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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good evening everyone!!! I would like to ask a question to the people more experienced creating a event or party! The things is that I have a very big house like a rural vintage mansion in the middle of a long land of orange tree and centenary forest arround the mansion between 2 village's in valencia in a wonderful place with a swimming pool and more of 10 rooms and 3 floors...so i have space for everyone who want to come to enjoy, I will be the chef cooking amazing mediterranean recipes from valencia and we can stay for many days...so Maybe for September or let see..the river jucar is very close and we can do a nice activities with kayaking and a lot more to do...so...how I can start to organise a properly party please...eny little helps are wellcome...thanks a lot for your advice...

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

Me and my fella spent a week in the old town in Valencia in February. Lovely Spain. Felt like real Spain rather than the version manufactured for tourists.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good evening everyone!!! I would like to ask a question to the people more experienced creating a event or party! The things is that I have a very big house like a rural vintage mansion in the middle of a long land of orange tree and centenary forest arround the mansion between 2 village's in valencia in a wonderful place with a swimming pool and more of 10 rooms and 3 floors...so i have space for everyone who want to come to enjoy, I will be the chef cooking amazing mediterranean recipes from valencia and we can stay for many days...so Maybe for September or let see..the river jucar is very close and we can do a nice activities with kayaking and a lot more to do...so...how I can start to organise a properly party please...eny little helps are wellcome...thanks a lot for your advice..."
I'm on my way now thankyou so much for the invite

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By *rednwilma1Couple
over a year ago

york

Hi Ulisses, sounds like fun, we would certainly be interested in a long weekend out there in the sun.

Please let us know if this is gonna happen xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi Ulisses, sounds like fun, we would certainly be interested in a long weekend out there in the sun.

Please let us know if this is gonna happen xxx

"

you taking Dino too?

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By *easidegirlWoman
over a year ago

south shore


"Good evening everyone!!! I would like to ask a question to the people more experienced creating a event or party! The things is that I have a very big house like a rural vintage mansion in the middle of a long land of orange tree and centenary forest arround the mansion between 2 village's in valencia in a wonderful place with a swimming pool and more of 10 rooms and 3 floors...so i have space for everyone who want to come to enjoy, I will be the chef cooking amazing mediterranean recipes from valencia and we can stay for many days...so Maybe for September or let see..the river jucar is very close and we can do a nice activities with kayaking and a lot more to do...so...how I can start to organise a properly party please...eny little helps are wellcome...thanks a lot for your advice...I'm on my way now thankyou so much for the invite "

Can I be your plus one? Pleeaase

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good evening everyone!!! I would like to ask a question to the people more experienced creating a event or party! The things is that I have a very big house like a rural vintage mansion in the middle of a long land of orange tree and centenary forest arround the mansion between 2 village's in valencia in a wonderful place with a swimming pool and more of 10 rooms and 3 floors...so i have space for everyone who want to come to enjoy, I will be the chef cooking amazing mediterranean recipes from valencia and we can stay for many days...so Maybe for September or let see..the river jucar is very close and we can do a nice activities with kayaking and a lot more to do...so...how I can start to organise a properly party please...eny little helps are wellcome...thanks a lot for your advice...I'm on my way now thankyou so much for the invite

Can I be your plus one? Pleeaase "

yes shall we take wine or spirits to get this party started?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good evening everyone!!! I would like to ask a question to the people more experienced creating a event or party! The things is that I have a very big house like a rural vintage mansion in the middle of a long land of orange tree and centenary forest arround the mansion between 2 village's in valencia in a wonderful place with a swimming pool and more of 10 rooms and 3 floors...so i have space for everyone who want to come to enjoy, I will be the chef cooking amazing mediterranean recipes from valencia and we can stay for many days...so Maybe for September or let see..the river jucar is very close and we can do a nice activities with kayaking and a lot more to do...so...how I can start to organise a properly party please...eny little helps are wellcome...thanks a lot for your advice..."

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"Good evening everyone!!! I would like to ask a question to the people more experienced creating a event or party! The things is that I have a very big house like a rural vintage mansion in the middle of a long land of orange tree and centenary forest arround the mansion between 2 village's in valencia in a wonderful place with a swimming pool and more of 10 rooms and 3 floors...so i have space for everyone who want to come to enjoy, I will be the chef cooking amazing mediterranean recipes from valencia and we can stay for many days...so Maybe for September or let see..the river jucar is very close and we can do a nice activities with kayaking and a lot more to do...so...how I can start to organise a properly party please...eny little helps are wellcome...thanks a lot for your advice..."

