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Telling my partner I'm on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm looking for advice on how to explain/talk about being on here.

We have been together almost 10 years, our sex is very infrequent and not like it used to be. We have small children, and we both know each others sexualuality mostly, when we first got together she was open to me seeing other people, we even tried with her seeing other women, but now there's a distance between us. Any advice would be great, thanks.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

To be honest I'd start with opening an honest and open dialog with her including how you both feel about sex and forget this site. Once you have that communication and honesty then by all means start a fresh on this site if you both agree that's ok as a couple or just yourself. Don't put the cart before the horse, come back when you and her are ready and both ok with it. Whether that's to play alone or as a couple the main thing is you'd be on here with the knowlage and consent of your partner. I think no would like to find out their partner has signed up on here behind their back, I can imagine that make you feel very shit and worthless.

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"To be honest I'd start with opening an honest and open dialog with her including how you both feel about sex and forget this site. Once you have that communication and honesty then by all means start a fresh on this site if you both agree that's ok as a couple or just yourself. Don't put the cart before the horse, come back when you and her are ready and both ok with it. Whether that's to play alone or as a couple the main thing is you'd be on here with the knowlage and consent of your partner. I think no would like to find out their partner has signed up on here behind their back, I can imagine that make you feel very shit and worthless."

He's gone x

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"To be honest I'd start with opening an honest and open dialog with her including how you both feel about sex and forget this site. Once you have that communication and honesty then by all means start a fresh on this site if you both agree that's ok as a couple or just yourself. Don't put the cart before the horse, come back when you and her are ready and both ok with it. Whether that's to play alone or as a couple the main thing is you'd be on here with the knowlage and consent of your partner. I think no would like to find out their partner has signed up on here behind their back, I can imagine that make you feel very shit and worthless.

He's gone x"

Thank goodness, let's hope he finds a better way forward.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

Why post then leave? Bizarre!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why post then leave? Bizarre! "
he realised asking your advice wasn't going to help now mine maybe ce La vie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why post then leave? Bizarre! "

He was probably expecting support for his dishonest cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ornyspiceCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

He had his Wank

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