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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So as always I have a read of the profile and then think of what to message and always try to leave a compliment... yet 3/4 times since I’ve been on here I’ve been blocked straight away!

To me that doesn’t make any sense at all... I know you ladies probably get inundated with messages but is it that difficult to send a quick “No thanks” or just delete the message?

I’m not one to send a million messages but if someone did then you can feel free to block them!

I’m so confused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the club

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I usually just delete. No thanks is too hard, because a significant minority will abuse you or argue about it.

I block immediately where the message is what I consider inappropriate or over the line (or disgusting, abusive, etc). Some people use it as a filtering tool where they're just not interested.

If you're being blocked that much, review the messages you're sending.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just means that you won't message again ... take it as a no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hear hear.

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By *uckfunCouple
over a year ago

North Coast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So as always I have a read of the profile and then think of what to message and always try to leave a compliment... yet 3/4 times since I’ve been on here I’ve been blocked straight away!

To me that doesn’t make any sense at all... I know you ladies probably get inundated with messages but is it that difficult to send a quick “No thanks” or just delete the message?

I’m not one to send a million messages but if someone did then you can feel free to block them!

I’m so confused"

I used to always say a no thanks. However a percentage then think that’s an opening in to a conversation and when you then delete they become abusive.

Sadly I think the genuine men get labelled the same as the abusive ones and people find it easier to block if they’re not interested in the senders profile or photos

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I usually just delete. No thanks is too hard, because a significant minority will abuse you or argue about it.

I block immediately where the message is what I consider inappropriate or over the line (or disgusting, abusive, etc). Some people use it as a filtering tool where they're just not interested.

If you're being blocked that much, review the messages you're sending. "

It’s not that much, just a small amount of times but like I said it’s just a polite message and a compliment nothing rude

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Guess it’s just some people who are set in their ways... oh well

A man can only try

Thanks

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

From my perspective, I have my systems to protect myself from the awful things that show up for a woman here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually just delete. No thanks is too hard, because a significant minority will abuse you or argue about it.

I block immediately where the message is what I consider inappropriate or over the line (or disgusting, abusive, etc). Some people use it as a filtering tool where they're just not interested.

If you're being blocked that much, review the messages you're sending.

It’s not that much, just a small amount of times but like I said it’s just a polite message and a compliment nothing rude "

Just take it that they have no interest in talking to you at all ... saves a lot of issues tbh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So as always I have a read of the profile and then think of what to message and always try to leave a compliment... yet 3/4 times since I’ve been on here I’ve been blocked straight away!

To me that doesn’t make any sense at all... I know you ladies probably get inundated with messages but is it that difficult to send a quick “No thanks” or just delete the message?

I’m not one to send a million messages but if someone did then you can feel free to block them!

I’m so confused

I used to always say a no thanks. However a percentage then think that’s an opening in to a conversation and when you then delete they become abusive.

Sadly I think the genuine men get labelled the same as the abusive ones and people find it easier to block if they’re not interested in the senders profile or photos "

That’s just the way of this site I guess.. each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't take it as an insult. It could be for many reasons as it is a good filter and a preventative measure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never worry geezer... It is their loss. Just crack on with your day

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the responses... guess some people just find it easier

Oh well, onwards and upwards

Have a good day everyone

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Never worry geezer... It is their loss. Just crack on with your day "

Not their loss at all. They arent interested in you. Easier to just delete and/or block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never worry geezer... It is their loss. Just crack on with your day

Not their loss at all. They arent interested in you. Easier to just delete and/or block. "

Loool so salty amazing!

Their loss OP have a good day!

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford


"Never worry geezer... It is their loss. Just crack on with your day

Not their loss at all. They arent interested in you. Easier to just delete and/or block.

Loool so salty amazing!

Their loss OP have a good day!"

bang on mate, how would they know, rude as rude can get, sadly no surprise for on here though, wouldn’t be accepted as ‘normal’ in other walk of life,

Sits and waits for “its in the rules” brigade

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

Console yourself with the thought "you were out of their league."

Move on to those that are interested ..waste no more time or effort on those that aren't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never worry geezer... It is their loss. Just crack on with your day

Not their loss at all. They arent interested in you. Easier to just delete and/or block.

Loool so salty amazing!

Their loss OP have a good day!

bang on mate, how would they know, rude as rude can get, sadly no surprise for on here though, wouldn’t be accepted as ‘normal’ in other walk of life,

Sits and waits for “its in the rules” brigade "

Haha I know mate, I'm in the 'Single male scumbag club' . God help me.

I'll survive I'm sure!

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Some people use it to let you know they are not interested and to save your time discussing why. It isn't personal you're on the internet, they've never met you.

I know it seems harsh but just take it as a no thanks and don't think any further about it. It's just the way some people use the block button.

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax


"So as always I have a read of the profile and then think of what to message and always try to leave a compliment... yet 3/4 times since I’ve been on here I’ve been blocked straight away!

To me that doesn’t make any sense at all... I know you ladies probably get inundated with messages but is it that difficult to send a quick “No thanks” or just delete the message?

I’m not one to send a million messages but if someone did then you can feel free to block them!

I’m so confused

I used to always say a no thanks. However a percentage then think that’s an opening in to a conversation and when you then delete they become abusive.

Sadly I think the genuine men get labelled the same as the abusive ones and people find it easier to block if they’re not interested in the senders profile or photos "

Agreed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tried the “No thanks” routine. Got fed up with the “Oh, come on. You will like me, I am not like the other guys in here” responses, followed by the usually begging, then abuse like “Thought she would be glad of the extra cock, seeing as she is a fatty” responses. So, now we state in profile, “if no reply, take it as a polite ‘no thanks’”.

If the opening message is a one liner, meet now, or crude one, delete. Without even looking at the profile first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do this

Harsh maybe but so are some of the responses i have received by saying no thankyou

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Never worry geezer... It is their loss. Just crack on with your day

Not their loss at all. They arent interested in you. Easier to just delete and/or block.

Loool so salty amazing!

Their loss OP have a good day!

bang on mate, how would they know, rude as rude can get, sadly no surprise for on here though, wouldn’t be accepted as ‘normal’ in other walk of life,

Sits and waits for “its in the rules” brigade "

Imo, no respect for rules + no respect for profile preferences = no respect when meeting.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Never worry geezer... It is their loss. Just crack on with your day

Not their loss at all. They arent interested in you. Easier to just delete and/or block.

Loool so salty amazing!

Their loss OP have a good day!

bang on mate, how would they know, rude as rude can get, sadly no surprise for on here though, wouldn’t be accepted as ‘normal’ in other walk of life,

Sits and waits for “its in the rules” brigade

Imo, no respect for rules + no respect for profile preferences = no respect when meeting. "

Quite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never worry geezer... It is their loss. Just crack on with your day

Not their loss at all. They arent interested in you. Easier to just delete and/or block.

Loool so salty amazing!

Their loss OP have a good day!

bang on mate, how would they know, rude as rude can get, sadly no surprise for on here though, wouldn’t be accepted as ‘normal’ in other walk of life,

Sits and waits for “its in the rules” brigade "

Women rarely get propositioned 100s of times a day, in normal life, though eh? And why should I thank someone for a message when they clearly haven't read my profile? Or at all?! Most men would take no for an answer in real life too but on here... Rarely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never worry geezer... It is their loss. Just crack on with your day

Not their loss at all. They arent interested in you. Easier to just delete and/or block.

