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"Use a good quality conditioner instead of a shaving foam. Used to get razor rash but once started using conditioner have had no problems. " Yes use hair conditioner it coats the hair n plumps it up. Best to do after u been soaking in bath a bit. Use conditioner on hair then shave. Depends on area, but short strokes n rinse blade. Don't use on long hair, trim it down to 3-4mm. Most important bit is moisturise it. After u shower n yr dry slap some on. If yr getting red rashes continuously try some kind of medicated wash, or something with tea tree oil in it. Like waxing, it's the aftercare that's really important not just the hair removal. Don't forget u may also need to exfoliate the area.....very, very gently after a few days. Reddening and spotty rashes also come from the fact the skin is dry and the hair can't break through the cells off dead skin on the outer layer. They get blocked and infected. If this ever happens to me tea tree oil....diluted this bit very important, diluted! Just wipe gently over the area. May sting slightly but its important u dilute it a bit and dont use neat. Cant stress that enough. Then moisturise the skin needs to be soft enough to allow the hair to push thru Good luck | |||
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"Hi, I wax and so does he. We can't be doing with shaving... It doesn't hurt as much as you think either. Maybe a bit on the balls, but if they are stretched properly, it's just a second or so of pain. You can probably get booked in a local salon that offers intimate waxing for men. As long as the therapists are trained, you'll be fine, and smooth for up to a month. I'd stay clear of any creams - I've seen what chemical burns can do down there!!! Niki" I just use clippers and electric razer does the job fine | |||
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"Hi, I wax and so does he. We can't be doing with shaving... It doesn't hurt as much as you think either. Maybe a bit on the balls, but if they are stretched properly, it's just a second or so of pain. You can probably get booked in a local salon that offers intimate waxing for men. As long as the therapists are trained, you'll be fine, and smooth for up to a month. I'd stay clear of any creams - I've seen what chemical burns can do down there!!! Niki" Completely agree with Niki. Male wax therapist here so my follow up advice would be just make sure they use "hard" wax for intimate areas. If they use "strip" wax, I wouldn't recommend. There's quite a diff tbh. Double check they are trained/qualified in intimate Male waxing. Despite popular belief yr balls are the easiest and actually not as painful as say having yr chest waxed. Its quick n easy and more often u get it done 4-6 weeks u'll easily get used to it. Good luck any advice PM me | |||
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"Hi, I wax and so does he. We can't be doing with shaving... It doesn't hurt as much as you think either. Maybe a bit on the balls, but if they are stretched properly, it's just a second or so of pain. You can probably get booked in a local salon that offers intimate waxing for men. As long as the therapists are trained, you'll be fine, and smooth for up to a month. I'd stay clear of any creams - I've seen what chemical burns can do down there!!! Niki Completely agree with Niki. Male wax therapist here so my follow up advice would be just make sure they use "hard" wax for intimate areas. If they use "strip" wax, I wouldn't recommend. There's quite a diff tbh. Double check they are trained/qualified in intimate Male waxing. Despite popular belief yr balls are the easiest and actually not as painful as say having yr chest waxed. Its quick n easy and more often u get it done 4-6 weeks u'll easily get used to it. Good luck any advice PM me" Yes! NO STRIP WAX, apart from the bum - not many nerve endings there so no pain. Hard wax is the best. | |||
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"I've tried hair removal cream and it burns the top of one of my legs (only the one!) I generally lop it off with a pair of hair clippers and finish off with a razor " Me too | |||
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"Don't do it! Cannot stand this bald chicken fashion for hairless cocks. I really wish it would stop as it doesn't look good! Big turn off, in fact . " Gross as it is, I have quite big balls and their far more comfortable bald. Less sticky, sweatiness. I put a bit if weight on after hitting 30 and was getting some slight sweat rash/skin infections and since shaving that's gone completely, so i want to stick with it. Some good advice on here everyone so thank you! J X | |||
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"Just for fun, google Veet for Men reviews. Absolutely useless at hair removal, but good for an entertaining read " Oh that’s just great m. Got some on Sunday to try tonight, wish i’d seen this post first. Ah well, still going to try it and see how it goes. Keeping the burn cream handy | |||
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"Go to lush and get some of their prince shaving cream. I had the same problem and it works a treat. " Really? Will have to have a look and see! I do like lush tbh, it's only the fact that the nearest one to us is in Lincoln and we don't get there too often that stops us getting stuff from them. J X | |||
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" Most important bit is moisturise it. After u shower n yr dry slap some on. Then moisturise the skin needs to be soft enough to allow the hair to push thru Good luck " Very useful thread, thanks all for the advice! A few have mentioned using moisturizer after they shave...what sort of moisturizer though (face, hands?) Any brand names you can mention please? | |||
