FabSwingers.com forum: What is the etiquette

By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

I am being approached about my future swingers’ party and I can sniff from a mile a way that the reason I am being approached is because somebody has sniffed out the opportunity for pussy, to put it in a crass manner; but this is genuinely what I suspect because otherwise I wouldn’t have been approached. It’s not a stranger by the way.

Plus I also suspect that the party interested wants a fuck-and-go situation, which my guests wouldn’t appreciate. It’s awkward so....do I delete from my ‘friends’ list and block? Do I politely but brutally honestly explain the reasons why it will be a ‘no’? Do I just vaguely dodge the subject like I’ve been doing since yesterday? What would you do in my shoes?

I’m sorry if it seems a bit weird but I don’t want to be reprimanded off the forum again for ‘airing my laundry’ accidentally, hence not a lot of details.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I'm not sure it's your kind of scene, sorry" or something like that. If they persist, sorry I'm not inviting you.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Politely and honestly explain why x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

This option OP.

"Do I politely but brutally honestly explain the reasons why it will be a ‘no’"

Your party, your rules hun. X

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By *asilForty77Man
over a year ago

a hundred and sixty of us living in a small shoebox in the middle of the road

Honesty is the best policy

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

If the person doesn't see this therefore solving your problem I suggest you tell the truth. Just say they will only be welcome if they respect your rules as host.

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By *jEuphoriaCouple
over a year ago

north kent

"I am being approached about my future swingers’ party and I can sniff from a mile a way that the reason I am being approached is because somebody has sniffed out the opportunity for pussy, to put it in a crass manner; but this is genuinely what I suspect because otherwise I wouldn’t have been approached. It’s not a stranger by the way.

I’m sorry if it seems a bit weird but I don’t want to be reprimanded off the forum again for ‘airing my laundry’ accidentally, hence not a lot of details."

Just say no, you’re not obliged to give a reason.

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By *ogNMuseCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

Well if they are on Fab, just point them in the direction of this thread

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

People want sex here, so it's to be expected if they influence opportunity for themselves.

All events would typically be a matched group and it's responsible to exclude those who don't fit. I'd just inform those you reject that they didn't make it and wish them luck.

I'd also only stay in touch with people I want to. I'd cancel and block others like him.

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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

I appreciate people’s feedback. Thanks!

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By *heDesiCandiTV/TS
over a year ago

Leicester

Group fun only works best when all parties are like minded - it has to be carefully curated - one person who wants something else can spoil it for everyone -

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