Loool so salty amazing!

Their loss OP have a good day!

bang on mate, how would they know, rude as rude can get, sadly no surprise for on here though, wouldn’t be accepted as ‘normal’ in other walk of life,

Sits and waits for “its in the rules” brigade

Women rarely get propositioned 100s of times a day, in normal life, though eh? And why should I thank someone for a message when they clearly haven't read my profile? Or at all?! Most men would take no for an answer in real life too but on here... Rarely"

Absolutely. However, we have noticed an increase in the number of ‘couples’ sending abusive messages. Hubby says that it is most probably the guys doing it, though. Hence why we both read/reply to messages.

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By *anni and RicCouple
over a year ago

York

We've been here long enough now that the block button is essential otherwise they just crop up again and I remember them all then things get sour....I used to politely say no but it's relentless on here as a couple who will meet single guys x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thing is when a person does reply to say no thanks a fair few of folk think it's ok to try and change your mind or ask why or as mentioned already throw abuse so just take it as a no thanks and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never worry geezer... It is their loss. Just crack on with your day

Not their loss at all. They arent interested in you. Easier to just delete and/or block.

Loool so salty amazing!

Their loss OP have a good day!

bang on mate, how would they know, rude as rude can get, sadly no surprise for on here though, wouldn’t be accepted as ‘normal’ in other walk of life,

Sits and waits for “its in the rules” brigade

Women rarely get propositioned 100s of times a day, in normal life, though eh? And why should I thank someone for a message when they clearly haven't read my profile? Or at all?! Most men would take no for an answer in real life too but on here... Rarely

Absolutely. However, we have noticed an increase in the number of ‘couples’ sending abusive messages. Hubby says that it is most probably the guys doing it, though. Hence why we both read/reply to messages."

Oh it's definitely not limited to the single chaps, for sure... Plenty of couples and females not practicing what their profiles preach... And getting blocked for it

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


"So as always I have a read of the profile and then think of what to message and always try to leave a compliment... yet 3/4 times since I’ve been on here I’ve been blocked straight away!

To me that doesn’t make any sense at all... I know you ladies probably get inundated with messages but is it that difficult to send a quick “No thanks” or just delete the message?

I’m not one to send a million messages but if someone did then you can feel free to block them!

I’m so confused"

Are you sure this has not been answered before?

People block if they are not interested. How many methods of letting you know this do you want them to use?

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


"Never worry geezer... It is their loss. Just crack on with your day

Not their loss at all. They arent interested in you. Easier to just delete and/or block.

Loool so salty amazing!

Their loss OP have a good day!

bang on mate, how would they know, rude as rude can get, sadly no surprise for on here though, wouldn’t be accepted as ‘normal’ in other walk of life,

Sits and waits for “its in the rules” brigade "

Is it not?

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford

Had abuse from single women and couples on here but I point blank let them win by tarring all the single women and couples on here with the same brush, I’m bigger and better than that.

It’s not written in my contract at work that I have to walk in and say hello to my colleagues every morning, but you know what, being the nice guy that I am, I do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we send a message, and either get no response, or, a “No thanks”, we block, just to stop us, much further down the line, sending again.

Works both ways.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Had abuse from single women and couples on here but I point blank let them win by tarring all the single women and couples on here with the same brush, I’m bigger and better than that.

It’s not written in my contract at work that I have to walk in and say hello to my colleagues every morning, but you know what, being the nice guy that I am, I do it "

If I tarred all men with the same brush I'd block them all or leave.

Nice isn't appropriate in every environment.

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By *ickDastardlyMan
over a year ago

North East

it happens all the time to quiet a lot of us.

I've had people block me upon reading my first message and then we've met at by chance at parties where they've liked me.

It is what it is.

Never take anything on here personally would be my advice.

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford


"Had abuse from single women and couples on here but I point blank let them win by tarring all the single women and couples on here with the same brush, I’m bigger and better than that.

It’s not written in my contract at work that I have to walk in and say hello to my colleagues every morning, but you know what, being the nice guy that I am, I do it

If I tarred all men with the same brush I'd block them all or leave.

Nice isn't appropriate in every environment. "

It Is in mine, can’t think of when it isn’t, maybe not when dealing with traffic wardens

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Had abuse from single women and couples on here but I point blank let them win by tarring all the single women and couples on here with the same brush, I’m bigger and better than that.

It’s not written in my contract at work that I have to walk in and say hello to my colleagues every morning, but you know what, being the nice guy that I am, I do it

If I tarred all men with the same brush I'd block them all or leave.

Nice isn't appropriate in every environment.

It Is in mine, can’t think of when it isn’t, maybe not when dealing with traffic wardens "

If I were nice to everyone here I'd be overrun with obnoxious and stupid, and be unable to find those who were worthy of my time.

It's a win/win. I spend my time on the people who make me happy, and the people who are respectful etc are more likely to be rewarded for it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Many mixed opinions on here but like I said each to their own and we just move past it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's rude and arrogant to message someone on Fab and EXPECT a reply.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's rude and arrogant to message someone on Fab and EXPECT a reply.

"

How is it rude at all? I know people get overwhelmed with messages, the idiots who constantly message and the ones who become abusive but in my opinion I'd say a polite no thanks and then if they start down the route of idiot then block

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"Had abuse from single women and couples on here but I point blank let them win by tarring all the single women and couples on here with the same brush, I’m bigger and better than that.

It’s not written in my contract at work that I have to walk in and say hello to my colleagues every morning, but you know what, being the nice guy that I am, I do it

If I tarred all men with the same brush I'd block them all or leave.

Nice isn't appropriate in every environment.

It Is in mine, can’t think of when it isn’t, maybe not when dealing with traffic wardens

If I were nice to everyone here I'd be overrun with obnoxious and stupid, and be unable to find those who were worthy of my time.

It's a win/win. I spend my time on the people who make me happy, and the people who are respectful etc are more likely to be rewarded for it. "

Worthy... that seems so superior.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"It's rude and arrogant to message someone on Fab and EXPECT a reply.

How is it rude at all? I know people get overwhelmed with messages, the idiots who constantly message and the ones who become abusive but in my opinion I'd say a polite no thanks and then if they start down the route of idiot then block"

Because you don't understand the volume of messages, the large numbers who'll abuse, or the horrifying nature the abuse can take. Or that many will take any civility at all as an invitation to keep trying.

If a large minority see an inch given and try to take a mile, you quickly learn to give not even a millimetre.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


"It's rude and arrogant to message someone on Fab and EXPECT a reply.

How is it rude at all? I know people get overwhelmed with messages, the idiots who constantly message and the ones who become abusive but in my opinion I'd say a polite no thanks and then if they start down the route of idiot then block"

Site FAQ.

They did not ask you to message.

They have decided you are not for them. They expect you to be a decent person and not to pursue the matter, but they do not want to message you by mistake in the future.

How many "no thanks" do you want in your inbox?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Had abuse from single women and couples on here but I point blank let them win by tarring all the single women and couples on here with the same brush, I’m bigger and better than that.

It’s not written in my contract at work that I have to walk in and say hello to my colleagues every morning, but you know what, being the nice guy that I am, I do it

If I tarred all men with the same brush I'd block them all or leave.

