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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all, I know if you’re bicurious everyone has to start somewhere to find out if that curiosity develops into anything else but girls..

If a couple invited you to join them for her first time with a girl (she thought she might be attracted to girls) whilst he watched how would you feel about that? I tried to explain how it wasn’t for me, thank you, as it sounded like I was there just for them and what if she decided she wasn’t bicurious after all and how I’m not sure it would sit with many bisexual girls but it didn’t go down very well and I got told I was disrespectful. Maybe I didn’t word it very well.

I’d like to hear others opinions x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are not disrespectful at all. You’ve declined their offer and they should except that.

Connie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are not disrespectful at all. You’ve declined their offer and they should except that.

Connie x"

Accept! Not except x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You were not being disrespectful. You simply put how you were feeling.

No one on here should do anything they don’t want to.

It is supposed to be a fun site not a high pressure site.

Follow your gut feelings and stick to your guns. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t understand why you should feel bad you politely declined their offer ,if it don’t feel right alarm bells ring ,the right cpl will come along x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's an issue endemic with this site I think, or any swinging web site.

If folks don't get what they want from you they'll throw a strop.

They'll be rude or disrespectful or both.

There's no need for it, as there will be others out there willing to service their needs as that's their "thing".

Most of the time they can't be bothered looking elsewhere or they may actually really fancy you but if they can't take a "no thanks" they shouldn't be here.

It's always niggled me, the rudeness of folks on here! Grrrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers everyone x

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By *itsAndTaffCouple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex

I understand maybe meeting the female if you were attracted to her tonsee how things go

But why does the Male have to watch, surely that’s putting unnecessary pressure on his partner not to mention most likely using you both to fulfil one of his fantasies

MrsB

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