Maybe start a Facebook group that people can join. Then you can post updates with pictures and videos to whet people's appetite. Then when the time is right you can publish the dates and get people to reply on the page. Maybe you could even handle bookings via Eventbrite. You can even set up a free event where people just add their names so it's just easier to keep track.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey hey hey!!!wawww so happy to hear from you team...looks is getting colour..hihih...yes of course we can spend a long weekend, even more if you like!!! And actually will be no a problem about how many people, becouse If need more places to stay I have other big house in (sueca) a 2 minuts walk to the beach...I am not saying that I am rich ,yeah please don't think that!! But I been lucky to have all this kind of things from my family in the past, so about yes I am rich is about my heart and love ,becouse I am a very good person and in the most things I enjoy is sharing and showing how many nice things I can do arround my life just giving and trying the best to spend a wonderful time with new people who I specting to be very nicely and positive energetically flow to new proyect experience and put all together of my lovely friends from valencia there's a ladies and gentlemen's who would like to meet people from London or arround the world so that why I am trying to conect everything......

About Facebook, forget about, believe me, is to many people with out control.....! I would like to make it discreetly but effective, no to much noise but not in a secret to!! So .like just the family, better some good ones properly than a lot and big mess!!!...so yeah ,let see for when we can do it...every one is freedom to talk about and coordinate properly....let's talk about it...thanks for your time to all....

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

Can you say that again in a sexy Spanish accent, please

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Who is dino???jajajaja...maybe will come pocholo...jajajaja

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Of course yes...shouldn't be a problem no?? Hahajaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No worries the best wine ,beer and casalla shots is the best and super cheap believe me...and I will make sangria properly with the fruits arround the house..jijijijij

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks you very much body, we will find other ways more from here...the family arround here ...thanks could be a good Idea....yes...by wassap group maybe much better to can show pictures and videos...yesss...good one mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Actually is not in Spanish, jijiji...is in our lenguage ( catalan and valencian is the same language...jijiji...buy yes I can of course...jajaha...to much work for you translating no???..jijiji

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds good

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By *oss and SuzieCouple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

We're just down the road in Javea xx

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

I have a big soft spot for Catalans.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


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About Facebook, forget about, believe me, is to many people with out control.....! I would like to make it discreetly but effective, no to much noise but not in a secret to!! So .like just the family, better some good ones properly than a lot and big mess!!!...so yeah ,let see for when we can do it...every one is freedom to talk about and coordinate properly....let's talk about it...thanks for your time to all...."

You can make a private members only group by the way.

Failing that there are loads of tools for organising a party.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll gladly help.

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south


"Hey hey hey!!!wawww so happy to hear from you team...looks is getting colour..hihih...yes of course we can spend a long weekend, even more if you like!!! And actually will be no a problem about how many people, becouse If need more places to stay I have other big house in (sueca) a 2 minuts walk to the beach...I am not saying that I am rich ,yeah please don't think that!! But I been lucky to have all this kind of things from my family in the past, so about yes I am rich is about my heart and love ,becouse I am a very good person and in the most things I enjoy is sharing and showing how many nice things I can do arround my life just giving and trying the best to spend a wonderful time with new people who I specting to be very nicely and positive energetically flow to new proyect experience and put all together of my lovely friends from valencia there's a ladies and gentlemen's who would like to meet people from London or arround the world so that why I am trying to conect everything......

About Facebook, forget about, believe me, is to many people with out control.....! I would like to make it discreetly but effective, no to much noise but not in a secret to!! So .like just the family, better some good ones properly than a lot and big mess!!!...so yeah ,let see for when we can do it...every one is freedom to talk about and coordinate properly....let's talk about it...thanks for your time to all...."

Am in Valencia late October 6 for few day not sure yet staying hotel with friends, enjoy looking after people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks you my man ! You right for sure! But becouse I don't trust to much facebook for privacy, and one mistake from me could be very easily and I cannot imagine my mum added in the list...jajajaja... can imagine...jajajaja

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Xavia is wonderful place a half hour driving from my house...cala blanca is a nice beach and is full of amazing places arround for do scuba diving ...enjoy a lot

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good morning ladies and gentlemen's in October is not really winter, still good and not that hot., let see or maybe in one BANKholiday to make possible to come more people...or what you thinking about the dates??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good morning ladies and gentlemen's in October is not really winter, still good and not that hot., let see or maybe in one BANKholiday to make possible to come more people...or what you thinking about the dates??

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Good morning ladies and gentlemen's in October is not really winter, still good and not that hot., let see or maybe in one BANKholiday to make possible to come more people...or what you thinking about the dates??"

Hello and what a marvellous idea. My advice would be not to do it in the school half term holiday as many parents won’t be able to get babysitters.

The date varies slightly all over the UK

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thats good starting point to know more about when to do it!! Lol..all idea wellcome....

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"My advice would be not to do it in the school half term holiday as many parents won’t be able to get babysitters.