Nice isn't appropriate in every environment.

It Is in mine, can’t think of when it isn’t, maybe not when dealing with traffic wardens

If I were nice to everyone here I'd be overrun with obnoxious and stupid, and be unable to find those who were worthy of my time.

It's a win/win. I spend my time on the people who make me happy, and the people who are respectful etc are more likely to be rewarded for it.

Worthy... that seems so superior. "

I'm sorry, but hey bb drain my balls yo... Is a waste of my time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had abuse from single women and couples on here but I point blank let them win by tarring all the single women and couples on here with the same brush, I’m bigger and better than that.

It’s not written in my contract at work that I have to walk in and say hello to my colleagues every morning, but you know what, being the nice guy that I am, I do it

If I tarred all men with the same brush I'd block them all or leave.

Nice isn't appropriate in every environment.

It Is in mine, can’t think of when it isn’t, maybe not when dealing with traffic wardens

If I were nice to everyone here I'd be overrun with obnoxious and stupid, and be unable to find those who were worthy of my time.

It's a win/win. I spend my time on the people who make me happy, and the people who are respectful etc are more likely to be rewarded for it.

Worthy... that seems so superior.

I'm sorry, but hey bb drain my balls yo... Is a waste of my time. "

How ironic?

Just deleted that exact same message, from a single guy!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I wrote it bespoke, but I get it all the time

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By *ionaandshrekCouple
over a year ago

ware

This morning I was messaged by a single guy, nothing strange I know , but when i went to view his profile he had blocked me! Tell me what that's all about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Get that occasionally.

When that happens to us, we think he/they have changed their minds, and are worried we+may say ‘Yes’.

Also find, we see profiles on forums, we know we have never contacted ever, but find ourselves ‘blocked’.....

Ah well, ignore, get over it, move on....

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By *ionaandshrekCouple
over a year ago

ware

There sure are some strange people about! What a waste of time and effort! Surely that sort of stuff give Mr average single guy a bad name? After all this is only a hobby for us all? Bit like collecting stamps

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"There sure are some strange people about! What a waste of time and effort! Surely that sort of stuff give Mr average single guy a bad name? After all this is only a hobby for us all? Bit like collecting stamps "

Definitely! This is what I mean by worthy. I know I'm not a 10, maybe a 4 or 5, and I'm not up myself. But honestly trying to engage on mutually agreeable terms without being a creep... shouldn't be unusual. But it can be.

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By *eriousGuyABCMan
over a year ago

( WEST OF ) Chippenham ish

I'm cool with people deleting and blocking, at least it saves me from the uncertainty of possibly mailing them again by mistake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There sure are some strange people about! What a waste of time and effort! Surely that sort of stuff give Mr average single guy a bad name? After all this is only a hobby for us all? Bit like collecting stamps

Definitely! This is what I mean by worthy. I know I'm not a 10, maybe a 4 or 5, and I'm not up myself. But honestly trying to engage on mutually agreeable terms without being a creep... shouldn't be unusual. But it can be. "

Having perused your pics, my hubby concludes that you are WAY MORE than. ‘10’, in the hotness stakes....sorry...I digress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm cool with people deleting and blocking, at least it saves me from the uncertainty of possibly mailing them again by mistake. "

This

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"There sure are some strange people about! What a waste of time and effort! Surely that sort of stuff give Mr average single guy a bad name? After all this is only a hobby for us all? Bit like collecting stamps

Definitely! This is what I mean by worthy. I know I'm not a 10, maybe a 4 or 5, and I'm not up myself. But honestly trying to engage on mutually agreeable terms without being a creep... shouldn't be unusual. But it can be.

Having perused your pics, my hubby concludes that you are WAY MORE than. ‘10’, in the hotness stakes....sorry...I digress"

Thank you.

But it's like, I'm not arrogant, you know? I just want to be treated like a person, not a convenient maybe wet hole. And ffs my phone predicts that sentence at this point...

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"Had abuse from single women and couples on here but I point blank let them win by tarring all the single women and couples on here with the same brush, I’m bigger and better than that.

It’s not written in my contract at work that I have to walk in and say hello to my colleagues every morning, but you know what, being the nice guy that I am, I do it

If I tarred all men with the same brush I'd block them all or leave.

Nice isn't appropriate in every environment.

It Is in mine, can’t think of when it isn’t, maybe not when dealing with traffic wardens

If I were nice to everyone here I'd be overrun with obnoxious and stupid, and be unable to find those who were worthy of my time.

It's a win/win. I spend my time on the people who make me happy, and the people who are respectful etc are more likely to be rewarded for it.

Worthy... that seems so superior.

I'm sorry, but hey bb drain my balls yo... Is a waste of my time.

How ironic?

Just deleted that exact same message, from a single guy!

"

Hmmm if you read your post its the folk you wish to communicate with you're deeming worthy of your time..

I get crap (and i've had abusive) messages ..its not gender specific.

Against site rules to mention contents of pm's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Virtually every abusive message we have received has been after a no thank you reply so we generally don't bother now

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Never worry geezer... It is their loss. Just crack on with your day

Not their loss at all. They arent interested in you. Easier to just delete and/or block.

Loool so salty amazing!

Their loss OP have a good day!

bang on mate, how would they know, rude as rude can get, sadly no surprise for on here though, wouldn’t be accepted as ‘normal’ in other walk of life,

Sits and waits for “its in the rules” brigade "

It's not a "rule" as such.

But it's definitely in the site FAQs.

Spend a bit of time reading them, spend a bit of time thinking about what its like like receive dozens of messages every day from people who don't read your profile, who send pictures if their cock, who's opening gambit is "hi how's you" or "fancy a fuck" and maybe just maybe you wouldn't have such an attitude.

Two pence spent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had abuse from single women and couples on here but I point blank let them win by tarring all the single women and couples on here with the same brush, I’m bigger and better than that.

It’s not written in my contract at work that I have to walk in and say hello to my colleagues every morning, but you know what, being the nice guy that I am, I do it

If I tarred all men with the same brush I'd block them all or leave.

Nice isn't appropriate in every environment.

It Is in mine, can’t think of when it isn’t, maybe not when dealing with traffic wardens

If I were nice to everyone here I'd be overrun with obnoxious and stupid, and be unable to find those who were worthy of my time.

It's a win/win. I spend my time on the people who make me happy, and the people who are respectful etc are more likely to be rewarded for it.

Worthy... that seems so superior.

I'm sorry, but hey bb drain my balls yo... Is a waste of my time.

How ironic?

Just deleted that exact same message, from a single guy!

Hmmm if you read your post its the folk you wish to communicate with you're deeming worthy of your time..

I get crap (and i've had abusive) messages ..its not gender specific.

Against site rules to mention contents of pm's. "

Apologies if it offended anyone...however, I did not say who from.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I never said it was gender specific, although I used a gender specific example. Come be a surprise for my hubby right now, your profile sucks but other women are so hard to find, are examples of kinds of messages from couples and ladies similarly that I don't want.

I also never said it was only people I wanted to talk to. There are certain messages that are not worth the time it'd take to hit reply and let my phone predict "no thank you". Others, I don't want to risk abuse or pleading.

I'm sorry if I was unclear.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

From the site FAQs;

There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The number of times we have received a message sayin,"I have read your profile",then follows some bullshit that shows they haven't read it at all.

