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I'm new and after advice on my profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi everyone as the title suggests I'm new to swinging and would like advice on my profile please.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Maybe try smiling in your profile pic ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe try smiling in your profile pic ?"

I agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'll do some tweaking thank you

So nicer pics, more writing about myself and my intent.

Anything else?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I agree with the smiling it will make you look more approachable and your write up is a bit sparse. I like to get a feel for people but you're not giving much a way,not accommodating will make some people think you may be cheating which is fine,but may put some people off. If that's not the case it might be an idea to say why you can't,it's up to you of course.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

More pictures and yes, Smile !

It's been proven on dating apps, the people who smile get more interest, so add a picture. Also some body shots and maybe some in smart casual or a suit.

Your profile is a start, don't put 'msg' it looks lazy, auto correct would be quicker. When I say start, I mean currently it has no content to advise on, women will just pass you by.

Start adding what you like and into, what you're looking for and can offer.

Good luck Op

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have uploaded a new smiling photo just awaiting approval but have added to my profile text now how is that? I tried to keep it informative yet short and direct.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

It's better, I like the honesty about your relationship status. Make sure the smiling picture is your avatar as well.

From your previous profile it's 100% better however it is still very generic. Plenty of guys write they enjoy giving oral etc.. but a profile is very organic so should try a few different things to see if you click with someone. Look at guys on here who are successful, get inspiration but don't copy.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

That's better.

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By *pitfiremk10Man
over a year ago

Gloucester


"I have uploaded a new smiling photo just awaiting approval but have added to my profile text now how is that? I tried to keep it informative yet short and direct. "

Hi hope you dont mind my 2pence worth... I think your profile is pretty good now and when you

Have the new pic it wi definitely help. It's nice to see you take on board the advice given by others. Also dont expect to attract easily. It's hard for single guys and takes time. I wish you all the best and HAPPY FABBING

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all for the advice and mentoring much appreciated

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Nice new pics. Wishing you success on here.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Thank you all for the advice and mentoring much appreciated "

see a smile always works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey I'm fairly new to all this met a couple people but haven't had much luck..

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Hey I'm fairly new to all this met a couple people but haven't had much luck.. "

420 friendly isn't everyone's cup of tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That all?

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Hey I'm fairly new to all this met a couple people but haven't had much luck.. "

Create your own thread and you'll more help, and some people are put off over drug use

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile is okay. Average but okay.

Bathroom shots of body are meh. You can do better. Face shots are good, shows you are versatile on the face fuzz.

Profile text - honesty is good but I would not lead with it.

You want to sell yourself firstly. Sell the experience that will be YOU. You can push the honesty further down.

Anyone interested will read all. But the first lines need to grab their attention.

The line "Hit me up", get rid of it. Its just not right. You can do better.

Good luck.

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