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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello everyone,

I've been on here for ages now and not had a meet. I've had a woman say to me that my profile does nothing for her, so I decided to edit and changed it but I would really like your honest opinion on it and any positive criticism that could help change my fortunes.

Is it the profile or the pics or both??

Thanks

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It shows that your knowledge of the psychology of women might need some work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just read 'big fat cock'.

May need an eraser?

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By *urvy Girl 79Woman
over a year ago

Near Bourne

You're not into chatting back and fourth and getting to know someone a bit first. That would instantly put me off. A lot of us ladies like to get to know a bit about the guy we are potentially going to be having sex with.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Oh dear.. ....

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By *arbellsWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

Your first sentence is I'm just here for sex! How is that appealing to women on here?

Are we just meant to suck your 'fat cock' and let ourselves out?

How can you not see that the whole of your profile is shocking!!!??

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

"I'm unlike your usual guys who want to get to know someone first. Not into boring back and forth chat and getting to know each other"

Basically the opposite of what most women here will be looking for. Generally we like to get to know the person before they stick their dick in us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like your first line, just here for the sex, no chit chat or getting to know you first, really taken you’ve got a big fat cock, but not sure who’s you are going to borrow for the occasion, I’d say change nothing, actually we don’t care...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like your first line, just here for the sex, no chit chat or getting to know you first, really taken you’ve got a big fat cock, but not sure who’s you are going to borrow for the occasion, I’d say change nothing, actually we don’t care..."

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Brutally honest?

Ok it's shite!

Your pics are stereotypical, drop my pants, flash my cock.

Your bio... Dear lord! You really think that's selling yourself in the best light

FML!

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By *essica jamiesonWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Wow just wow! U actually know every member on this site? Mmmm! Thats strange coz i havent laid eyes on u but ur saying everyone on this site is obsessed with sex! Funniest thing ive read for a while! And fat cock! I think i threw up in my mouth a little! Good luck with ur profile ur gonna need it! But u are asking for advice so here it is " leave ur profile exactly how it is! Thats who u are!

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

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By *adyA01Woman
over a year ago

Wellington

Yep, I would bypass your profile... Majority of women on here like to get to know someone a bit first...

If you really don't want to chat, then purchase the services of a sex worker...

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I honestly can't see why you're not balls deep in pussy and beating women off with a stick

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

Your profile is one of the worst I've seen on here. Sorry.

I could mention a lot of things, but the number one is:

Don't talk about how you don't like getting to know potential meets.

And if that is your genuine, unchangeable attitude then I'd suggest you do yourself a favour and forget about using fabs.

Few women want to have sex with a guy who can't be bothered to have even a small bit of social interaction. It's quite common for men to want to have that too.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'd guess a majority of guys here aren't that interested in the chit chat. Or at least a sizeable minority.

For me, no chit chat, no meet. At the very least I need to get a sense of if you respect my fundamental humanity. (no, I can't take that for granted)

I've seen worse, but that's damning with very faint praise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello everyone,

I've been on here for ages now and not had a meet. I've had a woman say to me that my profile does nothing for her, so I decided to edit and changed it but I would really like your honest opinion on it and any positive criticism that could help change my fortunes.

Is it the profile or the pics or both??

Thanks"

Not surprised you arent getting any meets..its not something most women want to hear. some do like the banter and to have a laugh before the sex part .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't change it at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The second Pic made me laugh

Well honestly I wouldnt answer you, there's nothing that catch my attention, not the pics nor the description.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello everyone,

I've been on here for ages now and not had a meet. I've had a woman say to me that my profile does nothing for her, so I decided to edit and changed it but I would really like your honest opinion on it and any positive criticism that could help change my fortunes.

Is it the profile or the pics or both??

Thanks"

Seriously??? Talk about bad taste

OP if this is genuine.. ask yourself why your not getting anywhere.

You don't want to get to know the person. No chit chat!?

And not everyone on here is after the same thing and obsessed with sex and filth.

By the way a big fat cock isn't the be all and end all these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you're hoping for celibacy ... you've nailed it!