Yes we block.

We didn't join fab to be bullshitted to

I'm sure many others feel the same about their own fab experience.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

I've just blocked around 4 profiles.

1, insisting of my face pic, in responce to our doggin meet. I told him, no it will be dark, and you can see whats on offer from profile pics. So blocked at 2nd message.

2 , couple writing to us, saying she sends him out as a single bloke. I told him, to contact us through his single account. If your a couple we exspect to play as a couple. They said he didnt have a single account so blocked. 3, our doggin meet ssys google it if you dont know where it is. Some one messaged to ask = blocked.

4, single chap messaged saying he wants to chat and get to know us. = blocked as it clearly says we're not into message pingpong. Plus on his profile says he's Dom- we say we're not interested in Dom's.

If they can't be bothered to spend some time to read profile and see if we are compatible, then why should we pingpong. Block. Simples.

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"Had abuse from single women and couples on here but I point blank let them win by tarring all the single women and couples on here with the same brush, I’m bigger and better than that.

It’s not written in my contract at work that I have to walk in and say hello to my colleagues every morning, but you know what, being the nice guy that I am, I do it

If I tarred all men with the same brush I'd block them all or leave.

Nice isn't appropriate in every environment.

It Is in mine, can’t think of when it isn’t, maybe not when dealing with traffic wardens

If I were nice to everyone here I'd be overrun with obnoxious and stupid, and be unable to find those who were worthy of my time.

It's a win/win. I spend my time on the people who make me happy, and the people who are respectful etc are more likely to be rewarded for it.

Worthy... that seems so superior.

I'm sorry, but hey bb drain my balls yo... Is a waste of my time.

How ironic?

Just deleted that exact same message, from a single guy!

Hmmm if you read your post its the folk you wish to communicate with you're deeming worthy of your time..

I get crap (and i've had abusive) messages ..its not gender specific.

Against site rules to mention contents of pm's.

Apologies if it offended anyone...however, I did not say who from."

I'm not offended others may report you for mentioning it .. name or not dems da rules, break 'em and you may be on a naughty step for a period of time. Its normally pretty warm from the previous occupant

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"The number of times we have received a message sayin,"I have read your profile",then follows some bullshit that shows they haven't read it at all.

Yes we block.

We didn't join fab to be bullshitted to

I'm sure many others feel the same about their own fab experience.

"

Oh god yes.

I've read your profile, come meet me in (outside Manchester) right now, here's my genitals, oh baby I want you. (not a real message)

You've either read and don't respect my wishes, or you're a liar. I don't want either!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had abuse from single women and couples on here but I point blank let them win by tarring all the single women and couples on here with the same brush, I’m bigger and better than that.

It’s not written in my contract at work that I have to walk in and say hello to my colleagues every morning, but you know what, being the nice guy that I am, I do it

If I tarred all men with the same brush I'd block them all or leave.

Nice isn't appropriate in every environment.

It Is in mine, can’t think of when it isn’t, maybe not when dealing with traffic wardens

If I were nice to everyone here I'd be overrun with obnoxious and stupid, and be unable to find those who were worthy of my time.

It's a win/win. I spend my time on the people who make me happy, and the people who are respectful etc are more likely to be rewarded for it.

Worthy... that seems so superior.

I'm sorry, but hey bb drain my balls yo... Is a waste of my time.

How ironic?

Just deleted that exact same message, from a single guy!

Hmmm if you read your post its the folk you wish to communicate with you're deeming worthy of your time..

I get crap (and i've had abusive) messages ..its not gender specific.

Against site rules to mention contents of pm's.

Apologies if it offended anyone...however, I did not say who from.

I'm not offended others may report you for mentioning it .. name or not dems da rules, break 'em and you may be on a naughty step for a period of time. Its normally pretty warm from the previous occupant "

Who knows? I may fancy sitting on their lap?

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

OP. I know of some women who would immediately block you based on your profile name.

I am always happy to be blocked as it instantly removes any uncertainty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The number of times we have received a message sayin,"I have read your profile",then follows some bullshit that shows they haven't read it at all.

Yes we block.

We didn't join fab to be bullshitted to

I'm sure many others feel the same about their own fab experience.

Oh god yes.

I've read your profile, come meet me in (outside Manchester) right now, here's my genitals, oh baby I want you. (not a real message)

You've either read and don't respect my wishes, or you're a liar. I don't want either! "

Exactly

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"The number of times we have received a message sayin,"I have read your profile",then follows some bullshit that shows they haven't read it at all.

Yes we block.

We didn't join fab to be bullshitted to

I'm sure many others feel the same about their own fab experience.

"

We do exactly the same,we know straight away if they've read out profile as men wouldn't message as it says we aren't into males but we still get a shitload of messages asking to fuck the wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blocking is a good way of removing folk you have no intention of interacting with in future. They can't message you, don't appear in searches and don't appear in your local updates. If someone interacts with you then "am I interested? Nope. Block" It doesn't mean you have done anything wrong or that they are being rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blocking is a good way of removing folk you have no intention of interacting with in future. They can't message you, don't appear in searches and don't appear in your local updates. If someone interacts with you then "am I interested? Nope. Block" It doesn't mean you have done anything wrong or that they are being rude.

"

Perfect.

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I love the "it's their loss" no it's not we don't want to meet you that is why ppl get blocked,if we fancied you you wouldn't be blocked or thats a shame,mmmmm for you maybe lol

We get blocked all the time coz we aren't what ppl are looking for but it's good coz we won't cross paths again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it like this

Hi meet?

No thanks

Y not

Not interested

Y I'm good

I'm not interested

Meet me I'll show u a good time

Coz guys cant take no for an answer!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Welcome to the club "

what club is that

depends on what people have put

if it is a simple hi I do block

if there photos are all cocks I do

if I cannot see a face I do

if it is rude I do

I am sure you guys do exactly the same

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"It's rude and arrogant to message someone on Fab and EXPECT a reply.

How is it rude at all? I know people get overwhelmed with messages, the idiots who constantly message and the ones who become abusive but in my opinion I'd say a polite no thanks and then if they start down the route of idiot then block"

By replying it breaks any future filters you may decide to set and why give them the chance to go down that route in the first place?

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford


"Never worry geezer... It is their loss. Just crack on with your day

Not their loss at all. They arent interested in you. Easier to just delete and/or block.

Loool so salty amazing!

Their loss OP have a good day!

bang on mate, how would they know, rude as rude can get, sadly no surprise for on here though, wouldn’t be accepted as ‘normal’ in other walk of life,

Sits and waits for “its in the rules” brigade

It's not a "rule" as such.

But it's definitely in the site FAQs.

Spend a bit of time reading them, spend a bit of time thinking about what its like like receive dozens of messages every day from people who don't read your profile, who send pictures if their cock, who's opening gambit is "hi how's you" or "fancy a fuck" and maybe just maybe you wouldn't have such an attitude.

Two pence spent. "

I’m good thanks, appreciate the advice, but if all those who think it’s not rude to ignore a well written considered message can all block me, that would be fantastic

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Never worry geezer... It is their loss. Just crack on with your day

Not their loss at all. They arent interested in you. Easier to just delete and/or block.

Loool so salty amazing!

