FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swinging Support and Advice

Do One Liners Fit All? (Constant One Liner Messages?)

Jump to newest
 

By *ftofJoy OP   Woman
over a year ago

Harpenden

Hello Fabbers,

I'm relatively new here and curious to know what is it with the very high proportion of one liner introductions and replies here?

I believe before meeting it's very important to have a level of communication connection to see if we click. Don't get me wrong, every once in awhile a one liner as an ice breaker, can be just the way to go. But when I write a few paragraphs about myself, trying to see if that spark is there, and all I get is one liner after one liner, the spark very quickly fizzes out!

I look forward to hearing your thoughts on this

Have a Fab Friday!

Joy x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

It's the internet, people make as little effort as they can.

Plus a lot of guys get ignored (coz there's so many of them) so i don't blame the few who give up trying eventually.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Hello Fabbers,

I'm relatively new here and curious to know what is it with the very high proportion of one liner introductions and replies here?

I believe before meeting it's very important to have a level of communication connection to see if we click. Don't get me wrong, every once in awhile a one liner as an ice breaker, can be just the way to go. But when I write a few paragraphs about myself, trying to see if that spark is there, and all I get is one liner after one liner, the spark very quickly fizzes out!

I look forward to hearing your thoughts on this

Have a Fab Friday!

Joy x"

The last two or three guys that Niki has liked the look of have been monosyllabic, we quite quickly stop communicating with them - then they are surprised when two weeks later we don't want to meet them 'this evening' or 'tomorrow'

But there are some that are great at communication - you just have to be patient and wait for them to appear.

Good luck, K.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the internet, people make as little effort as they can.

Plus a lot of guys get ignored (coz there's so many of them) so i don't blame the few who give up trying eventually."

This.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a couple we get it from other couples, it makes it really hard work.

In reply to the guys short responses to your messages back, I don’t get that it is because of constant knock backs, that’s usually to the first message they send, if they get a response, that’s the time to put in a little effort. I’m not the most talkative person but do try and put in some effort if I am replying to a message.

If they are making it hard work for you, move on. There are a LOT of men who will put in the effort and make a decent conversation.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello Fabbers,

I'm relatively new here and curious to know what is it with the very high proportion of one liner introductions and replies here?

I believe before meeting it's very important to have a level of communication connection to see if we click. Don't get me wrong, every once in awhile a one liner as an ice breaker, can be just the way to go. But when I write a few paragraphs about myself, trying to see if that spark is there, and all I get is one liner after one liner, the spark very quickly fizzes out!

I look forward to hearing your thoughts on this

Have a Fab Friday!

Joy x"

What would be your intro paragraph?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ftofJoy OP   Woman
over a year ago

Harpenden

If you haven't got the intelligence to come up with an intro, then why should I give you it for free?

You can of course bid LOL!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aughty Lovers 69Man
over a year ago

Wallasey

We have been having a lot of this lately too, it's frustrating. You get what you put in. If you struggle to communicate on here what will it be like if you met for us you have to get on and have easy flowing chat xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

Little thought process

No effort

Hell why would yu not be ok .. !!!???

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near


"Little thought process

No effort

Hell why would yu not be ok .. !!!???"

Oops typo.. should read why would I not be ok

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top