FabSwingers.com forum: Wife and Dogging advice

By *ornysquirtingcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

somerset

Ok, we are not new to this lifestyle and have done most things so I am not easily shocked.

Wife has recently asked to go dogging as she said she wants to be taken by a group of men. She says she likes the idea of being used and dirty.

Ok this is where I feel conflicted. I have shared her but I am not a cuck I've always been involved. To take her to a known dogging spot let her fuck a load of guys while I play security for safe sex ect makes me nervous and somewhat left out.

Anyone else done this or am i overthinking it?

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By *rednwilma1Couple
over a year ago

york

Why can't you join in?

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By *ornysquirtingcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

somerset

"Why can't you join in?"

I suppose but part of it is me take take her when we get back home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do both... plus you often find unless it’s a great dogging spot a lot of the males will prefer it’s a blow job as they feel you enter her... we always struggle to find proper ‘dirty wife’ opportunities dogging

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By *ustin500Man
over a year ago

woodbridge

Just let a group have her that's what she wants you can have her juicy peach later

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Rule no 1 of swinging your relationship comes first

Rule no 1 appendix a if you don't want to do it or you're doubtful don't do it

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Also if a woman posted that her husband wanted to do something but it made her feel nervous and left out everyone would be flaming the husband

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rule no 1 of swinging your relationship comes first

Rule no 1 appendix a if you don't want to do it or you're doubtful don't do it "

This (and NiceCouple’s post that followed incidentally)

Assuming it’s not the ‘dogging’ part that your Wife is excited about you might try this scenario that I was lucky enough to be a part of.

A Wife in s Couple I used to meet had the same sort of fantasy. So we got togather at my house on a couple of occasions, 2 Couples, and 3 Guys. Plenty of Guys to help the Ladies with their fantasy, plus safer and much more controllable. Just a suggestion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rule no 1 of swinging your relationship comes first

Rule no 1 appendix a if you don't want to do it or you're doubtful don't do it

This (and NiceCouple’s post that followed incidentally)

Assuming it’s not the ‘dogging’ part that your Wife is excited about you might try this scenario that I was lucky enough to be a part of.

Sensible suggestion

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Or you could attend a Club Together on a greedy girls night where you can watch and be part of her enjoying herself and enjoying yourself later also, if that's what you would both want.

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By *j48Man
over a year ago

Wigan

Yep sensible suggestion

As you've no clue who or what state of hygiene people are at a dogging spot.

Can quickly get out of control I would think.

Never tried it just my opinion

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Another option is to invite people to your dogging meet so you can control who comes. We did that, gave out the location last minute and got car registrations so we knew who to look for. Worked well BUT as everyone says, only do things if you’re comfortable - almost nothing is more important. Mr.

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By *ipplebarnyMan
over a year ago

milton keynes

"Or you could attend a Club Together on a greedy girls night where you can watch and be part of her enjoying herself and enjoying yourself later also, if that's what you would both want."
exactly what I was thinking

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By *eisurepleasureMan
over a year ago

belfast

Take her to a sex cinema its same as dogging

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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago

bristol

"Why can't you join in?

I suppose but part of it is me take take her when we get back home."

With this one...

You can fuck her as a part of it, when you get home, pamper her, make love to her instead, reconnect that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why can't you join in?

I suppose but part of it is me take take her when we get back home.

With this one...

You can fuck her as a part of it, when you get home, pamper her, make love to her instead, reconnect that way. "

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By *hroatfuckerMan
over a year ago

Halifax

"Do both... plus you often find unless it’s a great dogging spot a lot of the males will prefer it’s a blow job as they feel you enter her... we always struggle to find proper ‘dirty wife’ opportunities dogging "

I'd be a very willing participant in a dirty wife scenario, live locally to you too. Do you frequent the popular locations nearby when your out dogging or do you travel further?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come and join us one night, when we go.

Plenty of choice of guys, and usually, a few couples, too.

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By *ave-and-LouiseCouple
over a year ago

Torquay

Would love to do this, it's popped up as as a fantasy a few times, but heard a few horror stories that have put us off. People taking pics or vids with phone, guys getting to rough/aggressive and it all getting out of hand etc.

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By *ornysquirtingcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

somerset

Thanks all. We are reading and discussing with each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If in doubt..then don't...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your unsure if a definite no, put your relationship first,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can relate to what you said about not joining in but fucking her later. We have been to a dogging site, but felt unsafe this was 20 plus years ago, so we left.

My wife Tej has fucked several other guys at our place and theirs, most of the time me watching and a couple of times me not at home, looking back that was risky but we were both young and foolish i guess.

I used to fuck Tej hard after she had a white guy. Tej now feels too old for this but I'm hoping that the right guy will make her feel young again.

Why not visit a fit guy, then get a few more guys there? usually much safer at other persons home?

The only thing I regret is that the internet was not widely used when we were younger as my wife Tej was up for two strangers just for me but I could not get the right guys.

Good luck

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