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"Hi all, I've waxed, shaved and used creams. Whilst the waxing was good i didn't stay smooth anywhere near as long as the claims stated so now I shave and I use creams. When I shave I always use hair conditioner works an absolute treat creams are great too but always needs a shave top up. As others have already said..MOISTURISE MOISTURISE it also feels great rubbing it in I am yet to try magic powder or nads cream..but I have experienced "the burn" after using creams.. tip to stop the burn.. DO NOT WASH THE CROWN JEWELS WITH SOAP AFTER USING CREAM. JUST RINSE WITH WATER!!! " There's a couple of reasons why yr waxing didnt stay as smooth as its claimed. Firstly, u can only remove hair that's pierced through the skin and long enough for the wax to stick. Yr hair grows in cycles so after waxing hair that's in a growth phase will appear and thats new hair. The hair removed will have been pulled out from the root and take upto 4 weeks to grow and reappear. How get round this is that you get waxed roughly every 4 weeks and you will eventually tap into the hair growth cycle. From that point it should or can last up till 6 weeks. The trick is during the 4 weeks do not shave or use creams it will interrupt the growth pattern and cycle. If u went to a professional waxer they should have mentioned this to make u understand how yr hair grows and doing it every 4 weeks will ultimately work for u in the long run. | |||
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"Fairly new to this "no pubes" thing, so looking for a bit of advice. Shaving is leaving me with quite a rash and ingrowing hairs around my cock and above it, enough that it's horrendously unattractive I'm thinking about using hair removal cream instead and was wondering what advice people have? I've been using Missy's (new) razors and tried foam/gel/moisturiser/baby oil without really much of a difference tbh and it's getting a bit frustrating! So tips, thoughts anyone? My skin isn't hugely sensitive, but I also don't really want chemical burns on my knackers Thanks guys and gals, J X X " An old girlfriend introduced me to Veet for Women with Aloe Vera (Sensitive Skin). Works for me with no irritation. Leave it on for about 10 minutes and wash off with warm water. Works perfectly | |||
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"Fairly new to this "no pubes" thing, so looking for a bit of advice. Shaving is leaving me with quite a rash and ingrowing hairs around my cock and above it, enough that it's horrendously unattractive I'm thinking about using hair removal cream instead and was wondering what advice people have? I've been using Missy's (new) razors and tried foam/gel/moisturiser/baby oil without really much of a difference tbh and it's getting a bit frustrating! So tips, thoughts anyone? My skin isn't hugely sensitive, but I also don't really want chemical burns on my knackers Thanks guys and gals, J X X " It's mainly the shaving rash which stops me being completely smooth all the time...that and laziness So I usually trim as short as possible and shaved my shaft and balls Keeps it nice and clean and tidy | |||
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"As someone who is always completely hair free my method is always the razor. I used to get a rash, but not any more, as others have said use moisturiser. For me I always use Gillette Venus, particularly for my ‘girly’ bits. It has a moisturiser built in to the blades. They are expensive - but well worth it. I keep on top of it all by always shaving a different bit of my body every time I shower ..... if I’m going out for a night or on a date (I should be so lucky??) then I will do all, and moisturise all over too ..... it feels amazing and clean. Hope that helps R xxx" i bet you have dates every night x x | |||
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"Hi all, I've waxed, shaved and used creams. Whilst the waxing was good i didn't stay smooth anywhere near as long as the claims stated so now I shave and I use creams. When I shave I always use hair conditioner works an absolute treat creams are great too but always needs a shave top up. As others have already said..MOISTURISE MOISTURISE it also feels great rubbing it in I am yet to try magic powder or nads cream..but I have experienced "the burn" after using creams.. tip to stop the burn.. DO NOT WASH THE CROWN JEWELS WITH SOAP AFTER USING CREAM. JUST RINSE WITH WATER!!! There's a couple of reasons why yr waxing didnt stay as smooth as its claimed. Firstly, u can only remove hair that's pierced through the skin and long enough for the wax to stick. Yr hair grows in cycles so after waxing hair that's in a growth phase will appear and thats new hair. The hair removed will have been pulled out from the root and take upto 4 weeks to grow and reappear. How get round this is that you get waxed roughly every 4 weeks and you will eventually tap into the hair growth cycle. From that point it should or can last up till 6 weeks. The trick is during the 4 weeks do not shave or use creams it will interrupt the growth pattern and cycle. If u went to a professional waxer they should have mentioned this to make u understand how yr hair grows and doing it every 4 weeks will ultimately work for u in the long run. " This could explain why as I was not informed of this. However I went to a place (in stretford manchester) which had great reviews and had been waxing for many years. | |||
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