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By *xpanding our horizons OP   Couple
over a year ago

East Anglia

We used to get loads of meets. Not had one in a long time. Disappointing.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yes, of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We used to get loads of meets. Not had one in a long time. Disappointing."
ahhhh well suppose everyone is getting too fussy or demanding

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I meet on a consistent basis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, lots of people are meeting others.

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable


"We used to get loads of meets. Not had one in a long time. Disappointing."
Same here. Very disappointing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always honoured my meets

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Lea Marston

I still meet. It gets harder though to find people I like who stick around past a handful of messages.

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By *andy cane321Couple
over a year ago

Aylesbury

We meet. But we prefer clubs as we can see who we decide to play with beforehand. If we have met someone at a club before then have no problem hosting at home or arranging to meet again

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

For you lady’s yes but for some of us men no but that’s how it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

I have a boyfriend at last

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

We only meet at parties or in clubs

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Lea Marston


"We meet. But we prefer clubs as we can see who we decide to play with beforehand. If we have met someone at a club before then have no problem hosting at home or arranging to meet again "

I’m more and more inclined this way! They’ve turned up for a start...

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By *andy cane321Couple
over a year ago

Aylesbury

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By *andy cane321Couple
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"We meet. But we prefer clubs as we can see who we decide to play with beforehand. If we have met someone at a club before then have no problem hosting at home or arranging to meet again

I’m more and more inclined this way! They’ve turned up for a start... "

Our free time is every rare and precious. Arranging a meet to be let down is whole wasted evening hence we prefer a club

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Definitely meet......but I'm more selective on where said persons been.......

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"We used to get loads of meets. Not had one in a long time. Disappointing."

Don't you still meet the folk you met before?

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Lea Marston


"We meet. But we prefer clubs as we can see who we decide to play with beforehand. If we have met someone at a club before then have no problem hosting at home or arranging to meet again

I’m more and more inclined this way! They’ve turned up for a start...

Our free time is every rare and precious. Arranging a meet to be let down is whole wasted evening hence we prefer a club "

Totally see your view. At least this way there is a hot tub and plenty of other options

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer private meets, some flirting, chat and then if all happy play. We infrequently go to clubs and rarely agree meets before hand as most others won’t commit, they hope that they find someone they perceive to be better and you are the fallback, I guess as we don’t struggle for private meets as we commit, don’t pull out if another offer comes along and always show up and people know that

You only get results on fan if you put the effort in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were wondering the same for a while but now had 4 in last few weeks think everyone has dry spells

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Yep, lots of people are meeting others. "

This made me lol Cos when I clicked on your profile it says ‘I’m not meeting’ and I heard a million men’s hearts break everywhere lol x

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By *eavensent78Couple
over a year ago

west mids

The struggle is real

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"We only meet at parties or in clubs "

Same. That said got a social next week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No luck here.had a few couples contact but unfortunately timewasters

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By *blasiansCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

With real world stuff, finding time and opportunity is a challenge. That said hoping for more time soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No luck here.had a few couples contact but unfortunately timewasters"

They all didn't turn up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still meet, but I don’t meet just anyone.

I like to read a good profile, browse a few nice pics and answer a well written message.

Like others, time wasters annoy me, so a club meet is a good choice

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By *ickinglover69Man
over a year ago

Langley

Looking for meets yes finding it difficult but not giving up it wil happen.

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By *xpanding our horizons OP   Couple
over a year ago

East Anglia

The nearest club to us is miles away, so it's just not practical.

We used to arrange to meet people for play, never any issues. These days the people we used to meet have moved on and we're just not getting the interest.

Or its only single men. We really want to play with couples. If they're bi all the better, but that seems to be an impossible ask!

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By *indkink82Man
over a year ago

Caistor

Well not had many a successful meet aside from two very nice meets X love one later today if anyone has the time

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By *andy cane321Couple
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"The nearest club to us is miles away, so it's just not practical.

We used to arrange to meet people for play, never any issues. These days the people we used to meet have moved on and we're just not getting the interest.