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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I would tell you what's wrong with your profile, but you aren't into chit chat so I won't bother, leave it how it is and hire a sex worker, you will get what you want from them much easier than from here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would tell you what's wrong with your profile, but you aren't into chit chat so I won't bother, leave it how it is and hire a sex worker, you will get what you want from them much easier than from here."

hit the nail on the head

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Does it reflect who you are and sell you well, in your opinion op? It's important that it's your profile and not someone else's.

It's not a profile that would appeal to me but that's my taste and preferences.

Everyone here is different and I noticed you suggest that we are largely the same. This could seem dismissive of each persons unique needs - worst case, theyd meet you and not be left satisfied, as you overlooked it

It appears a little self-obsessed, rather than aware or helping others to grasp your qualities.

Expanding on how we're all different, i think most here want some form of personal connection. That's Why many will have a social meet first, to see how you gel. Instashag isn't the norm - people expect the getting to know others and most people they chat with will not become people who they meet - filtering out of inappropriate people for them is the. Norm.

As a single man, you are up against thousands of others, so you don't get picked if others seem a better match

Your pics leave a lot to be desired. It's fairly hard to deduce how you look. You also look like you may take a dump in one of them. Use pics that are clrar and inform

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

The pics are pretty awful and I would assume that the write up is a joke tbh.

I mean, did you seriously think any part of that would be appealing to any woman on here?

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By *ictoriaathomeTV/TS
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Both crap!

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By *osmicRobMan
over a year ago

Chorlton cum Hardy

A guy who doesn't take himself too serious (I hope). I like it! Love the pix

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I just realised OP that you did alter the 18 to 99 age range. One brownie point for that.

I give you overall profile 1 / 100. I won't expand on my other thoughts since you aren't interested in conversation.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Have I missed the point of Fabswingers?

OP why not just go onto an escort site, then you don't have to chat back and forth, it's just for sex, except that you get screwed over too.

I for one would totally avoid you. You're cold, have no understanding of women

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax


"Hello everyone,

I've been on here for ages now and not had a meet. I've had a woman say to me that my profile does nothing for her, so I decided to edit and changed it but I would really like your honest opinion on it and any positive criticism that could help change my fortunes.

Is it the profile or the pics or both??

Thanks"

The just here for sex puts me off yes we all hope for it but a lot of women are not into fuck & go though I expect some are...doesn't float my boat at all..prefer a few drinks & go with the flow...if sex happens too great...

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax


"It shows that your knowledge of the psychology of women might need some work. "

Agreed..

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By *oastal1968Man
over a year ago

London

Who said romance was dead? Legend!

Keep up the good work.

One less single male for the rest of us to compete against

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

The profile text is diabolical.

The pictures less than average.

Oh dear OP I don’t think you will attract females with your profile.

My advice is re-think the profile OP!

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

If your profile reflects who you are then leave it as it is. Sounds like you are just after a wet hole. Don't want dem bitches thinking you are actually interested in them.

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By *oved Up 2Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

The 2nd photo looks like you're just about to have a poo!

Everything else has been said

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Instashag or dial a shag profile springs to mind, sorry OP. A lot of women will place more value on themselves than being a free hooker. If it reflects who you really are, don't change a thing. There's advice on mine should you wish to use it.

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames


""I'm unlike youjavascript:doSmilie(' ')r usual guys who want to get to know someone first. Not into boring back and forth chat and getting to know each other"

Basically the opposite of what most women here will be looking for. Generally we like to get to know the person before they stick their dick in us "
What she said .... it is that simple and straight forward we tend to think

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

You’ve made your views and attitude perfectly clear OP so it’s more honest to leave the profile exactly as it is.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should leave it as it is your just being honest about what your looking for and it definitely gets across the type of person you are, it’s also a good job you enjoy fucking beautiful women as you say because Fab is full of them.

Now for the brutally honest feedback your looking for

If your looking to meet you best change the not looking to meet single males part because I have a feeling the only meet you have a chance of getting is with a single male looking for a “Fat cock”

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By *eamgreen30Couple
over a year ago

stroud

Good god so basically you want an escort without paying for it? Your line about us all being obsessed with sex is absolute bollocks! You clearly don’t know what swinging actually is. I’d suggest your local brothel or street corner to find what you’re looking for

S

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By *eamgreen30Couple
over a year ago

stroud


"You should leave it as it is your just being honest about what your looking for and it definitely gets across the type of person you are, it’s also a good job you enjoy fucking beautiful women as you say because Fab is full of them.

