FabSwingers.com forum: Negative status updates

By *ung_london OP Man
over a year ago

London

Do they work? Things like ‘all the [type of person]s on here are pathetic losers’ or ‘why is everyone in [name of city] so crap’. Plus the ‘this site is useless I am deleting’ ones. I’ve always assumed they were late night rants but maybe I’m missing something. Do people actually reply to them? Is it some kind of brilliant reverse psychology that yields results? Have you ever met as a result of one?

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Don't believe it does,but it's up to those people isn't it? I think we're all guilty of a moan now and again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can put me off personally

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Maybe some do it to put ppl off

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By *handraWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

Puts me right off.

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By *picyminxWoman
over a year ago

Huntingdon

It definitely puts me off.

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By *anTouchThisCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

We block people who do that.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Puts me off to. Miserable sods!!

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

... I agree - a real turn off. Mind you ‘I need a pussy to lick’ puts me off too so I’m hard to please.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

They work after multiple negative statue I block

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By *urvy Girl 79Woman
over a year ago

Near Bourne

It puts me right off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Puts us off. If someone messages us and has a negative status like that I don't bother reading any further or responding. I use it as a filter

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Positivity is sexy

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

“I’m horny and bored”.

Who could fail to be turned on by that?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Do they work? Things like ‘all the [type of person]s on here are pathetic losers’ or ‘why is everyone in [name of city] so crap’. Plus the ‘this site is useless I am deleting’ ones. I’ve always assumed they were late night rants but maybe I’m missing something. Do people actually reply to them? Is it some kind of brilliant reverse psychology that yields results? Have you ever met as a result of one? "

I got an instant meet late one Friday night, on the back of a status along the lines of “Another time waster none-show!” a couple had posted up. I messaged them and said not to let a disappointment get them down, and was asked “How soon could you get here?” 45 minutes later I was in their front room lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use it as a great filter.

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By *qua vitaeWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire/Midlands

"Puts us off. If someone messages us and has a negative status like that I don't bother reading any further or responding. I use it as a filter "

I do, too.

When I come across profiles like this (especially the ones that moan about another fab user for whatever reason), it make me think, would they ‘moan’ about me too if I decide I’m not for them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the repeat offenders especially and it's always somebody else's fault.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"... I agree - a real turn off. Mind you ‘I need a pussy to lick’ puts me off too so I’m hard to please. "

Urgh.... I hate those updates... like you'll message and say... oh here.. lick mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The worst are the ones that tell you they are leaving the site because it’s so bad. Again and again and again........and they’re STILL here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally think there’s a difference between a negative statement and saying what you do or don’t like or want. To some people that can be deemed negative.

I would rather someone was honest and upfront than drop something on me later

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