Or its only single men. We really want to play with couples. If they're bi all the better, but that seems to be an impossible ask! "

Members club in clacton, not that far from Ipswich

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"We used to get loads of meets. Not had one in a long time. Disappointing."

Your profile's obviously attractive so it does seem off. Perhaps this just happens after a while? Maybe jigg the text up a bit for newer members? Say what interests you about being bi-curious perhaps. The lines on what you both like and do are pretty vanilla, but maybe that's what you want tho. Maybe also switch the profile pic or upload a new of you both or something. I'm saying all this because it's not something you can immediately make sense of.

Actually, being specifically welcoming to new couples etc is probably a good idea for people who are finding its gone flat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With having a family life, we find it hard to meet at home. so only meet at clubs. Its a bit hard to meet for a social with possible play if the chemistry is there in a hotel room, we find anyone going to an hotel room expects play. We agree to only meet at clubs because for us to play we need some chemistry and a connection on the night. For us clubs offer a chance for all to meet others if there's no chemistry...

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"We used to get loads of meets. Not had one in a long time. Disappointing."
There seems to be to much finger tapping on here and not enough real meets

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

You've probably already met everyone and no one left

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With having a family life, we find it hard to meet at home. so only meet at clubs. Its a bit hard to meet for a social with possible play if the chemistry is there in a hotel room, we find anyone going to an hotel room expects play. We agree to only meet at clubs because for us to play we need some chemistry and a connection on the night. For us clubs offer a chance for all to meet others if there's no chemistry..."

This is exactly what we do now.

F x

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

We're in a similar boat however childcare is an issue for us!!

But we often chat then people disappear, etc. Hopefully we'll meet soon

Our nearest club is 50 ish miles away so not easy and we've never found people speak that much in clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We haven’t met and played with a new couple in a couple of years. We have tried but can’t find the right people that we’re attracted to. We have pretty much given up on Fab but hang around in hope.

We’re waiting for the right moment when we can go to a good club outside our home town for a weekend away, kids permitting.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"With having a family life, we find it hard to meet at home. so only meet at clubs. Its a bit hard to meet for a social with possible play if the chemistry is there in a hotel room, we find anyone going to an hotel room expects play. We agree to only meet at clubs because for us to play we need some chemistry and a connection on the night. For us clubs offer a chance for all to meet others if there's no chemistry...

This is exactly what we do now.

F x"

this makes perfect sense, it's just not going to suit a lot of people. I expect it's worth pushing the boat out at least one time if you can though.

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

nope I gave up trying to meet anyone after the 999th rejection (or was it 998th ?)

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Yes, I still meet, mainly people I've known for a long time though. I'm happy to accommodate them too.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Yes, I still meet, mainly people I've known for a long time though. I'm happy to accommodate them too. "

One thing I've never read here is that it may be different trends in meeting, or other types of websites perhaps. I know there is nothing quite like fab (or as good as), but some form of outside factor could be part of the reason perhaps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep...got one on Wednesday

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By *xpanding our horizons OP   Couple
over a year ago

East Anglia


"Yep...got one on Wednesday"

Show off lol x

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By *xpanding our horizons OP   Couple
over a year ago

East Anglia


"We used to get loads of meets. Not had one in a long time. Disappointing.

Your profile's obviously attractive so it does seem off. Perhaps this just happens after a while? Maybe jigg the text up a bit for newer members? Say what interests you about being bi-curious perhaps. The lines on what you both like and do are pretty vanilla, but maybe that's what you want tho. Maybe also switch the profile pic or upload a new of you both or something. I'm saying all this because it's not something you can immediately make sense of.

Actually, being specifically welcoming to new couples etc is probably a good idea for people who are finding its gone flat."

Thanks, we'll have a think about it. See what we can change/update xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We used to get loads of meets. Not had one in a long time. Disappointing."

Yes they do,have you questioned yourself what could be wrong?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Gainsborough


"We used to get loads of meets. Not had one in a long time. Disappointing."

