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By *arc and Kama OP   Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Hello,

We are wondering if it would be a good idea to create a list of users who simply did not show when you set a meeting?

However, there is a downside... how to proof this, as everyone can post everything.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Although you see it sometimes naming and shaming is rightly imo against site rules..

I have had guys report me and pass on mis information because i rejected them..

I simply report 'no shows' and block them..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello,

We are wondering if it would be a good idea to create a list of users who simply did not show when you set a meeting?

However, there is a downside... how to proof this, as everyone can post everything.

"
exactly the reason why it will never exist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello,

We are wondering if it would be a good idea to create a list of users who simply did not show when you set a meeting?

However, there is a downside... how to proof this, as everyone can post everything.

"

Naming and shaming isn't allowed. For exactly the reason you just said

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I've been reported as fake for rejecting people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello,

We are wondering if it would be a good idea to create a list of users who simply did not show when you set a meeting?

However, there is a downside... how to proof this, as everyone can post everything.

"

I've read in other threads that you can report no shows, but I would guess the only way you can prove it is if there is a message trail on Fab that proves the arrangements.... And still not sure whether reporting will do anything to be fair.

We've had a no show, and just blocked and moved on!

xx Niki

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By *arc and Kama OP   Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Great. I understand your point and you all are right. I looked at this from different angle.

I think we can close this topic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been reported as fake for rejecting people. "

Charming....

x N

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By *nergyLadMan
over a year ago

here


"Hello,

We are wondering if it would be a good idea to create a list of users who simply did not show when you set a meeting?

However, there is a downside... how to proof this, as everyone can post everything.

"

Use the 'Private Note' function to add a a comment for yourself later on someones profile. If you haven't blocked and moved on....

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Hello,

We are wondering if it would be a good idea to create a list of users who simply did not show when you set a meeting?

However, there is a downside... how to proof this, as everyone can post everything.

"

It's too easy to abuse.

I could say you both arrange to meet me and didn't show up. How do the Fab administrators know if I am lying or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been reported as fake for rejecting people. "

I've been reported for being a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been reported as fake for rejecting people.

I've been reported for being a man "
Well they shudda gone to specsavers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Although you see it sometimes naming and shaming is rightly imo against site rules..

I have had guys report me and pass on mis information because i rejected them..

I simply report 'no shows' and block them..

"

Report to who??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got reported for being a fake too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got reported for being a fake too. "

It actually made me laugh. At the time I had 65 verifications showing and 9 public photos, but the guy decided that I must be a man behind a woman's profile because I wouldn't turn my cam on in the chat room

Some people's logic, eh?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Although you see it sometimes naming and shaming is rightly imo against site rules..

I have had guys report me and pass on mis information because i rejected them..

I simply report 'no shows' and block them..

Report to who??

"

Admin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was meant to have a meet with a woman today and seemed totally up for it but after she requested a live pic on kik which i did. She said she would send one back but any new message ive sent her only has the delivered sign on it and not read so im guessing she either fell down the stairs and cant reply or she's a he! This was all a few good hours ago we had been chatting for a cpl of days. Im getting fed up with no shows !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Was meant to have a meet with a woman today and seemed totally up for it but after she requested a live pic on kik which i did. She said she would send one back but any new message ive sent her only has the delivered sign on it and not read so im guessing she either fell down the stairs and cant reply or she's a he! This was all a few good hours ago we had been chatting for a cpl of days. Im getting fed up with no shows !! "

so am I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been chatting tonight with someone who's just had a no show... how could people do it?. Very weird. I find it most common for chats to go very cold as soon as it gets a bit real. Lol

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