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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi im just puzzled as to why when i message people polietly and with a face pic people wont even reply to say no thanks?

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By *udiguyMan
over a year ago

harrogate

just keep tryin mate ... there s a lotta guys .. not so many couples fems etc lookin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have no way of knowing do we? You may think your message is polite, the people you're messaging could find it dull, inane etc.

Are you messaging people looking for you? You don't have age limits...have they?

When visible I have on my profile exactly the type of man I'm looking for and what I like. I also state I won't reply to anyone outwith my requirements...and I don't, simply delete.

The reality is even if you do meet the criteria they simply don't fancy you. Read the million and one threads on this topic. The only people who get abusive messages it seems are those that reply "thanks, but no thanks"...it's easier to ignore.

You're doing alright for meets so you're doing something right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is very block text when can put people off also add a few more pics.

But the girls have the run of this site have to look at it from there point of view. You send one msg to her you put effort into etc.

She logs on sees she has around 200 new msgs and just does a bulk delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be honest, if your messages are written like your profile I'd delete it straight away.

It starts with "I'll write more later" - after at least a year on the site. And you punctuate with "x" - which is very hard to read.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Hi im just puzzled as to why when i message people polietly and with a face pic people wont even reply to say no thanks? "

Replying to say no thanks can lead to abuse , questions as to why you are saying no and mail after mail asking you to reconsider.

Many people therefore choose to simply delete...it is not rude ,simply ignoring unsolicited mail as we do all the time .

i agree with other s about your profile, the way it is written means i would not reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I too once said 'no thankyou' as the guy wasnt within my age range and had a load of abuse off him for several days and is now one of the reasons why i hide my profile!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile isn't headline grabbing in any way, shape or form. Perhaps it might be worth reading some others profie's to see how it's done. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi im just puzzled as to why when i message people polietly and with a face pic people wont even reply to say no thanks? "

Lots to chose from on here so you have to offer more than the rest.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Maybe they have a cricked neck and are seeing a specialist.

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