Their loss OP have a good day!

bang on mate, how would they know, rude as rude can get, sadly no surprise for on here though, wouldn’t be accepted as ‘normal’ in other walk of life,

Sits and waits for “its in the rules” brigade

It's not a "rule" as such.

But it's definitely in the site FAQs.

Spend a bit of time reading them, spend a bit of time thinking about what its like like receive dozens of messages every day from people who don't read your profile, who send pictures if their cock, who's opening gambit is "hi how's you" or "fancy a fuck" and maybe just maybe you wouldn't have such an attitude.

Two pence spent.

I’m good thanks, appreciate the advice, but if all those who think it’s not rude to ignore a well written considered message can all block me, that would be fantastic "

Not a problem done

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

The telling people how to use the site and superimposing normal rules onto a highly unusual situation never works well.

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"The telling people how to use the site and superimposing normal rules onto a highly unusual situation never works well. "
no it does not but love how ppl think they're the authority on this site and do this and when you look at their profile they aren't even verified lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's their loss" can be classed as a figure of speech......doesn't necessarily mean he/she was going to physically meet and have an outrageous sex session.

Put your dummy back in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agreed..... I do understand there is lots of c**ts these days but there is lots of genuine guys too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Totally agreed..... I do understand there is lots of c**ts these days but there is lots of genuine guys too "

Yep, and those lovely genuine guys will understand that there is a good chance that women will receive abuse if they simply just delete a message/reject the man sending it, and it’s easier to block to try and prevent this from happening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get used to it OP. The block button is a life saver.

It’s easier and safer to block someone, than to potentially deal with the abuse you’ll receive for declining them, or for deleting their message.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Totally agreed..... I do understand there is lots of c**ts these days but there is lots of genuine guys too

Yep, and those lovely genuine guys will understand that there is a good chance that women will receive abuse if they simply just delete a message/reject the man sending it, and it’s easier to block to try and prevent this from happening "

The lovely genuine guys will empathise with the shit women have to shovel rather than expect to be catered to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So as always I have a read of the profile and then think of what to message and always try to leave a compliment... yet 3/4 times since I’ve been on here I’ve been blocked straight away!

To me that doesn’t make any sense at all... I know you ladies probably get inundated with messages but is it that difficult to send a quick “No thanks” or just delete the message?

I’m not one to send a million messages but if someone did then you can feel free to block them!

I’m so confused"

Hi, wanna Fuck!

No thanks

But why?

I just said no.

Fear of rejection.

It's been like it for years. Same in real life if you get told no it means no again fear of being rejected is not understood. Most people here think that a Hi is a meet. Some people need to study rejection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's TRUE girls .... I do understand that .... but how would you find good genuine guy than ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's TRUE girls .... I do understand that .... but how would you find good genuine guy than .... "

Easily

And I’m a woman

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"It's TRUE girls .... I do understand that .... but how would you find good genuine guy than .... "

Someone who respects my wishes and interests me.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Never worry geezer... It is their loss. Just crack on with your day

Not their loss at all. They arent interested in you. Easier to just delete and/or block.

Loool so salty amazing!

Their loss OP have a good day!

bang on mate, how would they know, rude as rude can get, sadly no surprise for on here though, wouldn’t be accepted as ‘normal’ in other walk of life,

Sits and waits for “its in the rules” brigade

It's not a "rule" as such.

But it's definitely in the site FAQs.

Spend a bit of time reading them, spend a bit of time thinking about what its like like receive dozens of messages every day from people who don't read your profile, who send pictures if their cock, who's opening gambit is "hi how's you" or "fancy a fuck" and maybe just maybe you wouldn't have such an attitude.

Two pence spent.

I’m good thanks, appreciate the advice, but if all those who think it’s not rude to ignore a well written considered message can all block me, that would be fantastic "

Careful what you ask for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So as always I have a read of the profile and then think of what to message and always try to leave a compliment... yet 3/4 times since I’ve been on here I’ve been blocked straight away!

To me that doesn’t make any sense at all... I know you ladies probably get inundated with messages but is it that difficult to send a quick “No thanks” or just delete the message?

I’m not one to send a million messages but if someone did then you can feel free to block them!

I’m so confused"
kinda depends what you put in messages, what pics you send but your age username and status maybe play a part, you'll get there in the end

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Never worry geezer... It is their loss. Just crack on with your day

Not their loss at all. They arent interested in you. Easier to just delete and/or block.

Loool so salty amazing!

Their loss OP have a good day!

bang on mate, how would they know, rude as rude can get, sadly no surprise for on here though, wouldn’t be accepted as ‘normal’ in other walk of life,

Sits and waits for “its in the rules” brigade

It's not a "rule" as such.

But it's definitely in the site FAQs.

Spend a bit of time reading them, spend a bit of time thinking about what its like like receive dozens of messages every day from people who don't read your profile, who send pictures if their cock, who's opening gambit is "hi how's you" or "fancy a fuck" and maybe just maybe you wouldn't have such an attitude.

Two pence spent.

I’m good thanks, appreciate the advice, but if all those who think it’s not rude to ignore a well written considered message can all block me, that would be fantastic

Careful what you ask for. "

Yeah, I'm in the habit of blocking anyone who insists I need to reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So as always I have a read of the profile and then think of what to message and always try to leave a compliment... yet 3/4 times since I’ve been on here I’ve been blocked straight away!

To me that doesn’t make any sense at all... I know you ladies probably get inundated with messages but is it that difficult to send a quick “No thanks” or just delete the message?

I’m not one to send a million messages but if someone did then you can feel free to block them!

I’m so confused"

You state also Op you not fear rejection but ask us to always message back with no thanks. Take it like we all do. On the chin. Block and move on.

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford


"Never worry geezer... It is their loss. Just crack on with your day

Not their loss at all. They arent interested in you. Easier to just delete and/or block.

Loool so salty amazing!

Their loss OP have a good day!

bang on mate, how would they know, rude as rude can get, sadly no surprise for on here though, wouldn’t be accepted as ‘normal’ in other walk of life,

Sits and waits for “its in the rules” brigade

It's not a "rule" as such.

But it's definitely in the site FAQs.

Spend a bit of time reading them, spend a bit of time thinking about what its like like receive dozens of messages every day from people who don't read your profile, who send pictures if their cock, who's opening gambit is "hi how's you" or "fancy a fuck" and maybe just maybe you wouldn't have such an attitude.

Two pence spent.

I’m good thanks, appreciate the advice, but if all those who think it’s not rude to ignore a well written considered message can all block me, that would be fantastic

Careful what you ask for. "

Thanks for your concern, really very kind of you, but as I say, anyone who disagrees with me please feel free to block me if you so wish, no problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on here as a single male for 6 months. Every message by fems deleted. 0 interest. Still dont get any from them as a couple. Just dont bother with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well .... most interested look is tattoos beard and blue eyes I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never worry geezer... It is their loss. Just crack on with your day

Not their loss at all. They arent interested in you. Easier to just delete and/or block.

Loool so salty amazing!

Their loss OP have a good day!

bang on mate, how would they know, rude as rude can get, sadly no surprise for on here though, wouldn’t be accepted as ‘normal’ in other walk of life,

Sits and waits for “its in the rules” brigade

Imo, no respect for rules + no respect for profile preferences = no respect when meeting. "

This.

