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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi,

Just set up my profile and while it might sound sensible to me(probably just me) when I read it, I understand it could sound like utter garbage to some single ladies or couples. Anyone kind enough to help me out on how to structure my profile and also just general icebreaker tips, I've spoken to a few ladies but it never goes anywhere as they somehow think I'm fake due to no veris etc

Thanks in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks ok to me, glad you don't have it rammed with pictures of your privates.

You can accommodate, and you've set an age range. And there is a face pic in there.

Only question is, why have you covered your face in two of your pictures, when you are already showing it in one?

No point really, and may make people a little suspicious.

As for getting verifications, get to a club or a social. As a single guy, I would imagine it's even more important.

All the best

Niki

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks Niki.

I'll try to find a social around me or a club. Also I think I'll just make the one picture with my face a private one which I can send with my first message (just because I prefer being discreet).

Thanks again, really appreciate the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile looks fine to me. Very well explained, etc.

As long as you weren't pushy and repeat messager we'd probably meet you .

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Looks okay to me, though we find pictures of fems and action shots on male profiles very off-putting - but you'll never please everyone.

Good luck.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Have women actually said to you they think your fake or is this an assumption you have made...

Patience maybe the key..

All the very best and nothing seems out of place on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a read through those:

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/8538

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/868684

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/877648

And good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It might be a bit intimidating for some women that you are dating a model. They may worry about being compared.

Having said that, there are some truly stunning females on Fab but it was just a thought when I read your profile.

Enjoy Fab OP!

Miss V

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have a read through those:

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/8538

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/868684

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/877648

And good luck. "

Omg you're still referring to that I could revise that now

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Central

I encourage you to keep it focused on what is important and to strip it of all the rest that os not doing that. Eg, your partners international travel, job etc.

Then be specific about what you are after - you mention there is something but provide no details whatsoever. Either mention it with info or don't, as it adds nothing.

Sell yourself - it doesn't really do this.

Your photos might be what you want to see but you need to make them what your prospective meets want to see. EE need to be more sure that we may find you attractive. Cut photos with other people out. Just have you. Show your physique well. Good clear photos where you are sufficiently close. Show yourself properly and have the majority not being cock pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have a read through those:

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/8538

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/868684

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/877648

And good luck.

Omg you're still referring to that I could revise that now "

Yes, why not? It's a good piece of writing, and good advice .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the feedback, I think that's true - most of the people I spoke to always asked about that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That might be true, I did have someone message if I'd pick her over the girl I'm dating. Although I always try to throw in a genuine compliment with my first message so they know I definitely find them attractive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks, I think I'll need to go through my profile again and revamp based on all the amazing advice I've got

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