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"Plenty of lube and ensure you douche beforehand. Start gently certain aromas can help relax the anal passage. A finger then two, massage around the edges and then let him slowly enter you. It'll hurt at first but the more you relax the better. For your first time it's better to be on top, that way you control how fast he enters you. Lube Lube and more Lube " Thank you very much.Always douche when we play there.Best to be safe than sorry | |||
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"My wife loves using her strapon in me,but keeps telling me that it is not as good as the real thing. She wants me to experience being fucked but I'm a bit unsure.Sounds to painful. Has anyone had any experience that could pass on any tips? I suspect that this is not about toys and real cocks hurting you. The real question is do you want to have the experience of a real cock inside you..?? Thats the main question you have to ask yourself. It is a big step to go from passive toys to the real thing. Regardless of your wifes thoughts, it is primarily your choice first and foremost. You have think seriously about who you would have fuck you and in what form they would take. You have to be turned on to truely enjoy the experience. It is not a decisions anybody takes lightly when their sexuality comes into question. " 110% this | |||
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"My wife loves using her strapon in me,but keeps telling me that it is not as good as the real thing. She wants me to experience being fucked but I'm a bit unsure.Sounds to painful. Has anyone had any experience that could pass on any tips? I suspect that this is not about toys and real cocks hurting you. The real question is do you want to have the experience of a real cock inside you..?? Thats the main question you have to ask yourself. It is a big step to go from passive toys to the real thing. Regardless of your wifes thoughts, it is primarily your choice first and foremost. You have think seriously about who you would have fuck you and in what form they would take. You have to be turned on to truely enjoy the experience. It is not a decisions anybody takes lightly when their sexuality comes into question. " Agree with this, remember psychologically you are going to be penetrated by another Man. It's easier for me as the minute I dress and look feminine I find it easy to submit. However you won't have that cross over mindset. Make sure you find the right partner and afterwards you realise it's experimentation and not to be taken too seriously, if you don't enjoy fine, if you do it's also Ok | |||
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"I don't fancy men like I would do a woman. My wife is only really interested in being taught by another lady so she won't join in." if you don't fancy men, then it might be awkward in you letting a guy take you. you said your wife wants it to happen, how much do you want it to happen. as many have said, it's a big step to make. | |||
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"My wife loves using her strapon in me,but keeps telling me that it is not as good as the real thing. She wants me to experience being fucked but I'm a bit unsure.Sounds to painful. Has anyone had any experience that could pass on any tips?" Find a guy who is patient and will not mind if you say ‘stop’. Also, find somebody who enjoys slowly massaging your arse with their fingers using plenty of lube and patience. | |||
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"My wife loves using her strapon in me,but keeps telling me that it is not as good as the real thing. She wants me to experience being fucked but I'm a bit unsure.Sounds to painful. Has anyone had any experience that could pass on any tips? Find a guy who is patient and will not mind if you say ‘stop’. Also, find somebody who enjoys slowly massaging your arse with their fingers using plenty of lube and patience. " That is how I would love it to go.Unrushed and painfree | |||
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"My wife loves using her strapon in me,but keeps telling me that it is not as good as the real thing. She wants me to experience being fucked but I'm a bit unsure.Sounds to painful. Has anyone had any experience that could pass on any tips? Find a guy who is patient and will not mind if you say ‘stop’. Also, find somebody who enjoys slowly massaging your arse with their fingers using plenty of lube and patience. That is how I would love it to go.Unrushed and painfree " I love taking a guy’s virginity but I also constantly ask the other person how they feel. I can ask umpteen times until you’re fed up. Also as other posters have said, it’s good if you are bottoming on top. That way you can control how intense you want it. | |||
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"Hope you find someone to make your first time as pleasurable as it should be OP. If you do your wife is in for a treat. One of my biggest turn ons is seeing my partner getting fucked. Drives me crazy Miss V" Absolutely xx | |||
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"I love taking the strap on from Mrs Bi , but I don't let guys fuck me , I only fuck guys , as this turns her on massively . So basically do what you want , no one is here to judge your sexual preferences x " When my wife has seen me with a guy she gets very horny when we get home and talks about what she witnessed and gets very wet.She can squirt for England lol | |||
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"My wife loves using her strapon in me,but keeps telling me that it is not as good as the real thing. She wants me to experience being fucked but I'm a bit unsure.Sounds to painful. Has anyone had any experience that could pass on any tips?" Lube, train, practice, right size. Sometimes slightly smaller than you would expect works better, you also get good rythmn with a slightly smaller cock. My magic size is 5incher, the guy can get real close and pump hard if so required to reach climax. | |||
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"Plenty of lube and ensure you douche beforehand. Start gently certain aromas can help relax the anal passage. A finger then two, massage around the edges and then let him slowly enter you. It'll hurt at first but the more you relax the better. For your first time it's better to be on top, that way you control how fast he enters you. Lube Lube and more Lube " Little naive here...but can you explain 'douche' to me please... | |||
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"Plenty of lube and ensure you douche beforehand. Start gently certain aromas can help relax the anal passage. A finger then two, massage around the edges and then let him slowly enter you. It'll hurt at first but the more you relax the better. For your first time it's better to be on top, that way you control how fast he enters you. Lube Lube and more Lube Little naive here...but can you explain 'douche' to me please..." It's cleaning 'up there' can be done with the vagina as well. But in the case of anal sex there can be accidents as you are loosening the muscles in the area. This is the definition online; Rectal douching, also known as anal douching, is the act of rinsing the rectum with intent to clean it, typically in preparation for anal sex. An instance of this rinsing or a tool used to perform the rinse may be called a rectal douche. | |||
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"I have played with guys but never had a cock in me.But want to try it but the hardest thing is finding someone that has the experience to know what he is doing to an anal cock virgin." This is a tough one. You really need someone who knows what he’s doing. Also you can buy some things that you sniff that can help relax the anus. Unfortunately being nervous about the whole thing makes it worse as people tend to tense up even if they are trying not to. Good luck dude. | |||
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"We started off with my wife fucking me with a strap on and then I met a gay couple for my first guy on guy experience and oh my!! They both fucked me and my wife loved to hear all about it!! Since then we have invited guys round and she watches whilst I play!!" sounds like your both have some great sexy fun | |||
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