I’m genuinely having the time of my life in here, regularly meeting people from a circle of friends I’ve built up over the last few years, and also making new friends too. I do the occasional club visit, and while that side of the swinging scene has been a testing experience for me (as a single guy), I’m currently enjoying a run of popularity in Club f

A point to note for you OP; not every woman enjoys being “made to squirt”, so perhaps you could drop this from your profile, as it may not sound appealing to many?

All the best to you both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We used to get loads of meets. Not had one in a long time. Disappointing."

Tell me about it. Not been back on here long but looks like I haven't missed much. It's like single guys have to beg for it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get meetings. We have been ‘rejected’, too.

Just the way it goes, in our humble opinion.

If people are not interested in us, fine. If they are, great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure they do, however I would have thought that decent conversations would be more prevalent than meets.

I'd add to your question with does anybody chat anymore?

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"I meet on a consistent basis "

Lucky guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We used to get loads of meets. Not had one in a long time. Disappointing."

Of course! I'd meet you

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By *averockrockMan
over a year ago

swindon

Yes!

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By *veragecouple321Couple
over a year ago

Leamington Spa

We very rarely fail to meet when we want to, but then again seeing how we dont meet people that often (3-5 times a year & normally single males or so they say!!) maybe that's why we find it a little easier

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By *xpanding our horizons OP   Couple
over a year ago

East Anglia

I take it all back. Have arranged a meet for next weekend! Can't wait!!

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough


"I take it all back. Have arranged a meet for next weekend! Can't wait!!"

Well done... see, us meeters do exist

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Herne Bay

We meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No luck here.had a few couples contact but unfortunately timewasters

They all didn't turn up? "
they Just made excuses as the messaging progressed

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By *arren the doggerMan
over a year ago

willenhall

Wishes a lady or couple would meet me !!??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have actually got four meetings this week...tonight, tomorrow, Weds, Thurs.

3 social meets, and one ‘play date’ (tonight).

All single guys.

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Busy week...or what ?!!!!

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By *az riversCouple
over a year ago

Stamford

Yes we do but when jaydees is open, we have not been invited to any private meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No luck here.had a few couples contact but unfortunately timewasters

They all didn't turn up? they Just made excuses as the messaging progressed"

Oh changed their minds rather than time wasters! Not everyone is for everyone hence why we chat ... I know everyone's not the same but to me time wasters either don't show up at all or change their minds at the last minute wasting the other person's time. Just messaging doesn't mean a definite meet just how people decide whether to meet or not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No luck here.had a few couples contact but unfortunately timewasters

They all didn't turn up? they Just made excuses as the messaging progressed

Oh changed their minds rather than time wasters! Not everyone is for everyone hence why we chat ... I know everyone's not the same but to me time wasters either don't show up at all or change their minds at the last minute wasting the other person's time. Just messaging doesn't mean a definite meet just how people decide whether to meet or not! "
yes and time is precious as we get older......... Do not waste older people's time

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By *hingy2Woman
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"We meet. But we prefer clubs as we can see who we decide to play with beforehand. If we have met someone at a club before then have no problem hosting at home or arranging to meet again

I’m more and more inclined this way! They’ve turned up for a start...

Our free time is every rare and precious. Arranging a meet to be let down is whole wasted evening hence we prefer a club

Totally see your view. At least this way there is a hot tub and plenty of other options "

This xx

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By *rs dinglesCouple
over a year ago

lybster

There are too many timewasters on here now Fake Profiles ,single guys posing as couples spoilt it for genuine couples who have now left fab swingers .

say they on phones cannot cam on here . but how old are these guys ? could be kids .cannot view profiles why hide them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People still meet but it feels a lot rarer now and a lot of people are just really nasty for no reason. We've learned it's best to not put all your eggs into the fab basket, you'd be surprised at how much more active and even friendly other places can be.

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

2 weekends in a row we have but its not always like that ,real life ie jobs etc can affect things ,,

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By *xpanding our horizons OP   Couple
over a year ago

East Anglia


"People still meet but it feels a lot rarer now and a lot of people are just really nasty for no reason. We've learned it's best to not put all your eggs into the fab basket, you'd be surprised at how much more active and even friendly other places can be."

