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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been on here for a while and been struggling to meet people, I've made a good amount of friends and have spoke to some people a fair amount but nothing ever seems to lead to a meet.

Could people give me some feedback and help me with what I'm doing wrong, thank you!!!!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

The legal disclaimers are nonsense and make you look gullible.

Does your profile sell you in the best light, likely to entice the kind of people you're looking for?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Hello welcome.

Firstly I'd say take the paragraph that refers to Facebook off your profile, it's meaningless, doesn't refer to fab and carries no legal weight.

Your profile is ok but remember you are one among many men so need to stand out.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of women not all don't like to see cock pics and that's all you have, it kinda depends how you message and we have no clue of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come on then....while we're at it.....I'd like some feedback on mine too !

Many thanks

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"Come on then....while we're at it.....I'd like some feedback on mine too !

Many thanks"

Make your own post. Hijacking someone else's is a big no no.

But information given is generic and applies to most profiles. Shock that!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Come on then....while we're at it.....I'd like some feedback on mine too !

Many thanks"

Come on then, be respectful and start your own post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP has now hidden his profile.

So, how does he expect feedback, constructive criticism, or even let us see if we are interested?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are strangling your chopper in the profile pic . A large proportion of women will see that and block/delete/not reply.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"OP has now hidden his profile.

So, how does he expect feedback, constructive criticism, or even let us see if we are interested?"

I wonder if these people expect us to be impressed by the porn and jump at them.

This ain't our first rodeo.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Could people give me some feedback and help me with what I'm doing wrong, thank you!!!!"

Have you tried sending messages, rather than just winks?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There is no fake pictures? They are all me I don't quite understand why people think this? Willing to try and prove its me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Could people give me some feedback and help me with what I'm doing wrong, thank you!!!!

Have you tried sending messages, rather than just winks?"

Yep have sent plenty of messages maybe I'm bad at introducing myself lol not sure of the right things to say or if I'm being too full on. It's hard because obviously I'm trying to get people's attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe try some more tasteful pictures, lighting, black and white, attractive backgrounds etc.

Think about what might make you interesting to your target audience. Are you good to talk to, fun company, relaxed, respectful. Just some ideas. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe try some more tasteful pictures, lighting, black and white, attractive backgrounds etc.

Think about what might make you interesting to your target audience. Are you good to talk to, fun company, relaxed, respectful. Just some ideas. Good luck "

Thank u for your help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on here for a while and been struggling to meet people, I've made a good amount of friends and have spoke to some people a fair amount but nothing ever seems to lead to a meet.

Could people give me some feedback and help me with what I'm doing wrong, thank you!!!!"

Harsh to tell you, but unless you have something special on here in looks, body, cock etc it's going to be really hard going. The ladies are quite the image fascists,even the less than attractive ones.chin up though.

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