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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are considering booking a room , how much is a fair contribution to ask ,hope for 5 or 6 men but more than likely lucky if 1 shows up

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By *is BitchCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

If we were arranging the meet we would pay, wouldn't aak for a contrbution

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Arrange in club, you will have standbys I'm sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the room but I would ask for a fair share if you being shared

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool


"If we were arranging the meet we would pay, wouldn't aak for a contrbution "

Ditto

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Not our sort of thing but if it was we wouldn't ask for any contribution - I would feel a bit uncomfortable asking for payment as they walk in, but your gig so do what you want. K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a similar dilemma many years ago.

A guy wanted to meet us, he arranged the room, we turned up, had an amazing night.

As he was leaving, we offered him half the cost.

He just said he was grateful we agreed, left us the room for the night!

If we are staying somewhere, and arrange the fun, we never ask for anything....however, if we are booking the room specifically for fun, we leave it to the other parties, to make their own minds up.

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By *itsAndTaffCouple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex


"We are considering booking a room , how much is a fair contribution to ask ,hope for 5 or 6 men but more than likely lucky if 1 shows up"

We arranged a hotel meet a few years ago similar scenario we didn’t ask for payment nor did any of the guys offer to be honest I’d have felt a bit insulted if they had kind of like they were paying for sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i book a room i never ask foe a contribution

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

I usually book a room for a meet and as such I pay and it’s my room for as long as the meet lasts and overnight!

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"We are considering booking a room , how much is a fair contribution to ask ,hope for 5 or 6 men but more than likely lucky if 1 shows up"

If you are inviting 6 men why not split the cost of the room 7 ways?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"We are considering booking a room , how much is a fair contribution to ask ,hope for 5 or 6 men but more than likely lucky if 1 shows up

If you are inviting 6 men why not split the cost of the room 7 ways?"

It's unlikely the men will be invited to stay so really, why should they pay anything?

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By *occerstar579Man
over a year ago

Harrogate


"We are considering booking a room , how much is a fair contribution to ask ,hope for 5 or 6 men but more than likely lucky if 1 shows up

If you are inviting 6 men why not split the cost of the room 7 ways?

It's unlikely the men will be invited to stay so really, why should they pay anything? "

Think a large deposit should do the trick!

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By *arc and KamaCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"We are considering booking a room , how much is a fair contribution to ask ,hope for 5 or 6 men but more than likely lucky if 1 shows up"

Go to the club or invite 10men.

A few weeks back we booked a room and invited 4 guys. Only one showed.

Two were “fair” and gave up a day before and one wanker, who sounded very trustful just did not show.

Also if you talk to someone who sends you the tons of naughty photos or asking you - don’t bother even at start.

So for a bigger group - only a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are considering booking a room , how much is a fair contribution to ask ,hope for 5 or 6 men but more than likely lucky if 1 shows up"
yes I agree with others you're organising it and you already know some may not show and possible reasons for not showing could be finances, depends how much you want the meet to be a success

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are considering booking a room , how much is a fair contribution to ask ,hope for 5 or 6 men but more than likely lucky if 1 shows upyes I agree with others you're organising it and you already know some may not show and possible reasons for not showing could be finances, depends how much you want the meet to be a success "
so I'd take the cost of room yourselves, that's one thing that won't put them off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are considering booking a room , how much is a fair contribution to ask ,hope for 5 or 6 men but more than likely lucky if 1 shows up"

You pay. Fab isn't a way to pay for your own sexual pleasure. Disgusting suggestion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always pay for the room, though we have been to someone's private residence before (he arranged them).

The club is probably the best solution, that way if you book a room and you end up with lots of no-shows, you wont have a wasted night.

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By *ogNMuseCouple
over a year ago

Surrey


"If we were arranging the meet we would pay, wouldn't aak for a contrbution "

Same here if we arrange we never ask for a contribution

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By *nglishdoodMan
over a year ago

Morristown

I can't accommodate, so if I arrange a hotel meet that's on me. Wouldn't dream of asking for money.

Then again your dynamic is a bit different and I'd contribute if asked up front.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"We are considering booking a room , how much is a fair contribution to ask ,hope for 5 or 6 men but more than likely lucky if 1 shows up

We arranged a hotel meet a few years ago similar scenario we didn’t ask for payment nor did any of the guys offer to be honest I’d have felt a bit insulted if they had kind of like they were paying for sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Arrange in club, you will have standbys I'm sure "

For sure x

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Are you staying overnight? If you are then you pay for the room. Why do you need a contribution? This is your fantasy, so why not budget for a room you can afford. If you are asking random men to come to your room and pay you money to fuck you how does that differ from prostitution?

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Arrange in club, you will have standbys I'm sure

For sure x"

Plus safer

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"Are you staying overnight? If you are then you pay for the room. Why do you need a contribution? This is your fantasy, so why not budget for a room you can afford. If you are asking random men to come to your room and pay you money to fuck you how does that differ from prostitution?"

I hear you, however a contribution towards the room cost isn't for us prostitution, it's when you start profiting from it that it crosses that particular line for us. There's profiles on here charging men £100 a time, ten men = £1000 room £150 max, that's prostitution in our book. If we were invited and a 'reasonable' contribution was asked we'd pay and have problem people asking, would we do it ourselves? No we wouldn't but that's just us.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"Arrange in club, you will have standbys I'm sure

For sure x

Plus safer "

Nice pics

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By *nnejohn469Couple
over a year ago

Wanstead, London

Hi .. I host in a classy London hotel for couples and greedygirls seeking a few reliable sensible guys .. we tend to ask for £10 per guy to cover the fems expenses which is readily contributed by the guys ... never any shortfall in attendees ... want me to host one for you ?

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Arrange in club, you will have standbys I'm sure

For sure x

Plus safer

Nice pics "

Thank you

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By *urenutsMan
over a year ago

waltham cross/Harrow HA1

Up for a hotel meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are considering booking a room , how much is a fair contribution to ask ,hope for 5 or 6 men but more than likely lucky if 1 shows up

If you are inviting 6 men why not split the cost of the room 7 ways?"

Everyone should pay an equal amount.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only trouble with splitting the bill as has been suggested only the person that books the room knows the cost, he's hardly going to divulge his personal details to show you it is he so could still end up making a sizeable profit

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By *ueen of sleezeWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Any hotel meet I have me, one guy 50/50.

I wouldn't dream of not paying my fair share

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any hotel meet I have me, one guy 50/50.

I wouldn't dream of not paying my fair share "
Thank the lord when are you available?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"We are considering booking a room , how much is a fair contribution to ask ,hope for 5 or 6 men but more than likely lucky if 1 shows up"

Two good options;

1) Go to a club on a ‘Greedy Girl’ event.

2) Search profiles in here, for people who organise private gangbangs, and get them to set one up for you. All you want is a venue with 5/6 reliable guys, and there are several groups around the country

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