FabSwingers.com forum: Hosting a party

By *aveandkate35 OP Couple
over a year ago

telford

Hi all,

We have a small window of opporunity where we are renting out our house and as such it will be empty.

We're thinking of holding a 1 off party and just wanted some tips/ advice on what makes them work?

We've never been to a party - which diesnt help!

Do you let people stay over? Or just use all your rooms as playrooms??

What about music? I know a swinger who's a very good dj or just keep it to a bit of Rhianna?

Like I say this may be a bad idea - but it seems like too much of a good opportunity to miss!

Thanks for any comments.

D&K

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

empty? as in no furniture ... sorry if I am being thick.

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By *aveandkate35 OP Couple
over a year ago

telford

"empty? as in no furniture ... sorry if I am being thick.

No, I was a bit vague - furnished, but no personal belongings

I.e lots of beds.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"empty? as in no furniture ... sorry if I am being thick.

No, I was a bit vague - furnished, but no personal belongings

I.e lots of beds.

cool,

I would allocate some rooms as play rooms and mark as open and closed. Open people can play and others can watch, join in if asked or they ask and the people say yes... closed means privacy and not to enter. PUT A BIN IN for condoms as you may be surprised where others leave theirs

people staying over means stripping the beds after play for people to sleep in.

I personally wouldn't have them to sleep over...

good luck and have a great time if you go ahead.

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By *ardybumsCouple
over a year ago

peekin under duvet is it safe?

best advise?

make sure you send us an invite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

best advice:

make sure theres fanny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"best advice:

make sure theres fanny "

There's usually no problem with that-it's getting single guys to attend!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've only been to one party and it was brilliant! Good advice from View and thats exactly what our hosts did and they went through the 'rules' when everyone had arrived. They laid on drinks and nibbles and had a big bowl with condoms in just in case anyone ran out. They'd already checked that everyone attending played safe. Anyone wanting to film or take pics checked it was ok first. Hostess introduced people to everyone else as they arrived. The only slight disappointment was the number of single guys invited who either sent apologies at the last minute or didn't turn up.

Great idea to use the opportunity to have a party and hope it goes well.

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By *aveandkate35 OP Couple
over a year ago

telford

Thanks for the comments

We were on the fence with people staying over or not - which thinking about it, there is no need as tgere is a decent hotel within walking distance.

Single males - I'm thinking by referral only I.e if a couple come along they can refer singles beforehand.

I personally think having a good mix of respectful couples and singles is best.

If anyone who's hosted a party knows any more gotchas please let us know!

Good tip about tge bins too!

Cheers

D&K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Re music-a bit of background music is good. I would approach it like you would any normal house party but cater for people having sex!

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By *aveandkate35 OP Couple
over a year ago

telford

"We've only been to one party and it was brilliant! Good advice from View and thats exactly what our hosts did and they went through the 'rules' when everyone had arrived. They laid on drinks and nibbles and had a big bowl with condoms in just in case anyone ran out. They'd already checked that everyone attending played safe. Anyone wanting to film or take pics checked it was ok first. Hostess introduced people to everyone else as they arrived. The only slight disappointment was the number of single guys invited who either sent apologies at the last minute or didn't turn up.

Great idea to use the opportunity to have a party and hope it goes well.

Excellent advise! Thanks for that.

We were thinking of putting on a small buffet and having snacks available.

As for single guys hopefully if the are referred they'll be a bit more reliable. We shall see. - better get planning!

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good idea to invite single guys by referral. Like some couples and single ladys, a few of the invitees had a to do list of single guys so we invited them. Out of about 40, only 1 turned up!! He got lots of attention from the ladies tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LOLLLL then a guy like me is definitely screwed for having any chance of attending

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

u can cum to my party nxt time only had one went ok background music, wine ,condoms space to place n people asked join in or watch nxt time be bigger crowd

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I have read this with interest, how the hell do you have a problem getting single guys to attend a sexy party.

Maybe i am being thick but i would have thought you would have been fighting them off.

