FabSwingers.com forum: Anxiety when meeting or at clubs / events

By *olourful couple OP Couple
over a year ago

Newton Abbot

Hi we have been on fab for a long while now. Recently I have been suffering from anxiety especially since I have had to be circumcised 12 months ago (cancer). Since then it has become worse. The problem is, it stops me from getting an erection when meeting, and when we attend clubs or events. I am only 46yrs old fit and healthy go to the gym on a regular basis. This is really frustrating for me and escalates the problem. My wife is really supportive and keeps telling me to relax and not to panic. Easy said than done tho. It's never a problem when in the bedroom at home alone. I'm not sure why this is happening just wandering If anyone else suffers with this problem and has any advise on how to get over it ??

By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Happens alot, it's not just you. It's made worse by alcohol also.

By *olourful couple OP Couple
over a year ago

Newton Abbot

I tend not to drink these days I might have 1 or 2 at most as I know too much will not help the situation. Viagra sometimes helps but not everytime nervs just get the better of me

By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Suggest you keep things very soft play until your little fella joins in

By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Treat the anxiety. Talk to your GP.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just concentrate on the social side to get comfortable with meeting new people! & I’m sure things will calm down in time