Now for the brutally honest feedback your looking for

If your looking to meet you best change the not looking to meet single males part because I have a feeling the only meet you have a chance of getting is with a single male looking for a “Fat cock”"

Agree. Single males would eat him up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots off putting for women very few single women will accommodate so the fact you can't puts off probably 80 percent instantly I would start again or concentrate on clubs you will struggle on here with that profile

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By *anilla no kinkWoman
over a year ago

plymouth


"Hello everyone,

I've been on here for ages now and not had a meet. I've had a woman say to me that my profile does nothing for her, so I decided to edit and changed it but I would really like your honest opinion on it and any positive criticism that could help change my fortunes.

Is it the profile or the pics or both??

Thanks"

Your profile is all about yourself.Your 1st line I’m just here for sex will put women and couples off . Then you go on about your ‘big fat cock’ again it’s about yourself.Nothing about what you can offer to a woman .Its an egotistical profile

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Leave it just as it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many guys on here don't get that women need to feel relaxed and safe with a potential meet so the more you can chat and put them at ease, the more likely it is they may want to meet you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re into fucking people without in any way getting to know them and assume everybody else on here is the same. The thing is, most people on here are not like that. You haven’t stumbled into a lads’ heaven where there are free prostitutes on every corner, no matter how that may appeal.

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

You can't beat a bit of contractive feedback...

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

It's a wind up profile, surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought this was a not very funny joke at first.

I’m not just looking for sex, I’m looking for amazing sex, and for that I need to know you. This doesn’t mean I want to marry you, NSA is what I’m after; but sex with someone to whom any ‘hole is a goal’ and has absolutely zero interest in me as a person doesn’t do it for me.

As has been said before, if you want to stay here, don’t change your profile. It's only fair that we know how you view us and Fab. Why not find yourself an escort to keep you happy while you’re working on a Fab meet, it may take a while!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"It's a wind up profile, surely? "

Yeah. It is that bad.

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By *pitfiremk10Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

Well op.... it does need a radical re wright to be honest.

Would you walk up to a lady in supermarket you like the look drop your pants and simply say fancy a fuck... I agree with other replies you should try to sell yourself. Best of luck

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

At the end of the day, if you want sex without considering the person's fundamental humanity, you'll need to buy it. And even then you should probably rethink the not considering the humanity thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would any woman invest any time in you when you're clearly not interested in giving them any of yours?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

This must be a joke surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Brutally honest?

Ok it's shite!

Your pics are stereotypical, drop my pants, flash my cock.

Your bio... Dear lord! You really think that's selling yourself in the best light

FML! "

This...exactly...shocking Bio

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

Gotta ask what was the text like before your re-write.

I can see why you may struggle op.

Its often said there's someone for everyone on here.

A lady who wants no conversation.

A lady who wants a fat cock,

A lady who wants no connection

A lady obsessed with sex

my caveat on that statement..

the more niche your requirements the longer you'll search.

Have fun ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See, we always want to have a swift drink somewhere to assure ourselves our new buddy isnt an axe murderer, sociopath or other general purpose nutter.

We NEED to make a bit of human contact to be comfortable to go to the bedroom.

But you dont want that. We are expected just to jump in bed with no assurances you arent a fuckboy.

Sorry to say, you fail step one, and a lot of other couples would think exactly the same.

Blocked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP it's profiles like yours that make this site and others hard work for single men. Most women assume we're all like what you have described yourself. Honestly, leave it as it is maybe there is someone out there that will assume it is a joke and strike up a conversation with you... Only you don't want that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello everyone,

I've been on here for ages now and not had a meet. I've had a woman say to me that my profile does nothing for her, so I decided to edit and changed it but I would really like your honest opinion on it and any positive criticism that could help change my fortunes.

Is it the profile or the pics or both??

Thanks"

Is it April fools. Did it suddenly appear.

Just here for sex

Everyone filthy here

No chat

Fat cock

Oh my. Reality check. Thats all i have to say. Do the maths

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile. One of the worst I've ever seen! Head for a brothel and pay for sex is my suggestion.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

You've been here over a year & still haven't had a meet... I guess the problem isn't you? I think maybe fab isn't the site for you.

