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"It's nothing to be ashamed off. It's consenting adults. Going by your profile you seem like a fun loving guy. I doubt the press would print face pics unless your a celebrity. Enjoy SF and say hello if you see us. Crutches will give us away. Xx Well said! We've been open to friends & colleagues for years about what we do, as we're trying to show the wider populous that we're doing nothing wrong, and have nothing to be ashamed of. " | |||
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"I’m open to my friends and work colleagues, they can’t believe how I go to socials and meet as they say all these strange people. Nothing strange about us. Monogamy is soo out dated. " Monogamy is a tropical hardwood isn't it? ![]() | |||
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"I totally get that there is nothing to be ashamed of and whatever happens on the scene is between consensual adults. Though visibility and openness, all depends on your present circumstances. I'm not ashamed of who I am and what I like or dislike, however we live in a very judgemental society. And even those lovely individuals that are not judgmental directly, will have strong imprinted "morals" about anything that isn't widely socially acceptable. And I'm afraid, swinging isn't widely socially acceptable. So if you have a job or role that involves personal credibility, swinging may well prove against you if your wider circle finds out. I would want discretion in everything that I do. Don't shoot the messenger, ladies and gents... I'm only expressing what I think and what advice I'd give a friend. xx N " ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Evening everyone, something i’ve been thinking about a bit recently is people’s opinions of swinging. Are you open about it to friends, work colleagues or is it a secret. Maybe reason I ask is i’m going to Swingfields this Thursday for weekend. Have heard and seen pictures in papers myself. I have always had face pictures on my profiles ( been on Fab about 8 years but deleted and rejoined). I have decided Swingfields is the last blowout as such for me and leaving swinging scene then. Wondering if possibly be best hiding my profile before Swingfields now. Can’t say i’d like to spot my face in papers that’s for sure ![]() the sexual act is part of being an earthly creature why would you feel guilty about it? | |||
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"Evening everyone, something i’ve been thinking about a bit recently is people’s opinions of swinging. Are you open about it to friends, work colleagues or is it a secret. Maybe reason I ask is i’m going to Swingfields this Thursday for weekend. Have heard and seen pictures in papers myself. I have always had face pictures on my profiles ( been on Fab about 8 years but deleted and rejoined). I have decided Swingfields is the last blowout as such for me and leaving swinging scene then. Wondering if possibly be best hiding my profile before Swingfields now. Can’t say i’d like to spot my face in papers that’s for sure ![]() basically kept my swinging lifestyle a secret from my family so obviously wouldn’t want that coming out | |||
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"Evening everyone, something i’ve been thinking about a bit recently is people’s opinions of swinging. Are you open about it to friends, work colleagues or is it a secret. Maybe reason I ask is i’m going to Swingfields this Thursday for weekend. Have heard and seen pictures in papers myself. I have always had face pictures on my profiles ( been on Fab about 8 years but deleted and rejoined). I have decided Swingfields is the last blowout as such for me and leaving swinging scene then. Wondering if possibly be best hiding my profile before Swingfields now. Can’t say i’d like to spot my face in papers that’s for sure ![]() you're differentiating swinging from sex, who talks to their family about sex in general very few but let's face it we all know the other person loves it or at least does it....... It's life, don't feel guilty unless you're doing something you shouldn't be ![]() | |||
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"I’m open to my friends and work colleagues, they can’t believe how I go to socials and meet as they say all these strange people. Nothing strange about us. Monogamy is soo out dated. Monogamy is a tropical hardwood isn't it? ![]() No it isnt. But just like the hardwood, there are several distinct species under the same unbrella, which all require their own different methods of working and care! | |||
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"We haven't told any vanilla friends or family. We do love to stir up conversations about swingers and swinging - then we have a laugh later - truth be, most of our friends would be pretty shocked. Which makes it even more fun to keep it to ourselves. " This is us x | |||
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"We haven't told any vanilla friends or family. We do love to stir up conversations about swingers and swinging - then we have a laugh later - truth be, most of our friends would be pretty shocked. Which makes it even more fun to keep it to ourselves. This is us x" it took years for family to get to grip with age gap,never mind our fab life fun . | |||
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