Such as?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Such as? "

We can't say here due to FABs rules of pretending to be the only place for swingers, but FL, FB groups, t, hope that helps set a direction.

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By *esires of HertsCouple
over a year ago

Herts and London Borders

FABS works for us, we have a fair amount of meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't seem to get any . not for a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The intention was there but far to many just mess you around so currently not

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Had one while I was away last week on holiday but now back to real life, work gets in the way so not much free time....not that I get many offers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people here are loking for fit gorgeous women. muscle tall and perfect men..people like me get block after send my face picture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many just mess around on here, just chatting for weeks, talking nonsense saying they might be free this date and that, if you’ve a sparse profile people will need to ask lots of questions and will frankly get bored and move on.

So get your profile set up properly with lots of information, target who you fancy, send face pics and 2 dates you are free to meet and wait for the response. If they don’t respond, or respond with no face pics, block and move on, if they say they are not free until October or whenever, use the private notes, save the message and move on

It’s easy.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t think they do

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By *anaccomMan
over a year ago

bolton

Anyone in bolton fancy a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember back in the day it was house parties scenario would be go for drinks and something to eat then back to the designated hosts house. As I am getting back into the scene again after a lengthy abscence Im unsure if this is still the case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With real world stuff, finding time and opportunity is a challenge. That said hoping for more time soon. "

indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep...got one on Wednesday

Show off lol x "

Don't worry it's been cancelled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We still do meet and like the social as well as sexual aspect of the lifestyle. We have some long term friends and making some new ones. But as is said you have to put the effort in to get something good out. Mr

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By *xpanding our horizons OP   Couple
over a year ago

East Anglia


"Such as?

We can't say here due to FABs rules of pretending to be the only place for swingers, but FL, FB groups, t, hope that helps set a direction."

Nope. That means nothing to me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People don’t meet just chat and here to get some cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did somebody say cake?

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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago

Okehampton

As and when we want to play, we do.

We have a look round to see who might be interested.

Like a lot have already said people tend to busier now.

We never blame the Site, nor the people on it..Life is not all about being on here.

Some have to have a meet displayed every week (in our opinion very sad) and then put a status on threatening to leave if it doesn't work for them.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

The older I am getting, the harder I am finding someone who can attract me with both body and mind.

So I have basically been celibate for the last two years, I do try but more and more I am genuinely flabgasted at the lack of basic conversation and this also applies to dating sites, so I have just resigned myself that it is what it is

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By *urenutsMan
over a year ago

waltham cross/Dartford

Foxy you look lovely, would love meet you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm finding it harder to meet.

Girl I was meeting today didn't turn up and didn't respond to any messages to say why.

The last 3 meets I had arranged all cancelled on me.

Think people just go through good and bad phases on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course we do, do you ask to meet people you're chatting to, socially I mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Members club in clacton, not that far from Ipswich "

Ipswich folk don't travel

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London&Dublin

Of course people do meet here.

You just have to be careful to out the timewasters.

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By *xpanding our horizons OP   Couple
over a year ago

East Anglia

And guess what...we booked a hotel for tonight, and they suddenly decide to block us this evening. No explanation. No warning. Nothing.

I can't afford to be spending on hotel rooms like it's nothing. Bloody rude!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We still meet people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You got to be a select few. Clubs I meet privately seems not

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By *harliebbwWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I don't really bother meeting new people. I meet with friends or I just go to the club and see what happens there and then

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By *jb773Man
over a year ago

Bishops Stortford

Unfortunately for me not yet, but im editing my profile and and hoping that brings me more good luck in the future

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By *JCouple
over a year ago

Teesside


"We meet. But we prefer clubs as we can see who we decide to play with beforehand. If we have met someone at a club before then have no problem hosting at home or arranging to meet again

I’m more and more inclined this way! They’ve turned up for a start...

Our free time is every rare and precious. Arranging a meet to be let down is whole wasted evening hence we prefer a club

Totally see your view. At least this way there is a hot tub and plenty of other options

This xx"

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

5 meets in 10 weeks thinking we are doing ok ,with another 2 on the cards for 2 weeks time ,and i thought we were too rural ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And guess what...we booked a hotel for tonight, and they suddenly decide to block us this evening. No explanation. No warning. Nothing.