Honestly your profile screams avoid & to say you aren't like most the guys on here when in fact you really are one of those could explain a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nothing about your profile appeals to me. 2nd pic is old and clearly from a lads holiday. and your bio is offensive and a stretch of the truth when compared to pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've spent ten minutes thinking up ways that your profile could be worse.

It's a tough one to make worse but adding the line "Hobbies including mutilating cute kittens and puppies" might just make it the worst profile ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you should try to offer one of two things on here. 1/ a good personality, willing engagement with a prospective meet, style or 2/ a banging body. So either rewrite your profile to be more human (and go for stylish clothed pictures) or go work out at the gym and then put up new pics (if you are sticking with your current approach). Lose the dic pic with either approach by the way.

Always good to remember that being attractive to the opposite sex on here is no different to how you would go about it in everyday life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello everyone,

I've been on here for ages now and not had a meet. I've had a woman say to me that my profile does nothing for her, so I decided to edit and changed it but I would really like your honest opinion on it and any positive criticism that could help change my fortunes.

Is it the profile or the pics or both??

Thanks"

Keep looking at your pics trying to find something constructive i think is what you mean and i am sorry i just cant and the small cock well has to be a BIG FAT NO NO. Only thing that is fat on there

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By *itty n TomCouple
over a year ago

hastings

It's fine if you are looking for men for a suck blow and go....but that's all you will get

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By *ert n BerylCouple
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Well I’ve just read it, and you really don’t do yourself and favours.

You need to remember that this is a swingers site! It’s not a site for men to come onto because they want a quick lay and think every woman drops her knickers at that those 3 little words....... big fat cock

Have a rethink OP and rewrite it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello everyone,

I've been on here for ages now and not had a meet. I've had a woman say to me that my profile does nothing for her, so I decided to edit and changed it but I would really like your honest opinion on it and any positive criticism that could help change my fortunes.

Is it the profile or the pics or both??

Thanks"
your profile is all about sex and it seems you don't care with who and you don't want endless chat to get to the sex part, I personally think you need to rethink your approach and rewrite telling any women who might be interested in meeting you about you, tell them why you don't accom because unfortunately many will discount you with the thought you are married purely based on don't accom, put some better pics up maybe but if you approach this place as though everyone that's here is solely here for sex I'm afraid you'll find they are not, you're competing with many guys you have to make your profile the best it can be, it's your advert, good luck though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really is profiles like yours that gives us genuine single guys bad press on here, I can only imagine the type of messages you send people and then complain when you don’t get a reply, you expect to stand out for single lady to want to meet ?? Seriously ?? Or for the male half of a couple to want you anywhere near his wife/partner/fwb??

You can’t even write a constructive profile how on earth are you going to engage in conversation??

Seriously re-think what you want out of your experience here !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its terrible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like a piss take to me.

If it's serious, leave as is, will give people the chance to avoid...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello everyone,

I've been on here for ages now and not had a meet. I've had a woman say to me that my profile does nothing for her, so I decided to edit and changed it but I would really like your honest opinion on it and any positive criticism that could help change my fortunes.

Is it the profile or the pics or both??

Thanks"

Just read your profile and honestly it screams loud out to me "intant turn off, run from it!" ..

Just to start "I'm unlike your usual guys who want to get to know someone first".. I mean if I'm going to have sex with someone I need to know him a bit at least

But that's my humble opinion!

Saucy

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

The OP has a lot of reading to do when he finally logs back on.....

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Great. Not. His profile tells me exactly what sort of man he is but now he will change it to be something he’s not because you lot told him to.

I can’t stand endless chit chat either.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Just about every thread on Fab brings out the 'judgemental accusers' so they must be totally non-judgemental right?

I would suggest you target those with your messages, some of them must be in need of a fat cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great. Not. His profile tells me exactly what sort of man he is but now he will change it to be something he’s not because you lot told him to.

I can’t stand endless chit chat either. "
really ok you're beautiful I'm on beach in dorset how soon can you get here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just about every thread on Fab brings out the 'judgemental accusers' so they must be totally non-judgemental right?