The date varies slightly all over the UK "

If you make it the last week in September you will definitely miss the school holidays

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I THINK, to get everyone happy with the dates time we will can go and make it easier for all the event , should be a long weekend like from Friday morning or evening to Monday eny or even Tuesday,... and in last of September or in October can be good becouse still will be a good weather and the fly tickets will be cheaper aswell and less peaple arround the beach, so can be very interesting to be honest...I am quite exaiting about...now in the end of agost I am going to formentera island for a couple of weeks to stay in my wild place , to refresh my soul and clean my energy, when I will come back, we will make it more serious to start to think about!!!! I am very happy to open my house for everyone who comes with positive attitude good intentions and clear dharma, and never mind who else come with or without or how old can be , that doesn't matter oviusly, but will be nice if we could balance the people who will come ,like I am single, and for sure we will be more so if you know someone who would like to joint us like a single ladies, will help to mix the atmosphere!! And couples very wellcome and everyone who comes to share love and fan ... I have piano, painting art workshop , meditation area , with a professional table massage

! And amazing big forest with orange tree arround the house,

The river a 5 minuts walk! The beach a 10 minuts driving house , enyway when I will create the wassap group for the peaple who wants to come and we agreed, I will send photos i videos about what I am talking about....so I Will be the chef and we will do aswell some massages between us to make a funny competition to see who is the spiritual massagist team leader ....jijijiji...I am enjoying just imagining ,I hope will can come nice and interesting peaple when I will put the dates for the event...and will be a great time for all to come...jijiji

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

We would love an invite to this

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By *rednwilma1Couple
over a year ago

york

Hi Ulisses, Whatsapp group is a great idea .... Keep us informed and we are looking forward to this happening xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Creat !!!! Looks is getting colour the event!!! Of course everyone with positive intentions will be very welcome and will be nice and interesting to meet you all , yes definitely the wassap group for this event will be the best option to clarify everything ,like this I will can send the address and put photos and videos of the place we will gona be for a long weekend ...jijiji

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Creat !!!! Looks is getting colour the event!!! Of course everyone with positive intentions will be very welcome and will be nice and interesting to meet you all , yes definitely the wassap group for this event will be the best option to clarify everything ,like this I will can send the address and put photos and videos of the place we will gona be for a long weekend ...jijiji"

You may want do a KIK group instead. WhatsApp uses telephone numbers and there’s no way on this planet I would ever give my number out to be shared among total strangers on a swinging site.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well, you make me think now many things about it! Looks like I am not much smart in this kind of things, So you will have to show me how to do it! Because I have not Idea what and how to do it, but if you know better, but thanks you for show me other things about the way you telling

me ( maybe right) , but how I should trust now the people who is coming if I am opening the door of my house for everyone thinking in this way if the people don't like to share and show the phone number, how I should do trust if I am going to share my house and show you my life completely open.... I mean , if I have tu trust people who don't want to show me phone number, I am not feeling confortable, maybe you right definitely!! But don't you think that I am risking more than everyone getting all of you inside my place and my life....or maybe I am to much ignorant...could be....

enyway thanks for open my eyes, I will think about ..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, you make me think now many things about it! Looks like I am not much smart in this kind of things, So you will have to show me how to do it! Because I have not Idea what and how to do it, but if you know better, but thanks you for show me other things about the way you telling

me ( maybe right) , but how I should trust now the people who is coming if I am opening the door of my house for everyone thinking in this way if the people don't like to share and show the phone number, how I should do trust if I am going to share my house and show you my life completely open.... I mean , if I have tu trust people who don't want to show me phone number, I am not feeling confortable, maybe you right definitely!! But don't you think that I am risking more than everyone getting all of you inside my place and my life....or maybe I am to much ignorant...could be....

enyway thanks for open my eyes, I will think about ..lol"

Keep this thread going... Download Kik in the app store on your phone.. Share/ Invite people from this thread to join via your username. If they are serious get them to do what this site does and get them to send a picture of themselves (face/ body etc) with them holding a piece of paper with your username and their FAB username on it as a private message to yourself.. Then create a group on Kik and add the people who have done so. That will let you know whos serious or not and you can also check out their FAB verifications for authenticity...

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Just be careful, threads that share kik names get deleted.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

And I don't think it's that people don't trust you with their number OP. On a Whatsapp group their number is available to everyone in the group. I think it's quite reasonable that you have a phone number for all that attend and that you speak to them on the phone beforehand, both of them in the case of couples.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey bigben thanks a lot mate! This is different way to show me with out needed to scare me..hehehe..thanks for your advice!! I think you will be a good one to meet up for a drink and talk about it together for help me properly explaining directly if you don't mind ofcourse! Are u living in london?...by the way I am flying this Friday to my place and I will come back I think in the end of August, so we will check how and when we could have a meeting, if u agreed...in this kik you talking about is possible to send videos and put things inside like information address and all this kind of things? Because here the organisation deleting straight away the names like web pages and a lot more things so...

thats why's I thought wassap will be easier, but now I start to understand more or less a bit more...hehehe...thanks for your time all of you guys have a good evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just be careful, threads that share kik names get deleted."

