FabSwingers.com forum: First couple swap tips

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey! So we just wanted some tips on how people usually start the evening when it comes to swapping partners. Do people usually cuddle other people's partners? Or do they start with their own partner first? Just want to get some ideas or people's own experiences of how their swapping usually starts. Also, when you finish the sex, do people just leave?

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By *eeandsexymCouple
over a year ago

Between selby/york

Do whatever feels comfortable to you.. Don't over plan things

If you find yourself doing that maybe it's not the best for you afterall

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It depends on the other couple to an extent.

We sometimes played board games or forfeits as an ice breaker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does all depend on the couples.

We got to be friends first with a couple before our first time. That way we felt comfy knowing if things where not going well we could stop easy.

It did not happy like that lol we were all so comfy with each other we did different room swaps on our first meet lol

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Our first time was a seven person orgy at a massive party on NYE!! We went in big haha.

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We start with each. By the time we are both naked enjoying each other's bodies the other couple are usually doing the same. We then move over to them and swap. Seems to work for us.

Mr2

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

When we've invited new couples home, we have a drink downstairs, chat about boundaries, likes and dislikes and so on. Then we go to the bedroom, swap partners and undress one another. Then onto the bed for foreplay and fucking.

When we've all had enough sex we might go down for another drink or they'll dress and leave. Occasionally they'll sleep over in the other bedroom, then we'll have a before-breakfast 4some.

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By *ikingCoolMan
over a year ago

carmarthen

"Hey! So we just wanted some tips on how people usually start the evening when it comes to swapping partners. Do people usually cuddle other people's partners? Or do they start with their own partner first? Just want to get some ideas or people's own experiences of how their swapping usually starts. Also, when you finish the sex, do people just leave?"

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By *ikingCoolMan
over a year ago

carmarthen

We would just let it happen

But then we sometimes would

Meet and we would all click

And that would be awesome

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Depends if private meet or club, we're latter so it's chatting about likes etc, flirting over drinks at bar, kissing, groping just happens with each others partner, naturally progresses

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Not keen on the straight swopping. Does nothing for us. We usually start with some fem/fem action and then the partners join in. All involved (no male bi play tho). This is how we play. Appreciate some like straight swop but its not for us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks guys

it's nice to hear different experiences. we don't have any preconceptions, just curious how other people do it or start it is all. We've done single guy play and threesomes but not another couple yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not keen on the straight swopping. Does nothing for us. We usually start with some fem/fem action and then the partners join in. All involved (no male bi play tho). This is how we play. Appreciate some like straight swop but its not for us."

Like this for us....

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Just talk, be totally honest with each other and be best freinds. Once you know how to read each other and communication well, just take it slow and things will take its natural course. You will probably always have some hard boundries but you may find that some boundries shift naturally as you go on. Also personally I don't think you can underestimate the value of a good debrief either. It's one the things me and my partner look forward to is talking about things afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s sometimes difficult to get started on a private couple-couple meet. You end up having drinks and chat then more chat then more chat until someone cracks and says ‘shall we ...’. Then you can start. Usually we start by swapping partners then kissing, undressing then it’s all natural. Surprisingly natural.

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By *orthcoupleXXXCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Don’t plan... you can’t, every couple is different, just go with the flow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We start differently as we don’t kiss others. So, we get the social part out the way and then start with our own partners. Then when we’re all ready, we just naturally swap over.

That’s a different way to most on here. But then we are different.

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

It entirely depends on all of our moods - it has proven easier with single guys as it is broadly 2 people deciding and one veto

with couples the permutations of attraction are more challenging...

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By *ikingCoolMan
over a year ago

carmarthen

We found it best to meet,and

Chat then for the guy,s to go

For a drink and a chat and the

Girls and meet back up after

A hour ,when able to these

Always worked best

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By *eefdoddusCouple
over a year ago

Scottish Borders

"We start differently as we don’t kiss others. So, we get the social part out the way and then start with our own partners. Then when we’re all ready, we just naturally swap over.

That’s a different way to most on here. But then we are different."

Same here, in the main..! As has been said already we try not to plan too much. Forfeit games like spin the bottle are a good laugh and help to get the party started but when it get's down to it we prefer to start with our own partners first then things usually progress on their own.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

If its your first time try s club. They are best for no-pressure meets, you get to see potential playmates before committing, and when you have had enough you cam walk away without any complications. It certainly worked for us.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

What I (Luke) did with a previous partner was for us two couples to start with our own partners. We kissed, touched and undressed each other. That increased the sexual tension in the room with minimal consent issues. Then hands started to cross between the couples which grew to kissing and then more.

It worked quite well starting low-key and letting it grow.

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