I would suggest you target those with your messages, some of them must be in need of a fat cock."
lol

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By *hanWilliamsWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Did nothing for me!

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Great. Not. His profile tells me exactly what sort of man he is but now he will change it to be something he’s not because you lot told him to.

I can’t stand endless chit chat either. really ok you're beautiful I'm on beach in dorset how soon can you get here? "

Had you bothered to respect what’s written on my profile, you’d know the answer to that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great. Not. His profile tells me exactly what sort of man he is but now he will change it to be something he’s not because you lot told him to.

I can’t stand endless chit chat either. "

Then hey how lucky is he. His first meet. Congratulations you win the first prize. HIS BIG FAT COCK.So happy for you both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id well avoid/ even the happy go lucky - rings alarm bells hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great. Not. His profile tells me exactly what sort of man he is but now he will change it to be something he’s not because you lot told him to.

I can’t stand endless chit chat either. really ok you're beautiful I'm on beach in dorset how soon can you get here?

Had you bothered to respect what’s written on my profile, you’d know the answer to that."
lol I was kidding

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By *heSassyOneWoman
over a year ago

SE Michigan

Don’t need to know past history, does nothing for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great. Not. His profile tells me exactly what sort of man he is but now he will change it to be something he’s not because you lot told him to.

I can’t stand endless chit chat either. really ok you're beautiful I'm on beach in dorset how soon can you get here?

Had you bothered to respect what’s written on my profile, you’d know the answer to that."
and I have read your profile too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw your profile last night and you are now saying the complete opposite of what you had written. It is a lie and i don't like dishonesty on securing a meet on here. Luckily hardly anyone reads the forums, so you should be okay, regardless of my personal opinion. Good luck in your search

Holly

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Hello everyone,

I've been on here for ages now and not had a meet. I've had a woman say to me that my profile does nothing for her, so I decided to edit and changed it but I would really like your honest opinion on it and any positive criticism that could help change my fortunes.

Is it the profile or the pics or both??

Thanks"

It seems I'm not alone in my view!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow complete turn around of what rubbish was on there last night.

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

OK so.. From reading your profile you don't want to speak to me, just fuck because I'm clearly not human, just a hole.

100% genuine guy but you can't accommodate because your missus is there. It's gone stale but hey, keep her around for your amusement.

Whining is not attractive BTW. No one will give you a chance because you don't look like Brad Pitt? No it's because your profile screams disrespectful, whining twat.

Yeah I gave up. Didn't even get to the end.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

What makes you genuine ?

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Make your profile reflects what you feel is important about yourself that's honest and true and that is all you can do. There's no point in us writing your profile for you because then it is not a true reflection of yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"nothing about your profile appeals to me. 2nd pic is old and clearly from a lads holiday. and your bio is offensive and a stretch of the truth when compared to pics "

Haha very tactful there...id have said...”fat cock? Really? You think that’s a fat cock” ? But that’s just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes you genuine ?"

Everyone on here is genuine don't you know lovely lady

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

It must of been a joke as he's changed it completely.

Some people have too much time on their hands.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"It must of been a joke as he's changed it completely.

Some people have too much time on their hands."

Or he's prepared to lie to get what he wants. Comes out in the wash.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"It shows that your knowledge of the psychology of women might need some work. "

I see you’ve changed your profile to the opposite of what you were saying. Yesterday it was like you didn’t want to meet women to chat just fuck and today you like chat and banter. Make your mind up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"nothing about your profile appeals to me. 2nd pic is old and clearly from a lads holiday. and your bio is offensive and a stretch of the truth when compared to pics

Haha very tactful there...id have said...”fat cock? Really? You think that’s a fat cock” ? But that’s just me "

I try

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Guys, this was a very very interesting little experiment that I've just had you all take part in.

I used the profile from a woman on here but edited a few little parts to emphasise it wasn't a carbon copy. This lady has had guys message here non stop looking for sex without any questions asked.

However it seems that guys and women are different from what they want on this site because as you all see from the response on here and from the messages I received were very rude and had me being called all sorts.

I have since changed my profile to the real reasons I'm here. But guys, just think about this when you next want to write a profile....be nice, be true and just be friendly to others on here as we're not all sleazebags who just want sex.

Cheers

Good night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys, this was a very very interesting little experiment that I've just had you all take part in.

