FabSwingers.com forum: Getting verified

By *arksterx OP Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

So I am new to swinging and relatively new to Fab but wanting to get verified (am self verified) so it’s hopefully more appealing.

Don’t know anyone personally on here - a single guy without any verifications doesn’t get much feedback - or maybe that’s just me and my profile!!

Have tried contacting some clubs but often getting rebuffed because of my single, unverified status

By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

"So I am new to swinging and relatively new to Fab but wanting to get verified (am self verified) so it’s hopefully more appealing.

Don’t know anyone personally on here - a single guy without any verifications doesn’t get much feedback - or maybe that’s just me and my profile!!

Have tried contacting some clubs but often getting rebuffed because of my single, unverified status"

clubs dont care if your verified ... unless you mean social events ... 2 different things hun xx

By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

OP. Clubs won't turn you down on the fact you aren't verified on here or elsewhere.

Facts are it's a numbers game with so many other single guys all seeking the same thing.

You've only been on here 2 weeks. You are a mere beginner! Sad but true. It can take months to get somewhere!

It takes lots of Patience, Perseverance and more Patience to succeed.

Verifications usually come about from a meeting, not from someone just looking at your profile!

Nor is this site an Instantshag notion as some people think.

You need to "sell" yourself to get noticed. Put up a face pic, as potential meets like to see what you look like.

Ditch the cock pics to Private.

State why you don't accommodate, as that can make others wary of you.

Follow previous advice in getting to socials and clubs. Either will accept newcomers quite ok.

You will have success only by the measure of your input. That's the crucial part but it can work.

Good luck.