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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey guys I’ve been on the site for a few weeks, dabbled on the cam many years ago when the site was quite new and got to know a lot of nice people. Looking to meet now and wondering if anyone has any tips for messaging, don’t want to be too vague with a “hi how are you” or “ how’s the site treating you” spammy type messages but don’t want an essay (a bit like this lol) any tips would be appreciated, thanks x

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By *aughty Lovers 69Man
over a year ago

Wallasey

People seem to chat a lot about taking an interest in reading profiles and maybe talking about something specific that is written in their profile, some good humour always goes down a treat too xx

That's just my opinion anyways

Good luck on here xx

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

A funny but intelligent message about certain requirements in my profile would certainly get a reply. I’ve been slightly insulted with one very crafty message, but it seemed cheeky so I replied wanting to know more.

There is no magic answer, but actually reading the profile is the first basic step

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading the profile and mentioning it is good, but engaging in the forums has resulted in lots of fun banter for us as well.

Trying to talk about yourself as a person rather than just sexually goes further too and showing an interest too. Saying “hello beautiful “ does nothing for me when I know they’ve never seen my face. ( my words are about me and may not work on others). -Mrs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also most will read your profile before replying. I’d change that first pic, a more strategic body pic is more likely to get a reply in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the tips guys! Hopefully they’ll work

Was on cam yesterday and had some great fun with a few singles and couples.

I’ll keep popping back in here and start getting involved more and see if that works xx

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