I used the profile from a woman on here but edited a few little parts to emphasise it wasn't a carbon copy. This lady has had guys message here non stop looking for sex without any questions asked.

However it seems that guys and women are different from what they want on this site because as you all see from the response on here and from the messages I received were very rude and had me being called all sorts.

I have since changed my profile to the real reasons I'm here. But guys, just think about this when you next want to write a profile....be nice, be true and just be friendly to others on here as we're not all sleazebags who just want sex.

Cheers

Good night "

Be careful not to trip in the bullshit guys!!

LJ

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You see that's where you are casting dispersion without knowing. There's a few more from a few others I know on here about certain things and the response of people is amazing, the difference of opinions between the sexes is phenomenal

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

At least he’s taken out the bit about having a fat cock, that was definitely pinched from someone else’s profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you put as much time and effort into meeting as you have this little "experiment" you'd probably get somewhere!!

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"If you put as much time and effort into meeting as you have this little "experiment" you'd probably get somewhere!! "

Experiment my arse! He’s seen the criticism and is back peddling! My kids do this all the time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some absolutely brutal answers here

Good luck mate, you’ll need it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys, this was a very very interesting little experiment that I've just had you all take part in.

I used the profile from a woman on here but edited a few little parts to emphasise it wasn't a carbon copy. This lady has had guys message here non stop looking for sex without any questions asked.

However it seems that guys and women are different from what they want on this site because as you all see from the response on here and from the messages I received were very rude and had me being called all sorts.

I have since changed my profile to the real reasons I'm here. But guys, just think about this when you next want to write a profile....be nice, be true and just be friendly to others on here as we're not all sleazebags who just want sex.

Cheers

Good night "

Absolute bollocks . But nice try

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool


"Guys, this was a very very interesting little experiment that I've just had you all take part in.

I used the profile from a woman on here but edited a few little parts to emphasise it wasn't a carbon copy. This lady has had guys message here non stop looking for sex without any questions asked.

However it seems that guys and women are different from what they want on this site because as you all see from the response on here and from the messages I received were very rude and had me being called all sorts.

I have since changed my profile to the real reasons I'm here. But guys, just think about this when you next want to write a profile....be nice, be true and just be friendly to others on here as we're not all sleazebags who just want sex.

Cheers

Good night "

That's a bold strategy Cotton, let's see if it plays off for him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys, this was a very very interesting little experiment that I've just had you all take part in.

I used the profile from a woman on here but edited a few little parts to emphasise it wasn't a carbon copy. This lady has had guys message here non stop looking for sex without any questions asked.

However it seems that guys and women are different from what they want on this site because as you all see from the response on here and from the messages I received were very rude and had me being called all sorts.

I have since changed my profile to the real reasons I'm here. But guys, just think about this when you next want to write a profile....be nice, be true and just be friendly to others on here as we're not all sleazebags who just want sex.

Cheers

Good night

That's a bold strategy Cotton, let's see if it plays off for him."

Hahahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys, this was a very very interesting little experiment that I've just had you all take part in.

I used the profile from a woman on here but edited a few little parts to emphasise it wasn't a carbon copy. This lady has had guys message here non stop looking for sex without any questions asked.

However it seems that guys and women are different from what they want on this site because as you all see from the response on here and from the messages I received were very rude and had me being called all sorts.

I have since changed my profile to the real reasons I'm here. But guys, just think about this when you next want to write a profile....be nice, be true and just be friendly to others on here as we're not all sleazebags who just want sex.

Cheers

Good night "

Unfortunately this has been said a fair few times on here before when someone has done this "experiment" or been caught out with a bad profile in other words.

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

I don't know of the op's motives..

Whether the original profile text was a joke, an experiment or other..

There are threads almost daily by folk asking for advice on the profile and more often than not the advice given isn't heeded..and comments often follow saying so.

Maybe the guy just listened to the advice / comments about the text and changed it accordingly .. nooooo single guy who listened to the advice... couldn't be...could it ?

If folk give others a blue print for success it makes it harder for others.

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

if you green arrow the op he asked for profile advice ages ago and a comment in the thread mentioned the "wife".