Think this is why this happens. Profiles state what's wanted and what's not. The 60th message in a row ignoring both just to bombard you with pics and rude chat, yeah, instant block.

I'm new, but from my limited experience, maybe 1 out of 30 actually read the profile. So......blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every woman knows a ‘nice guy’ the kind who think they deserve a blow job for being polite and don’t react well to not getting one.

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford


"Never worry geezer... It is their loss. Just crack on with your day

Not their loss at all. They arent interested in you. Easier to just delete and/or block.

Loool so salty amazing!

Their loss OP have a good day!

bang on mate, how would they know, rude as rude can get, sadly no surprise for on here though, wouldn’t be accepted as ‘normal’ in other walk of life,

Sits and waits for “its in the rules” brigade

Imo, no respect for rules + no respect for profile preferences = no respect when meeting.

This.

Think this is why this happens. Profiles state what's wanted and what's not. The 60th message in a row ignoring both just to bombard you with pics and rude chat, yeah, instant block.

I'm new, but from my limited experience, maybe 1 out of 30 actually read the profile. So......blocked."

The OP clearly stated that he read the profile, sends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every woman knows a ‘nice guy’ the kind who think they deserve a blow job for being polite and don’t react well to not getting one."

Yep

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford


"Never worry geezer... It is their loss. Just crack on with your day

Not their loss at all. They arent interested in you. Easier to just delete and/or block.

Loool so salty amazing!

Their loss OP have a good day!

bang on mate, how would they know, rude as rude can get, sadly no surprise for on here though, wouldn’t be accepted as ‘normal’ in other walk of life,

Sits and waits for “its in the rules” brigade

Imo, no respect for rules + no respect for profile preferences = no respect when meeting.

This.

Think this is why this happens. Profiles state what's wanted and what's not. The 60th message in a row ignoring both just to bombard you with pics and rude chat, yeah, instant block.

I'm new, but from my limited experience, maybe 1 out of 30 actually read the profile. So......blocked."

The OP clearly stated that he reads the profile, sends considered messages and will compliment, so clearly not like the fucktards you’re referring too.

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford


"Every woman knows a ‘nice guy’ the kind who think they deserve a blow job for being polite and don’t react well to not getting one."

You class them as nice guys? I wouldn’t.

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

I explain on my profile if I don’t answer its a no!! Each to there own !x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every woman knows a ‘nice guy’ the kind who think they deserve a blow job for being polite and don’t react well to not getting one.

You class them as nice guys? I wouldn’t."

But they say they are nice guys...

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford


"Every woman knows a ‘nice guy’ the kind who think they deserve a blow job for being polite and don’t react well to not getting one.

You class them as nice guys? I wouldn’t.

But they say they are nice guys..."

Well I hope you know better ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every woman knows a ‘nice guy’ the kind who think they deserve a blow job for being polite and don’t react well to not getting one.

You class them as nice guys? I wouldn’t.

But they say they are nice guys...

Well I hope you know better ?"

Very difficult to tell via messages on a website though, far safer to not take the risk, especially if not attracted to someone in he first place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noone here owes anyone anything, so why the fuss over blocking, 'no thanks', etc. Take it on the chin and move on.

Everyone is busy and doing what they think is appropriate. You can't please/be pleased by everyone.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Go to clubs, it’s easier face to face reality.

There is a cloak of non reality in the forums.

Go to clubs, look in their eyes.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"So as always I have a read of the profile and then think of what to message and always try to leave a compliment... yet 3/4 times since I’ve been on here I’ve been blocked straight away!

To me that doesn’t make any sense at all... I know you ladies probably get inundated with messages but is it that difficult to send a quick “No thanks” or just delete the message?

I’m not one to send a million messages but if someone did then you can feel free to block them!

I’m so confused"

I afraid it's value not equality she see no value in talking to you as you don't hit her in the erogenous zones or any long term arm candy to her ego as unfortunately Tom Hardy is not available on Fab.

It happens, just move on, try clubs and meet people face to face without the hurdle of a website Inbetween you and let the real you show though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get used to it OP. The block button is a life saver.

It’s easier and safer to block someone, than to potentially deal with the abuse you’ll receive for declining them, or for deleting their message. "

Yeah it’s fine I understand that now... but like I said we move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have blocked for many reasons. Some just because we think they are ugly and don’t want to play. Others because they just aren’t what we are after. This site is about fulfilling fantasies, if they aren’t right. It’s easier to block to save both parties wasting their time.

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs

Women block because they can - if the numbers were different on these sites, they wouldn’t be so quick to block.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Some messages are so crap I can read them without opening the message. I wouldn’t bother replying to a shit message either. Just block. Why should I make an effort when they haven’t?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Women block because they can - if the numbers were different on these sites, they wouldn’t be so quick to block.

"

Some people portray themselves as inferior to abstinence, and yes, I would still block.

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"Women block because they can - if the numbers were different on these sites, they wouldn’t be so quick to block.

Some people portray themselves as inferior to abstinence, and yes, I would still block. "

One of the consequences of blocking is you’re not allowed to then contact via the forum.

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Women block because they can - if the numbers were different on these sites, they wouldn’t be so quick to block.

Some people portray themselves as inferior to abstinence, and yes, I would still block.

One of the consequences of blocking is you’re not allowed to then contact via the forum. "

That’s not true. You can still communicate on the forum even if you’ve blocked the person.

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"Women block because they can - if the numbers were different on these sites, they wouldn’t be so quick to block.

Some people portray themselves as inferior to abstinence, and yes, I would still block.

One of the consequences of blocking is you’re not allowed to then contact via the forum.

That’s not true. You can still communicate on the forum even if you’ve blocked the person."

Oh really? I’ll check that out I think

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

You can communicate as general discussion but not about the block. I was talking in general terms.

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"Women block because they can - if the numbers were different on these sites, they wouldn’t be so quick to block.

Some people portray themselves as inferior to abstinence, and yes, I would still block.

One of the consequences of blocking is you’re not allowed to then contact via the forum.

That’s not true. You can still communicate on the forum even if you’ve blocked the person.

Oh really? I’ll check that out I think

Well I’m speaking to you now and quoting you and I blocked you some time ago so...."

I blocked you actually and I think it is wrong for you to be able to contact me now

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Women block because they can - if the numbers were different on these sites, they wouldn’t be so quick to block.

Some people portray themselves as inferior to abstinence, and yes, I would still block.

One of the consequences of blocking is you’re not allowed to then contact via the forum.

That’s not true. You can still communicate on the forum even if you’ve blocked the person.

Oh really? I’ll check that out I think

Well I’m speaking to you now and quoting you and I blocked you some time ago so....

I blocked you actually and I think it is wrong for you to be able to contact me now "

Haha whatever you say, all good then

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"You can communicate as general discussion but not about the block. I was talking in general terms. "

I don’t see why you should be able to communicate with me directly

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"Women block because they can - if the numbers were different on these sites, they wouldn’t be so quick to block.

Some people portray themselves as inferior to abstinence, and yes, I would still block.

One of the consequences of blocking is you’re not allowed to then contact via the forum.

That’s not true. You can still communicate on the forum even if you’ve blocked the person.

Oh really? I’ll check that out I think

Well I’m speaking to you now and quoting you and I blocked you some time ago so....