I can't afford to be spending on hotel rooms like it's nothing. Bloody rude! "

That's really unfortunate, we always try to book a room we can cancel last minute and still get our money back.

On the odd occasion we haven't been able to, we use the room for a night out together anyway, so no big lost.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am having two meets very soon they will be my first but took long enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a meet tonight, I turned up early. Waited, waited. No answer from her. Went to check her profile, she’s blocked me. Her fucking loss though haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had no problems in the past with meets, other than 2 couples who invited us to their house party & they looked nothing like there photos! Disappointed indeed!

I hear about others who encounter all kinds of problems/time wasters/fakes sad really x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of us try to meet..but Iv had 2 no shows and a cancellation in the space of 6 days...so it’s other people that are not meeting it seems

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By *lancmangecplCouple
over a year ago

farnborough


"And guess what...we booked a hotel for tonight, and they suddenly decide to block us this evening. No explanation. No warning. Nothing.

I can't afford to be spending on hotel rooms like it's nothing. Bloody rude! "

This.

We’ve had it happen a couple of times. Did get apologies though but annoying when you’ve booked childcare and a hotel. We haven’t bothered trying to arrange anything since and just kept it to clubs and socials.

Saying that, we travel up to Suffolk a few times a year so....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm looking to meet. Not easy to find people who see me as more than just their toy or a disposable free pussy for "meet now".

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Yes people meet. Our experience is that it takes time,we want to meet the right people not just meet for meetings sake. If that means we go months without a meet then so be it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some of us try to meet..but Iv had 2 no shows and a cancellation in the space of 6 days...so it’s other people that are not meeting it seems "

Don't understand why people do this stuff - cancellation with notice I guess can be genuine but I see so many stories of people doing no shows. There also seem to be a lot of fake couples profiles around where the 'husband' is conveniently available all the time

That all said meets can and do happen, just sometimes specific requirements can limit your choices.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke


"Some of us try to meet..but Iv had 2 no shows and a cancellation in the space of 6 days...so it’s other people that are not meeting it seems "

Let’s meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not met anyone yet and been on for some time now tut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And guess what...we booked a hotel for tonight, and they suddenly decide to block us this evening. No explanation. No warning. Nothing.

I can't afford to be spending on hotel rooms like it's nothing. Bloody rude!

That's really unfortunate, we always try to book a room we can cancel last minute and still get our money back.

On the odd occasion we haven't been able to, we use the room for a night out together anyway, so no big lost.

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That’s a good way of doing it, plan a night out and stay over for yourselves and if anything happens it does and if not just enjoy yourselves and have a good night just the two of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And guess what...we booked a hotel for tonight, and they suddenly decide to block us this evening. No explanation. No warning. Nothing.

I can't afford to be spending on hotel rooms like it's nothing. Bloody rude!

That's really unfortunate, we always try to book a room we can cancel last minute and still get our money back.

On the odd occasion we haven't been able to, we use the room for a night out together anyway, so no big lost.

That’s a good way of doing it, plan a night out and stay over for yourselves and if anything happens it does and if not just enjoy yourselves and have a good night just the two of you "

Definitely when you're a couple you always have your favourite filthy fun with you - your partner

More frustrating for singles this happens to I imagine.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

I don’t get as many meets as I would like but I have no problem meeting someone for social or adult fun.I find socials and clubs are a good way to meet people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And guess what...we booked a hotel for tonight, and they suddenly decide to block us this evening. No explanation. No warning. Nothing.

I can't afford to be spending on hotel rooms like it's nothing. Bloody rude!

That's really unfortunate, we always try to book a room we can cancel last minute and still get our money back.

On the odd occasion we haven't been able to, we use the room for a night out together anyway, so no big lost.

