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By *ong_legs2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

essex

hey ya, YES, another one of those 'any advice on our profile' threads but we've been on this site for over a year now so we feel like we should be allowed to ask for a little help.

we've have had two social meets (and been let down a couple of times) but are finding it hard to chat to single ladies.

yes we understand we're lucky to of even had those 2 social meets and yes we understand that by only looking for single ladies we are greatly shorting our chances of a meet but is does anyone have any advice as to how we can improve our profile n such??

btw, we do have face pics and we do have pics of the two of us in our private gallery.

thanks guys!

jane n s xx

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

a lot of your profile is the pointless warning the rest is what you want

in seriousness if you were a bi fem would you answer?

i meet couples but i get no sense of who you are or what u could offer me other than the fact your partner has a strap on fantasy i could help her fufill...what would be in it for any woman meeting you? The idea of some woman clinically fucking me with her strap on, not sexy

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By *ong_legs2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

essex

thanks for the help, genuinely appreciate it

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

np looking at your veris u are nice ppl let your profile show it

not to blow my trumpet but read ours,u might not like us but u know who we are

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By *ong_legs2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

essex

yup, totally get what you mean, thank you very much! we are nice people (we think), just not as easy to show it over the internet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your profile is great... you say what you want but there is a small amount of single females on here... have you thought about meeting a couple for fem on fem only? x

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By *ong_legs2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

essex


"your profile is great... you say what you want but there is a small amount of single females on here... have you thought about meeting a couple for fem on fem only? x"

thanks but jemima was right, her profile is so much more informative and inviting.

we've changed a bit, hopefully that will make a difference.

as far as fem on fem goes thats its not out of the question but at the end of the day a threesome is something we want to share together and not leave one another out of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Guys

Something I noticed was you cannot travel and cannot accomodate?

As a single fem I always look at this to see what kind of meet the person maybe looking for i.e Mine/there's/hotel

so being neither that would stump me

Just my view

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By *ong_legs2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

essex

ahh, fized it. we can't accommodate but can meet in a hotel or their place if they are local enough

thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know it says on your profile that the male half of the couple may only soft swap but ladies are still going to want to see a pic of him in public especially with his body type being described as large. Your profile reads to me like you've not fulfilled this fantasy yet and that the boundaries may change in that the male half may or may not be allowed to full swap and that may put people off. Good luck in fulfilling your fantasy. Ms

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By *o Peep n WoodyCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

In our handful of FFM meets Woody has also been involved in FULL swop and I really believe that this makes a big difference to a single bi female when she is considering couples.

In our experience bi/bicurious females still want to have full sex and with both M & F.

just a thought, but maybe thats why you haven't had much response by bi females to your profile

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By *ong_legs2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

essex


"I know it says on your profile that the male half of the couple may only soft swap but ladies are still going to want to see a pic of him in public especially with his body type being described as large. Your profile reads to me like you've not fulfilled this fantasy yet and that the boundaries may change in that the male half may or may not be allowed to full swap and that may put people off. Good luck in fulfilling your fantasy. Ms"

we've got pics of the both of us in our private gallery.


"In our handful of FFM meets Woody has also been involved in FULL swop and I really believe that this makes a big difference to a single bi female when she is considering couples.

In our experience bi/bicurious females still want to have full sex and with both M & F.

just a thought, but maybe thats why you haven't had much response by bi females to your profile "

we had a ffm before we joined fabs (which was full swap) it just comes down to how comfortable jane feels with the lady we know its a not to everyones taste but its not a definite no

thanks guys x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your profile is fine. It does get across that you are looking mainly for women and the male half will only soft swap. As you've said, you have pics of the male half in your private gallery, and you don't have to feel pressured with a male full swapping. This is about what you want, not about what other people expect.

I think what you are looking for is limiting so be prepared for that, but at least you are being honest about your comfort zone and what would breach that.

I agree with Jem to try and let your personalities shine through, keep it positive and friendly.

The legal notice just takes up space on your profile. Unless you really do intend to sue if someone breaches your privacy, and that is extremely expensive and stressful, then why put it, no one takes it seriously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you had the male pics on public gallery it would give a chance for interested females to get in touch, rather than you picking them out yourself and sending them privatley.

see they may be a few who would of contacted you that would of been interested if your profile was more open that way showing you both off

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By *ong_legs2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

essex


"I think your profile is fine. It does get across that you are looking mainly for women and the male half will only soft swap. As you've said, you have pics of the male half in your private gallery, and you don't have to feel pressured with a male full swapping. This is about what you want, not about what other people expect.

I think what you are looking for is limiting so be prepared for that, but at least you are being honest about your comfort zone and what would breach that.

I agree with Jem to try and let your personalities shine through, keep it positive and friendly.

The legal notice just takes up space on your profile. Unless you really do intend to sue if someone breaches your privacy, and that is extremely expensive and stressful, then why put it, no one takes it seriously "

ok....we'll take it off, but if someone breaches our privacy we're gonna be after you! lol

thanks for the feedback

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"I think your profile is fine. It does get across that you are looking mainly for women and the male half will only soft swap. As you've said, you have pics of the male half in your private gallery, and you don't have to feel pressured with a male full swapping. This is about what you want, not about what other people expect.

I think what you are looking for is limiting so be prepared for that, but at least you are being honest about your comfort zone and what would breach that.

I agree with Jem to try and let your personalities shine through, keep it positive and friendly.

The legal notice just takes up space on your profile. Unless you really do intend to sue if someone breaches your privacy, and that is extremely expensive and stressful, then why put it, no one takes it seriously "

Your personality does shine through now and you seem far more inviting and friendly

(this is the rewitten version iconic)

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By *ong_legs2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

essex

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By *ong_legs2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

essex

thanks alot for the honesty and advice, really appreciate it. probs won't help much but at least we've tried lol.

xx

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