Or is it a case of 'suitable' single guys ?

whether that be an age / location / or any other thing ?

i have been to one party like this, and my only advice is to keep it chilled and relaxed no one likes to feel under pressure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"u can cum to my party nxt time only had one went ok background music, wine ,condoms space to place n people asked join in or watch nxt time be bigger crowd"

Would be very open to the invite and gladly attend it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find that inviting couples and singles you have already met, and then get them to recommend another couple always work. Also to get people with the same kind of interests, like kidding, bi ladies etc. don't think people will expect to stay they all make their own plans. Supply a few nibbles, some soft drinks and get them to bring their own alcohol. Duvets can get wet so take them off and provide wipes and bins for condoms. Keep doors shut if certain rooms can't be used. Tell people rules in the invite and parking info always good. I think stickers with fab names on are good as you forget when there is a full house. Have some background music on, a mix of hits and keep it simple. Enjoy and good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing I meant x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we had a garden party a wee while back and gonna have another one in summer it all went fab due to alot of help and a good mix of people couples and single we only had a small amount of space in home, however had about 30 tents in garden, i honestly believe a good mix of people either you know or friends no is a good mix - t the end of the day your inviting people to your home so you want all to go well - good luck and we hope you have fabby time xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we had a garden party a wee while back and gonna have another one in summer it all went fab due to alot of help and a good mix of people couples and single we only had a small amount of space in home, however had about 30 tents in garden, i honestly believe a good mix of people either you know or friends no is a good mix - t the end of the day your inviting people to your home so you want all to go well - good luck and we hope you have fabby time xxxxx"

I sincerely feel that is the key... helping hands from others... that would make the planning so much more easier... I feel the success of your garden party was due to that... and as you said it turned out great if I can be of any help just give me a shout will be glad to help out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have read this with interest, how the hell do you have a problem getting single guys to attend a sexy party.

Maybe i am being thick but i would have thought you would have been fighting them off.

Or is it a case of 'suitable' single guys ?

whether that be an age / location / or any other thing ?

i have been to one party like this, and my only advice is to keep it chilled and relaxed no one likes to feel under pressure.

Thats exactly what we thought!! A few guys we invited were ones we knew well and genuinely couldn't make the date but the rest were ones that we'd been chatting to on fab with a _iew to meeting and thought this would be the ideal opportunity. It was the ones with 100% reliable on their profiles who swore blind they'd be there but didn't show up! Oh well, it was a quick way to clear out our "to do" lists!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have read this with interest, how the hell do you have a problem getting single guys to attend a sexy party.

Maybe i am being thick but i would have thought you would have been fighting them off.

Or is it a case of 'suitable' single guys ?

whether that be an age / location / or any other thing ?

i have been to one party like this, and my only advice is to keep it chilled and relaxed no one likes to feel under pressure.

alot of the people who agree to come that dont turn up or are let downs usually havent been before. gang bangs/parties can often be completely different in reality to the fantasy or what they enjoy in their porn.

alot of men bottle it, some will even come and find excuses to leave or wont be able to perform. theres lots of things that they dont really think about and when it becomes a reality is off putting or they dont turn up.

of course everyone picked is deemed suitable they dont just allow anyone random to come.

but like someone said above alot are just thinking of something 1 to 1 and the reality of everything else that comes along with parties/gang bangs is its quite different than what you see on your porno especially if you never done it before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

always invite a lot more people than you want, especially single guys as you really only get a 3rd of the people you invite turn up. Nibbles and soft drinks are good but don't go over the top and always have some condoms as someone always forgets to bring any. Good luck i hope it goes with a bang lol x

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By *AUCY SUEWoman
over a year ago

portsmouth

Yes you would think single guys would be gagging to be invited, but alot say they will go and dont, couples are best to invite, nibbles on a table in the kitchen is great, get everyone to bring their own alcohol just supply soft drinks and if people want to stay put on invite plse bring duvet if you want to sleep over. have fun x x keep a room for non players to chat in as well

x sue x

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