I blocked you actually and I think it is wrong for you to be able to contact me now

Haha whatever you say, all good then "

No, not all good - I don’t want you to communicate with me

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"You can communicate as general discussion but not about the block. I was talking in general terms.

I don’t see why you should be able to communicate with me directly "

Why does it matter? It’s an open forum for people to comment as they see fit.

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Women block because they can - if the numbers were different on these sites, they wouldn’t be so quick to block.

Some people portray themselves as inferior to abstinence, and yes, I would still block.

One of the consequences of blocking is you’re not allowed to then contact via the forum.

That’s not true. You can still communicate on the forum even if you’ve blocked the person.

Oh really? I’ll check that out I think

Well I’m speaking to you now and quoting you and I blocked you some time ago so....

I blocked you actually and I think it is wrong for you to be able to contact me now

Haha whatever you say, all good then

No, not all good - I don’t want you to communicate with me "

Tough titties I’m afraid, I can comment on whatever I like. You’ll get over it

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

If you have a problem, report. I was continuing discussion, which is within the forum rules.

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"If you have a problem, report. I was continuing discussion, which is within the forum rules. "

Unless people are being abusive on the forums, there isn’t an issue

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"You can communicate as general discussion but not about the block. I was talking in general terms.

I don’t see why you should be able to communicate with me directly "

If there's a block, you can't communicate directly, it's imposdible.

Doesn't stop talking on the forums, but you can't use the forums to get around a block.

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"If you have a problem, report. I was continuing discussion, which is within the forum rules.

Unless people are being abusive on the forums, there isn’t an issue "

Surely I’m the one to decide if there’s an issue

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"If you have a problem, report. I was continuing discussion, which is within the forum rules.

Unless people are being abusive on the forums, there isn’t an issue

Surely I’m the one to decide if there’s an issue"

I wasn’t taking to you, hence why I quoted _naswingdress.

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"You can communicate as general discussion but not about the block. I was talking in general terms.

I don’t see why you should be able to communicate with me directly

If there's a block, you can't communicate directly, it's imposdible.

Doesn't stop talking on the forums, but you can't use the forums to get around a block."

I’m not trying to get round a block - others are

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters


"Welcome to the club "

I think I was in this club from the beginning bud

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"If you have a problem, report. I was continuing discussion, which is within the forum rules.

Unless people are being abusive on the forums, there isn’t an issue "

No, there isn't, but in this case it might need a mod to clarify the rules

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"Welcome to the club

I think I was in this club from the beginning bud "

We should get jackets made

Interesting how a block from a guy isn’t taken seriously though

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Anyway, back to the OP’s question.

I tend to reply mostly with a no thanks.

I’ll only block if I receive abuse, or they are not taking no for an answer etc.

Everyone uses their inbox differently I guess.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"You can communicate as general discussion but not about the block. I was talking in general terms.

I don’t see why you should be able to communicate with me directly

If there's a block, you can't communicate directly, it's imposdible.

Doesn't stop talking on the forums, but you can't use the forums to get around a block.

I’m not trying to get round a block - others are "

I didn't say you were......

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"You can communicate as general discussion but not about the block. I was talking in general terms.

I don’t see why you should be able to communicate with me directly

If there's a block, you can't communicate directly, it's imposdible.

Doesn't stop talking on the forums, but you can't use the forums to get around a block.

I’m not trying to get round a block - others are

I didn't say you were...... "

Sorry, you addressed it to me that’s all

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By *ibblingnewtWoman
over a year ago

by the sea

Best not to send any messages, wait for one getting sent to you, I don’t think you would get blocked then

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"You can communicate as general discussion but not about the block. I was talking in general terms.

I don’t see why you should be able to communicate with me directly

If there's a block, you can't communicate directly, it's imposdible.

Doesn't stop talking on the forums, but you can't use the forums to get around a block.

I’m not trying to get round a block - others are

I didn't say you were......

Sorry, you addressed it to me that’s all "

You said if there's a block people shouldn't be able to contact you. I was explaining that it's impossible to contact you if there a block in place.

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Best not to send any messages, wait for one getting sent to you, I don’t think you would get blocked then "

I agree with this. At least you know for sure that there’s interest there even if it goes nowhere

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"Best not to send any messages, wait for one getting sent to you, I don’t think you would get blocked then "

Yes, if you waited for messages as a guy, you’d be waiting for a long, long, long time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can communicate as general discussion but not about the block. I was talking in general terms.

I don’t see why you should be able to communicate with me directly

If there's a block, you can't communicate directly, it's imposdible.

Doesn't stop talking on the forums, but you can't use the forums to get around a block.

I’m not trying to get round a block - others are "

There’s a difference between interacting with someone on the forums because it is part of a discussion, and using the forums to directly get around a block.

For example, I have replied to many forum posts where the OP has blocked me. But I’m not asking ‘OP why have you blocked me? What have I done wrong?!’ And the same has happened the other way round.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"You can communicate as general discussion but not about the block. I was talking in general terms.

I don’t see why you should be able to communicate with me directly

Why does it matter? It’s an open forum for people to comment as they see fit."

The man is asking you not to...please just ignore each other

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"You can communicate as general discussion but not about the block. I was talking in general terms.

I don’t see why you should be able to communicate with me directly

Why does it matter? It’s an open forum for people to comment as they see fit.

The man is asking you not to...please just ignore each other"

Think the convo has moved on now, thanks for the concern though

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

To clarify...anyone can answer anyones post...most people don't know that othershave blocked them. What you can't do is ask people to unblock you / ask why someone has blocked you etc.

However...if someone is asking you to stop speaking to them then it is best to stop rather than carry on

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

@ concern

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"You can communicate as general discussion but not about the block. I was talking in general terms.

I don’t see why you should be able to communicate with me directly

Why does it matter? It’s an open forum for people to comment as they see fit.

The man is asking you not to...please just ignore each other"

Thanks - I appreciate that

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"You can communicate as general discussion but not about the block. I was talking in general terms.

I don’t see why you should be able to communicate with me directly

Why does it matter? It’s an open forum for people to comment as they see fit.

The man is asking you not to...please just ignore each other"

Agree!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually just delete. No thanks is too hard, because a significant minority will abuse you or argue about it.

I block immediately where the message is what I consider inappropriate or over the line (or disgusting, abusive, etc). Some people use it as a filtering tool where they're just not interested.

If you're being blocked that much, review the messages you're sending. "

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By *unscot44Man
over a year ago

Stepps (Glasgow)

I think this has happened to just about everyone on here at some time.

What i do find amusing is the people you exchange several messages with, all seems to be going really well and then when you try and message them like a day later they have blocked you lol.

As they say there's nowt as queer as folks

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I think this has happened to just about everyone on here at some time.

What i do find amusing is the people you exchange several messages with, all seems to be going really well and then when you try and message them like a day later they have blocked you lol.

As they say there's nowt as queer as folks "

I don’t believe people block you! You’ve got a very smooth bottom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think this has happened to just about everyone on here at some time.

What i do find amusing is the people you exchange several messages with, all seems to be going really well and then when you try and message them like a day later they have blocked you lol.

As they say there's nowt as queer as folks "
I got blocked for first time the other day by an inebriated woman who mistakenly thought I'd made an innocuous comment referring to her but it was to a guy that was above me, she apologised but didn’t remove the block lol but in her case I actually don't mind lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeeezzzzzoooooo

Just everybody block everybody. This is trivial stuff really!