Ahh ok.. I wasnt aware of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey bigben thanks a lot mate! This is different way to show me with out needed to scare me..hehehe..thanks for your advice!! I think you will be a good one to meet up for a drink and talk about it together for help me properly explaining directly if you don't mind ofcourse! Are u living in london?...by the way I am flying this Friday to my place and I will come back I think in the end of August, so we will check how and when we could have a meeting, if u agreed...in this kik you talking about is possible to send videos and put things inside like information address and all this kind of things? Because here the organisation deleting straight away the names like web pages and a lot more things so...

thats why's I thought wassap will be easier, but now I start to understand more or less a bit more...hehehe...thanks for your time all of you guys have a good evening "

Hi again.. Sure, id be more than welcome to help but as suggested some people wouldnt be comfortable sharing their phone numbers to people they dont know on here.. I guess everything would have to be done through private messages on at first to find out whos interested, then do as i suggested - get themselves to contact you personally on KIK in a private message.. Moving forward from that you could talk to them via KIK or on their phone if they dont mind that. Yes you can share pictures and videos on KIK... Any other thoughts anyone?

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By *ackandJill1Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

What a lovely interesting idea, we would love to hear how this develops, please consider us for an invite, also we are happy to help in anyway to help you achieve this x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well ,, well ,,well...good news, and very welcome the new lovely players ,step by step,,,,first very soon I will introduce a one friend she is from a swinger group in Spain and she is gonna help me to conect and organise both groups for the weekend party, we are thinking to 10 more or less and 4 single man and 5 woman to more or less balance between us and we gona make one in October and one in November like this everyone who want to come and enjoy the experience in the rural place, if can't come in October will can come in November if we are to much people so we will have to split in two party's , to give the opportunity a much I can to all of you, but for not create a massive party becouse if not will be a bit messy and out control for everything and I think is better to make it easy and very familiar and confortable and keeping the quiet but exaiting positive atmosphere arround us for enjoy properly and be more closer together in both partys if we are to much or not everyone can go in this dates so all of you have a chance to go in one or the other one...or something like that, if stars to get in to many so I will clouse for allready the people who is inside,.let see I never made and organise something similar , but I am trying to do my best for everyone with positive way, with love and dedication.. thanks a lot for your time and your happiness for make it happen , is open for cuestion or ideas to build the party

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

This is a great idea and very generous of you. We really hope we can make one of the dates (and get an invite )

Best of luck

If you set up a Kik group our name is the same as here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sound great November would be lovely x

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By *rednwilma1Couple
over a year ago

york

Hi Ulisses, sounds great, we would be up for October xxx

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By *ot Wife BeckyCouple
over a year ago

Tortox

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By *ot Wife BeckyCouple
over a year ago

Tortox

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By *ot Wife BeckyCouple
over a year ago

Tortox

Following on from the discussion above, we certainly wouldn't use FaceBook or WhatsApp, but happy to use kik or messages on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well ,, well ,,well...good news, and very welcome the new lovely players ,step by step,,,,first very soon I will introduce a one friend she is from a swinger group in Spain and she is gonna help me to conect and organise both groups for the weekend party, we are thinking to 10 more or less and 4 single man and 5 woman to more or less balance between us and we gona make one in October and one in November like this everyone who want to come and enjoy the experience in the rural place, if can't come in October will can come in November if we are to much people so we will have to split in two party's , to give the opportunity a much I can to all of you, but for not create a massive party becouse if not will be a bit messy and out control for everything and I think is better to make it easy and very familiar and confortable and keeping the quiet but exaiting positive atmosphere arround us for enjoy properly and be more closer together in both partys if we are to much or not everyone can go in this dates so all of you have a chance to go in one or the other one...or something like that, if stars to get in to many so I will clouse for allready the people who is inside,.let see I never made and organise something similar , but I am trying to do my best for everyone with positive way, with love and dedication.. thanks a lot for your time and your happiness for make it happen , is open for cuestion or ideas to build the party "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok ok ok ok....very good news and brilliant idea definitely sure.....to don't put a way no body else,...I have the best solution for all....yessss...hihihi....ok so I just asked for little help and we will have two lovely very big houses 1 is in the beach in (el pollo) cullera.... with swimming pool and garden arround aswell completely separate from the town and both are very near so....like this depends of how meny peaple we are we will do things...ok....jejehe...everything down control....you will see....I am happy about it...to don't say not to no body's

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The only we will need will be a van of 9 sits mean for 9 persons...and depending how many people we will be, we will rent in the aeroport...I will be one of the drivers... believe me will be the best way...

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