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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hiya

Just asking how to get a message to stand out as a single male?

Having been here before as a couple I know females and couples get inundated with messages, so any advice would be well received

Thanks

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Think about what would have made a message stand out to you as part of a couple.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Make sure you've read their profile and tailored your message to what they're looking for. Something funny and intelligent always a treat from the usual messages I get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hiya

Just asking how to get a message to stand out as a single male?

Having been here before as a couple I know females and couples get inundated with messages, so any advice would be well received

Thanks "
attach cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great idea! Definitely cake!??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great idea! Definitely cake!??"
see here's the evidence

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By *urvy Girl 79Woman
over a year ago

Near Bourne

Alot of women will look at your profile before they open a message. If your profile doesn't catch their attention they quite possibly won't read the message because they already know from your profile that you're not for them. Your profile could do with some work. Especially your pictures x

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

Definitely address it to both him and her, they are a couple after all and the majority of couples profiles are usually handled by him. A face and body picture is essential if you don't have any on your profile. As a previous poster has written, read their profile properly and address your message accordingly so it doesn't look like a copy and paste to all fishing expedition.

The competition is fierce for single guys so you have to not only look good but have a personality and brain too. If you aren't prepared to make the effort you'll be wasting your time and just frustrating yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One thing that rules out a single man for me is when I look on their profile and the only public photo they have is of his cock in someone's mouth.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"One thing that rules out a single man for me is when I look on their profile and the only public photo they have is of his cock in someone's mouth."

At least you got that far. I wouldn't bother looking at a profile that didn't have an avatar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At least you got that far. I wouldn't bother looking at a profile that didn't have an avatar. "

This is very true! I rarely bother with the blank avatars.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hiya

Just asking how to get a message to stand out as a single male?

Having been here before as a couple I know females and couples get inundated with messages, so any advice would be well received

Thanks attach cake "

It depends on the cake. Champers would donit for me, and a pint of Guinness for him...

Xx Niki

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might start using snapchat filters on my prfile and handing advice out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find that more of my messages get read if I’ve attached a photo to it

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By *aughty Lovers 69Man
over a year ago

Wallasey

I'm always intrigued by a message first then depending on the message content I will look at the profile, I will always reply even if we are not interested just out of politeness xx

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