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Hello everyone,

I've been on here for ages now and not had a meet. I've had a woman say to me that my profile does nothing for her, so I decided to edit and changed it but I would really like your honest opinion on it and any positive criticism that could help change my fortunes.

Is it the profile or the pics or both??

Thanks"

Shite pictures. No thought or creativity.

Shite status. Whingy.

Shite profile text. Dull.

Brutaly honest enough for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" if you green arrow the op he asked for profile advice ages ago and a comment in the thread mentioned the "wife". "

No one in the forum will believe anything he says now. Nice one OP.

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By *picyminxWoman
over a year ago

Huntingdon


" if you green arrow the op he asked for profile advice ages ago and a comment in the thread mentioned the "wife". "

I wonder if that's why his profile says 'obviously cant accomodate' ..

OP what's obvious?

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By *eorge JetsonMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

**Sound of preparation of knuckles cracking under clasped fingers and outstretched arms**

Right, let's get these "Brutally honest opinions" going

1: Bare arse on pic 2 on profile

2: No face pics, clothed pics or any sort of "use the imagination" pic on profile

3: Obviously can't accommodate?? "OBVIOUSLY"?? why can't you obviously accommodate? Married? GF?

4: Who cares about how you class yourself as an expert, that says "I'm arrogant and ladies ARE going to be happy they had sex with me"

5: You're Genuine.... So are the 36000 other guys on here!

6: Flirty banter and cheesey jokrs?? Are you 12? What's wrong with adult conversation with a view to becoming closer friends over coffee in a decent cafe instead of flirting after 3 seconds?

7: D'you think advertising your past relationships that didn't work out so you opted to jump straight back here for "Bounce back sex" is the best way forward?

And before anyone jumps on this as being unnecessary, OP came here and asked for brutal honesty....so there you go.

Brutally honest opinions.... As he requested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys, this was a very very interesting little experiment that I've just had you all take part in.

I used the profile from a woman on here but edited a few little parts to emphasise it wasn't a carbon copy. This lady has had guys message here non stop looking for sex without any questions asked.

However it seems that guys and women are different from what they want on this site because as you all see from the response on here and from the messages I received were very rude and had me being called all sorts.

I have since changed my profile to the real reasons I'm here. But guys, just think about this when you next want to write a profile....be nice, be true and just be friendly to others on here as we're not all sleazebags who just want sex.

Cheers

Good night "

I love profile experiments.

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"**Sound of preparation of knuckles cracking under clasped fingers and outstretched arms**

Right, let's get these "Brutally honest opinions" going

1: Bare arse on pic 2 on profile

2: No face pics, clothed pics or any sort of "use the imagination" pic on profile

3: Obviously can't accommodate?? "OBVIOUSLY"?? why can't you obviously accommodate? Married? GF?

4: Who cares about how you class yourself as an expert, that says "I'm arrogant and ladies ARE going to be happy they had sex with me"

5: You're Genuine.... So are the 36000 other guys on here!

6: Flirty banter and cheesey jokrs?? Are you 12? What's wrong with adult conversation with a view to becoming closer friends over coffee in a decent cafe instead of flirting after 3 seconds?

7: D'you think advertising your past relationships that didn't work out so you opted to jump straight back here for "Bounce back sex" is the best way forward?

And before anyone jumps on this as being unnecessary, OP came here and asked for brutal honesty....so there you go.

Brutally honest opinions.... As he requested "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over a year and not met anyone?- surely you have tried a club or social,or do you just like being lazy?

That old 'experiment' number is way too old hat ffs,you don't just say "interesting",as if that concludes an experiment.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Blah blah blah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"**Sound of preparation of knuckles cracking under clasped fingers and outstretched arms**

Right, let's get these "Brutally honest opinions" going

1: Bare arse on pic 2 on profile

2: No face pics, clothed pics or any sort of "use the imagination" pic on profile

3: Obviously can't accommodate?? "OBVIOUSLY"?? why can't you obviously accommodate? Married? GF?

4: Who cares about how you class yourself as an expert, that says "I'm arrogant and ladies ARE going to be happy they had sex with me"

5: You're Genuine.... So are the 36000 other guys on here!

6: Flirty banter and cheesey jokrs?? Are you 12? What's wrong with adult conversation with a view to becoming closer friends over coffee in a decent cafe instead of flirting after 3 seconds?

