer term friendship. (There are some Tory swingers out there for example )

Mr R

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We find parties are the best way to meet nice couples, though we have met some at clubs and direct from here too.

Perhaps we've just been lucky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think we going have to a try a club then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are there any genuine couples on here? We have been chatting to so many couples on here who sound great, we really get on then nothing. Don't even have the decency to say no thanks. We're not pushy, always respect boundaries. Don't know what we're doing wrong"

I'll tell you what you're doing wrong

You are questioning how genuine other couples are,as if you are the only genuine ones here

Maybe address how you approach others,the common denominator in your failures is you

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

We are a genuine couple and certainly do meet, but obviously there needs to be a mutual attraction for us to want to meet. It's always fine for people to not fancy us, we don't expect to appeal to everyone.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We dont have any issue loads of nice and very helpful couples here, our first meet on the 17th very excited.

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By *ootballFlowerCouple
over a year ago

Ollerton

We like to meet couples but can't accom due to adult children being home at the moment and can't meet at short notice due to requiring dog sitters in the evenings.

This seems to be an issue for some of the people we talk too but doesnt mean we arent genuine - check our veris! We also aren't in to mail ping pong.

Our preference is to meet in clubs at first and then see where it goes from there. We have travelled and shared hotels for couples we have met previously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you think you couples have problems then just think about us guys too because there is that many guys on here and a lot spoil it because the guys talk the talk then let couples down. But I don’t to that bad but I think my verifications and having photos goes a good way in getting meets. But don’t give up just keep trying and I am sure you couples will get meets . John

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By *exyFunAshWoman
over a year ago

Mansfield

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have found so really great couples on here. Yes it's not easy and takes alot of work.

Clubs house parties as well as meets but when you find them you make so.r great friends x

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

We are a genuine couple! We find being in Cornwall can make it difficult!!

We've had one meet privately which hasn't been at a party or as a result of a party. It was am amazing meet!! We will meet them again but it took 8 months of searching!

What we're looking for now is couples or single fems we can meet regularly

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By *oirinMarkusCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands and West London

Yes, we're a genuine couple but I think my fussiness and also distance has made it hard for us to find other like-minded twosomes!

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Definitely clubs for us too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as part of a genuine couple i find with my single account i use to get all the male halfs messaging asking to play but keep it quiet hence i blocked couples i prefer to meet them at clubs at least you know its a couple and not just the guys half

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We do everything it says on the ticket, we will only meet in a club of our choice don’t do pubs etc no point wasting mine or yours time

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames


"I think a lot of couples have busy lives and stuff going on in the back ground. Sometimes other things get in the way of fab and you find yourself not really having the time or possibility to meet. Then things just fizzle out. The fizzle out thing happens a lot for everyone on here. But your right some closure would be a decent thing, rather than slipping off the RADAR. I think that's why clubs are a great place to meet people."
totally agree .. couples are often more than twice the diary and life commitments ... but try always to be kind and respectful each way

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

We find it tricky because there's no clubs in a 40 mile radius

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are a genuine couple. We find to very hard to meet couples but think it depends how flexible you are with your preferences.

We’re pretty particular on what we are looking for and we’re not appealing to a lot of couples as we are both straight. That limits meets so we hardly meet anyone. Clubs are definitely the way forward for us when we can get the time to travel.

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth


"We are a genuine couple. We find to very hard to meet couples but think it depends how flexible you are with your preferences.

We’re pretty particular on what we are looking for and we’re not appealing to a lot of couples as we are both straight. That limits meets so we hardly meet anyone. Clubs are definitely the way forward for us when we can get the time to travel. "

I can see that our preference is only meeting couples with a bi/bi curious female. As we prefer group fun than just straight swapping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are a genuine couple. We find to very hard to meet couples but think it depends how flexible you are with your preferences.

We’re pretty particular on what we are looking for and we’re not appealing to a lot of couples as we are both straight. That limits meets so we hardly meet anyone. Clubs are definitely the way forward for us when we can get the time to travel.

I can see that our preference is only meeting couples with a bi/bi curious female. As we prefer group fun than just straight swapping "

Yes that seems quite common on here though we’re always intrigued, as a straight couple, that the group fun usually doesn’t involve the two males of the couples playing together but does involve the two females playing together. It’s kind of like group fun without guy/guy but also a bit like full swap with some girl/girl thrown in.

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth


"We are a genuine couple. We find to very hard to meet couples but think it depends how flexible you are with your preferences.

We’re pretty particular on what we are looking for and we’re not appealing to a lot of couples as we are both straight. That limits meets so we hardly meet anyone. Clubs are definitely the way forward for us when we can get the time to travel.

I can see that our preference is only meeting couples with a bi/bi curious female. As we prefer group fun than just straight swapping

Yes that seems quite common on here though we’re always intrigued, as a straight couple, that the group fun usually doesn’t involve the two males of the couples playing together but does involve the two females playing together. It’s kind of like group fun without guy/guy but also a bit like full swap with some girl/girl thrown in.

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We find most couples around us just want girl on girl and maybe some soft swap. But no full stop. They're not for us. We're not against guy on guy but C has never done it before and he's not found the right opportunity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one even giving us a chance on here :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one even giving us a chance on here :/"

Some people on here have no taste your pics are amazing xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one even giving us a chance on here :/

Some people on here have no taste your pics are amazing xx"

Awww thank you wish others fought the same xxx

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Checking out some of your profiles how you're not getting meets is beyond me!!

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By *ornwallkink2017Couple
over a year ago

Cornwall

We have been looking to meet with a couple but the difficulty we have is that I (lily) am extremely fussy, there are rarely pictures of the male half on couples profiles so don't know until pictures are sent if there is an attraction....there hasn't been so far!! Plus we are only a soft swap couple when it comes to meeting other couples and this isn't what many others want. Oh well, will keep enjoying mmf's in the mean time.

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

They must be insane!! How on earth are you guys not getting meets?! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have been looking to meet with a couple but the difficulty we have is that I (lily) am extremely fussy, there are rarely pictures of the male half on couples profiles so don't know until pictures are sent if there is an attraction....there hasn't been so far!! Plus we are only a soft swap couple when it comes to meeting other couples and this isn't what many others want. Oh well, will keep enjoying mmf's in the mean time."

Pretty much says it all

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By *ittlecoupleCouple
over a year ago

Oxford

We are real and really relaxed, but there are only about 5 couples within 20 miles of us in our age bracket on Fab. And pretty much no single women.

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

We often find this. Either it turns into pic begging or they just drop off the face of the earth. Shame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are a genuine couple and this has happened to us once or twice, it's mostly myself D who does the majority of the talking on here purely because J is always busy, I'm lucky in the fact that I get a fair bit of time during the day as my job is "as and when" it is difficult to keep up conversations when there are large gaps between messages people loose interest quickly and move on that's human nature I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We often find this. Either it turns into pic begging or they just drop off the face of the earth. Shame."

Randomfod . only if your closer we would meet you xxx

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"We are real and really relaxed, but there are only about 5 couples within 20 miles of us in our age bracket on Fab. And pretty much no single women."

How are you searching? I just searched for couples and ladies within 20 miles of oxford aged between 18 and 40 and found 96 couples and 43 ladies. You look nice, so I'm surprised that you are struggling.

Cal

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