That’s a good way of doing it, plan a night out and stay over for yourselves and if anything happens it does and if not just enjoy yourselves and have a good night just the two of you

Definitely when you're a couple you always have your favourite filthy fun with you - your partner

More frustrating for singles this happens to I imagine."
Totally as a single I think you have to go on trust and verifications and chatting on the phone etc but as a couple you can do whatever you want! It’s bliss!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some of us try to meet..but Iv had 2 no shows and a cancellation in the space of 6 days...so it’s other people that are not meeting it seems

Don't understand why people do this stuff - cancellation with notice I guess can be genuine but I see so many stories of people doing no shows. There also seem to be a lot of fake couples profiles around where the 'husband' is conveniently available all the time

That all said meets can and do happen, just sometimes specific requirements can limit your choices."

If they don’t meet the requirements they shouldn’t ask you to meet...it’s all in black and white on my profile and in this case someone I’d been talking to for months...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I still meet when I am free too and also go to clubs they can be fun because you can watch others or they than watch you playing it all depends on what turns you on. But I think looking at someone’s verifications gives you a good idea what they are like and if you would like to chat with them and hopefully meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes people meet but I'm finding it harder to meet unattached people atm ... so none can meet when I can!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes people meet.People also mess others about,don't show up,cancel at the last second or just go silent and disappear.

If you want to actually physically meet potentially like-minded people then clubs,socials,parties and events are a much better bet than solely relying on Fab.They're a safe environment,people are already there,everyone is there for similar reasons,it's much easier to get a feel for someone in person than online,there's no old or misleading pictures and profiles to deal with,and if you don't play with anyone you still have a fun evening out regardless,which as a single can make a big difference.

I remember one of my first club visits with my now ex when we were first getting into swinging,there was a list of popular swinging websites pinned up by the bar (which is how I found Fab initially) with short reviews of each.The review for Fab was "One of the better and more popular sites,but a lot of fakes and timewasters".I'd say that review was true over 10 years ago and has become even more truthful as the years have passed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes people meet. Our experience is that it takes time,we want to meet the right people not just meet for meetings sake. If that means we go months without a meet then so be it."

Snap!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We used to get loads of meets. Not had one in a long time. Disappointing. Same here. Very disappointing "

Yes, disappointing is the word of the moment.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

This is were clubs come into their element.

Clubs don't cancel and you don't have to commit to one fixed meet. If the chemistry is not there, you simply find someone else to talk to.

Clearly clubs are not to everyone's taste, but they do have their benefits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is were clubs come into their element.

Clubs don't cancel and you don't have to commit to one fixed meet. If the chemistry is not there, you simply find someone else to talk to.

Clearly clubs are not to everyone's taste, but they do have their benefits. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I get meets!

Don’t use the club tactic as prefer 1-2-1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We used to get loads of meets. Not had one in a long time. Disappointing."

Yes, a lot. Considering I'm back after a long break I've found it much easier to meet people on my new profile... took me ages when first started years back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is were clubs come into their element.

Clubs don't cancel and you don't have to commit to one fixed meet. If the chemistry is not there, you simply find someone else to talk to.

Clearly clubs are not to everyone's taste, but they do have their benefits. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs for me! there’s far to many just mess around on here

1 They can’t even read your profile

2 They expect to meet with not even knowing what they look like (as if you would)

3 Most are out of your area (how’s that going to work)

4 You get chatted to like a piece of meat (no respect) so just here on forums now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've probably already met everyone and no one left"

Exactly lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get hundreds of offers a day even with me blocking the majority I've even had to start blocking people to keep my mail box down take some of mine if you want ..

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By *DCouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Okehampton

We do not have any problems to meet single men but it is take too much time and afford now to arrange meeting with couples. It is easy for us to go to clubs.

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

If people struggle to meet, the problem is generally with them not with others

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

Certainly don’t meet me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is this thing you call a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only on Wednesdays

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

It's been awhile !!

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yes, I had two lovely meets last week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, I had two lovely meets last week "
were they both on a Wednesday?

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Yes, I had two lovely meets last week were they both on a Wednesday? "

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, I had two lovely meets last week were they both on a Wednesday?

Nope"
lol damnit that's my theory crushed

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By *ittlemiss1985Woman
over a year ago

Lansing

I'd love to do meets, but my living situation and lack of a car makes it difficult.

