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By *loryholedewsbury OP   Man
over a year ago

dewsbury

Hi

Im all for guys wanting to be discreet and private. But is it wrong to ask for a face pic just so i can see who will be turning up. Its just makes me feel more comftable and would always return a pic if asked( and i do offer). I only seem to be pissing people off.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Hi

Im all for guys wanting to be discreet and private. But is it wrong to ask for a face pic just so i can see who will be turning up. Its just makes me feel more comftable and would always return a pic if asked( and i do offer). I only seem to be pissing people off."

Not wrong at all, I wouldn't contemplate meeting anyone without seeing face pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally acceptable to ask for a pic but I only ask for one if I’m sending one with that message, people tend to ask then refuse to send one back! If someone asks without sending then I usually just reply back ‘yeah of course, do you?’

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By *urvy Girl 79Woman
over a year ago

Near Bourne

Same here. I'd never even consider meeting anyone without seeing a face picture first. If those people aren't happy to send you one then move on and find someone that is.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

You're not wrong at all, if I was arranging to meet someone I would expect a face pic so I know who I'm meeting & if there's even any attraction to that person. If they refuse to send one I would block & move on

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By *anilla no kinkWoman
over a year ago

plymouth

I only meet guys that have public face pics as to me that shows they are genuine and I do screenshot their profiles before I meet them incase something happens .I don’t think that you can be over careful with these things

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By *ung_londonMan
over a year ago

London

It’s your safety and security - if what you need to feel OK about a meet isn’t something they are prepared to do then (despite what it might feel in the heat of the moment) it’s not worth it. And the same goes for the other person - we don’t always have exactly the same concerns as each other. I never meet without an exchange of face pictures and an exchange of text messages, for example. That’s just how I do it - others have different strategies. But in the end, if you don’t feel safe and right about it, follow your instincts.

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By *loryholedewsbury OP   Man
over a year ago

dewsbury

Haha i knew the women on this site would speak sense. I think because i am a glory hole that men just want complete anonymity but i dont play that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

Im all for guys wanting to be discreet and private. But is it wrong to ask for a face pic just so i can see who will be turning up. Its just makes me feel more comftable and would always return a pic if asked( and i do offer). I only seem to be pissing people off.

Not wrong at all, I wouldn't contemplate meeting anyone without seeing face pics."

This and in a public place

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I would never dream of meeting someone without seeing a face picture.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I don't do blind date. No pic, no meet.

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

We wouldn't meet people without seeing what they look like first! We have public face pics and have no hang ups about that!

We also prefer to speak to someone beforehand as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

Im all for guys wanting to be discreet and private. But is it wrong to ask for a face pic just so i can see who will be turning up. Its just makes me feel more comftable and would always return a pic if asked( and i do offer). I only seem to be pissing people off."

Probably women pretending to be men, mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would anyone meet without seeing a face pic?!? I only know if I fancy people, once I have seen their face

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

The amount of men on here expecting to meet with out showing Thier pic is staggering , I for one won't bow to Thier type of discretion , after all it's my home location that will be given out , no face pic and I'm not even chatting !

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East


"Hi

Im all for guys wanting to be discreet and private. But is it wrong to ask for a face pic just so i can see who will be turning up. Its just makes me feel more comftable and would always return a pic if asked( and i do offer). I only seem to be pissing people off."

I always ask for a face pic (as part of the dance that precedes an invitation to have sex).

Seems reasonable to me.

If I'm going to invite some to get jiggy-jiggy with me, I like to know what they look like.

If nothing else, I know I am answering the door to the right person lol.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I show my face on here, no chance I'm going to meet someone who's too shy or maybe other more nefarious reasons why they're not showing their face.

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