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By *orthcoupleXXXCouple
over a year ago

Durham

The only time I block them is when I’ve had the same message off them week after week, saves their time as well as mine.

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By *isa2018Couple
over a year ago

East Northamptonshire

It is all about time. I look after our profile and S just goes through messages with me to decide if we are interested in anyone. If someone clearly hasn't taken the time to read our profile, I.e. sends a one line message, has no profile photos of their own, sends dick pics, doesn't send a face pic etc, then it usually us an instant block and delete to hide then from any future searches. If someone has read the profile and sends us ice pics then we will always reply, even to say sorry but there is no interest. As we are so busy at the moment it can often be a while before we both get a chance to look through things and then reply too.

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By *ibblingnewtWoman
over a year ago

by the sea


"Best not to send any messages, wait for one getting sent to you, I don’t think you would get blocked then

Yes, if you waited for messages as a guy, you’d be waiting for a long, long, long time! "

Well why not? At least it saves unwanted messages deleted and you get someone that actually is interested in chatting to you and possibly meeting you too think about the saved time you can have to spend on doing something more fruitful

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"Best not to send any messages, wait for one getting sent to you, I don’t think you would get blocked then

Yes, if you waited for messages as a guy, you’d be waiting for a long, long, long time!

Well why not? At least it saves unwanted messages deleted and you get someone that actually is interested in chatting to you and possibly meeting you too think about the saved time you can have to spend on doing something more fruitful "

Because it would never happen for 99% of guys on here - they’d never get a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vamp has written to guys she is interested in.

Funny thing is, they all say they want to meet a couple like us, but, when we/she writes, we get refusals, no response, or blocked.

Then, a while later, they write to us!

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By *ibblingnewtWoman
over a year ago

by the sea


"Vamp has written to guys she is interested in.

Funny thing is, they all say they want to meet a couple like us, but, when we/she writes, we get refusals, no response, or blocked.

Then, a while later, they write to us!"

That sounds like the hunter instinct, worked for the cave men lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember the end of school disco. Not everyone got a date, and it’s the same thing here. Most men aren’t going to get anything from this site. If they are an enticing prospect they will be contacted, if not, take it as a hint.

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By *ibblingnewtWoman
over a year ago

by the sea


"Vamp has written to guys she is interested in.

Funny thing is, they all say they want to meet a couple like us, but, when we/she writes, we get refusals, no response, or blocked.

Then, a while later, they write to us!"

No pleasing some people !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anyway, back to the OP’s question.

I tend to reply mostly with a no thanks.

I’ll only block if I receive abuse, or they are not taking no for an answer etc.

Everyone uses their inbox differently I guess."

Yeah each to their own but I just guess that’s me being polite and the women being pi**ed off with the idiots on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t tend to say no thanks as that seems to open up to the person sending more messages

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

No block just straight delete. The subsequent awkward conversations after a polite 'no thanks' are significantly down, intend to keep it that way too. Sounds harsh but the requests to explain why have run the course and we were originally a reply to all messages couple.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"So as always I have a read of the profile and then think of what to message and always try to leave a compliment... yet 3/4 times since I’ve been on here I’ve been blocked straight away!

To me that doesn’t make any sense at all... I know you ladies probably get inundated with messages but is it that difficult to send a quick “No thanks” or just delete the message?

I’m not one to send a million messages but if someone did then you can feel free to block them!

I’m so confused"

Women on here get bored with compliments. They know it is a guys way of blowing smoke up their arse. They also know a lot of guys are not being sincere when they dish out compliments. They know a lot of guys wrongly think giving compliments = I get into your knickers.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"So as always I have a read of the profile and then think of what to message and always try to leave a compliment... yet 3/4 times since I’ve been on here I’ve been blocked straight away!

To me that doesn’t make any sense at all... I know you ladies probably get inundated with messages but is it that difficult to send a quick “No thanks” or just delete the message?

I’m not one to send a million messages but if someone did then you can feel free to block them!

I’m so confused"

Would it make you feel better to have an inbox full of messages saying no thanks? It would depress me.

No reply = no thanks.

No reply does not = the person you emailed is rude.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Never worry geezer... It is their loss. Just crack on with your day "

How is it their loss if they are not interested?

I am sure the person receiving the email doesn't think it's their loss. If they did they would reply.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Never worry geezer... It is their loss. Just crack on with your day

Not their loss at all. They arent interested in you. Easier to just delete and/or block.

Loool so salty amazing!

Their loss OP have a good day!

bang on mate, how would they know, rude as rude can get, sadly no surprise for on here though, wouldn’t be accepted as ‘normal’ in other walk of life,

Sits and waits for “its in the rules” brigade "

If you were getting 30 - 100 emails a day would you want to spend hours reading them all and replying no thanks?

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Never worry geezer... It is their loss. Just crack on with your day

Not their loss at all. They arent interested in you. Easier to just delete and/or block.

Loool so salty amazing!

Their loss OP have a good day!

bang on mate, how would they know, rude as rude can get, sadly no surprise for on here though, wouldn’t be accepted as ‘normal’ in other walk of life,

Sits and waits for “its in the rules” brigade

Imo, no respect for rules + no respect for profile preferences = no respect when meeting. "

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Common decency isn’t that common here ! .....you will find many excuses for plain rudeness but ask yourself....are these the kind of people you want to associate yourself with in the first place... I think not ! So take it as a plus

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"It's rude and arrogant to message someone on Fab and EXPECT a reply.

How is it rude at all? I know people get overwhelmed with messages, the idiots who constantly message and the ones who become abusive but in my opinion I'd say a polite no thanks and then if they start down the route of idiot then block"

no reply = no thanks

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"I think this has happened to just about everyone on here at some time.

What i do find amusing is the people you exchange several messages with, all seems to be going really well and then when you try and message them like a day later they have blocked you lol.

As they say there's nowt as queer as folks "

Then they must have blocked you for a reason. My guess would be something you said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First of all if you say you are happy for them to just delete and you don't intend to keep trying to bother them with messages then it makes no difference to you, unless you do in fact want to keep bothering them!

Also one reason I think people have missed out is that if you are someone who filters/blocks messages from all men while you are bombarded and lift it again when you have been getting through them, that this filter does not work for people who have previously messaged you!

So by the time someone has said 500 no thanks and puts the filter on temporarily while you go through the current lot, all of those 500 men can still message you out of the blue filling your inbox again.

I only do this to people who I know I am not going to meet or hit one of the other criteria we have for blocking (like abusive, too young, etc)

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By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem

Problem comes when you get more than 100 messages a day there's no page scrolling through messages

One night being on chatroom I had well over 800 messages after I deleted my inbox. Can only see the 1st 100 without deleting.

It doesn't make a difference if you reply to a person or not if you put filters back on. They can still message you again. Fab needs a reset on the filters option blank slate your inbox. Otherwise it's a delete profile and start again or make a new one and have both one for chatrooms no one can message you and other for messages and reply to who you want when you can see the message.

Blocks make it all the easier but quite a few make a new profile then send the same copy paste shit again on new profile then wonder why they get blocked again.

A local guy goes through on average 2 profiles a week and uses the same photos. A lot of these guys make more effort trying to get round the blocks than wondering what they are doing wrong in the first place

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