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By *hongguyMan
over a year ago

dewsbury

shite for meets in leeds

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

2 meets this week in SW Scotland ,miracles DO happen ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We used to get loads of meets. Not had one in a long time. Disappointing."

of course people meet on here OP this site has changed a lot

be patient

I never expect anything

if I do then great

if not I will not cry my eyes out

or lose sleep

one day someone will message you for all the right reasons

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"And guess what...we booked a hotel for tonight, and they suddenly decide to block us this evening. No explanation. No warning. Nothing.

I can't afford to be spending on hotel rooms like it's nothing. Bloody rude! "

Perhaps meeting for a social first rather than jumping straight in with booking hotels would be better in future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if you are a couple or a woman. People chat and move on within two messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After not meeting for months and months had a few social meets in the last week Spring is in the air ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a good amount of meets x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just had one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm overdue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had one and I've been on and off here for 3 years or more can honestly say that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Constantly

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Once or twice, I'm always available.

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By *tickler2000Man
over a year ago

St Agnes

I've had regular meets. Would like more but life gets in the way.

Have some couples and a lady who like to meet regularly.

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By *agnar1980Man
over a year ago

Poole

I have arranged a few meets only to be let down at the last minute. Happened again this afternoon. Been on here just over a year & still waiting for my first meet. Hopefully will happen one day.

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By *ack-offMan
over a year ago

hertfordshire

If anyone is struggling I will meet u, but you’re probably make an excuse in the end

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By *ylvialonglegsTV/TS
over a year ago

Neath


"We used to get loads of meets. Not had one in a long time. Disappointing."

I had a lovely cock on yesterday. With a nice man attached!

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Don’t even respond never mind meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, of course. "

Having been in the Manchester area for over 3 months now, I’d have to disagree.

The Northwest seems to have a thriving club scene (which doesn’t really interest me, if I’m honest) but individual meets, even getting messages read, let alone receiving replies, seems rarer and rarer.

I can’t even persuade anyone to join me for nothing more than a curry in Wilmslow tonight.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Mrs M had one last night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 months isn’t bad going compared to some

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By *S45Man
over a year ago

London /

I am away a lot in hotels for work and you would think that would be ideal situation, but agree not easy getting a meet.

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Herne Bay

Got a meet off here for Saturday

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester


"We used to get loads of meets. Not had one in a long time. Disappointing."

No! Did nobody tell you? Meets finished in 2019. It's a rule now.

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over a year ago


"We used to get loads of meets. Not had one in a long time. Disappointing.

No! Did nobody tell you? Meets finished in 2019. It's a rule now."

That’s a terrible rule lol and needs to be changed! We should make 2020 the year of awesome meets!

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over a year ago


"We used to get loads of meets. Not had one in a long time. Disappointing.

No! Did nobody tell you? Meets finished in 2019. It's a rule now.

That’s a terrible rule lol and needs to be changed! We should make 2020 the year of awesome meets! "

you bloody jinx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whatever you do don't say you're meeting anytime soon you'll be lynched

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People definitely still meet. As to how many depends on your standards.

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By *ungmagic10Man
over a year ago

Northampton

My meeting trends are so unintentionally weird lol I usually go a while without meets, then when I finally get one, for some weird reason I get a few more in that same time space.. them goes dry for a while again lol

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By *ungmagic10Man
over a year ago

Northampton


"My meeting trends are so unintentionally weird lol I usually go a while without meets, then when I finally get one, for some weird reason I get a few more in that same time space.. them goes dry for a while again lol "

Then **

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’ve had a “like busses” start to the year. Before that ............................,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a few seagulls today do you think theyre related to albatrosses because they are big birds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to meet but on lockdown so no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that old lack blagic has me in a spin

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"whatever you do don't say you're meeting anytime soon you'll be lynched "

why anyone would try to meet at the moment is beyond me!!

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"I've met a few seagulls today do you think theyre related to albatrosses because they are big birds "

Only if they're close up, more likely related to sparrows if they are a distance away as they're a similar size

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