7: D'you think advertising your past relationships that didn't work out so you opted to jump straight back here for "Bounce back sex" is the best way forward?

And before anyone jumps on this as being unnecessary, OP came here and asked for brutal honesty....so there you go.

Brutally honest opinions.... As he requested "

again this OP

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


" if you green arrow the op he asked for profile advice ages ago and a comment in the thread mentioned the "wife".

I wonder if that's why his profile says 'obviously cant accomodate' ..

OP what's obvious? "

He's in a relationship that's gone "stale" (his word) so he's playing away for some sex, obvs he cant take any lucky ladies back to his in case wifey comes home!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"**Sound of preparation of knuckles cracking under clasped fingers and outstretched arms**

Right, let's get these "Brutally honest opinions" going

1: Bare arse on pic 2 on profile

2: No face pics, clothed pics or any sort of "use the imagination" pic on profile

3: Obviously can't accommodate?? "OBVIOUSLY"?? why can't you obviously accommodate? Married? GF?

4: Who cares about how you class yourself as an expert, that says "I'm arrogant and ladies ARE going to be happy they had sex with me"

5: You're Genuine.... So are the 36000 other guys on here!

6: Flirty banter and cheesey jokrs?? Are you 12? What's wrong with adult conversation with a view to becoming closer friends over coffee in a decent cafe instead of flirting after 3 seconds?

7: D'you think advertising your past relationships that didn't work out so you opted to jump straight back here for "Bounce back sex" is the best way forward?

And before anyone jumps on this as being unnecessary, OP came here and asked for brutal honesty....so there you go.

Brutally honest opinions.... As he requested "

I actually clapped at the end

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

I haven't even looked, why should anyone help you, can you not sell yourself?

If not you're on the wrong site!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

An experiment, yeah right!!! As I said up there you've too much time on your hands

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By *hesterXXXMan
over a year ago

in your dreams

I love these threads!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

its always a "wee experiment" when:

a) someone gets busted for lying by omission... p,s hows the wife?

b) a thread doesn't go the way they thought it would.... hence the fabswingers "two step walk back" to try and get out the situation!

only thing missing from the bingo card was "i was only joking!"

you won't be the first.... you won't be the last.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is just plain nasty bullying . Bravo the lot of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like it was a terrible profile.. Lol I wish I could of seen it.

It amazes me how some men write the worst things ever and then they're baffled because they can't find a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is just plain nasty bullying . Bravo the lot of you "

Maybe if you had read the first one you wouldnt be so sympathetic

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Guys I really don't have any issues with the abuse, that was the whole reason behind it.

I'm not going to disrespect my friend who has the same text on her profile just so I can justify myself. If people wish not to or to believe me that's no problem but it was simply to show that MOST guys on here are just here for sex and women want to be chased still rather than the misconception they just want sex too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys I really don't have any issues with the abuse, that was the whole reason behind it.

I'm not going to disrespect my friend who has the same text on her profile just so I can justify myself. If people wish not to or to believe me that's no problem but it was simply to show that MOST guys on here are just here for sex and women want to be chased still rather than the misconception they just want sex too. "

Dnt think you had any abuse just plain speaking. You put what you put then back tracked its fine. Own it. Its your shit to deal with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello everyone,

I've been on here for ages now and not had a meet. I've had a woman say to me that my profile does nothing for her, so I decided to edit and changed it but I would really like your honest opinion on it and any positive criticism that could help change my fortunes.

Is it the profile or the pics or both??

Thanks"

Status.... hahaha such a little porker.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I got messaged privately by lots of people with their mad crazy rants lol

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

One pic over a year old, no veris

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Guys I really don't have any issues with the abuse, that was the whole reason behind it.

I'm not going to disrespect my friend who has the same text on her profile just so I can justify myself. If people wish not to or to believe me that's no problem but it was simply to show that MOST guys on here are just here for sex and women want to be chased still rather than the misconception they just want sex too. "

That's hardly an earth shattering revelation!

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

As I was just explaining to someone that messaged me

What’s someone’s cup of tea is another’s cup of coffee

Don’t lose faith OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't lie on your age dude.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Don't lie on your age dude. "
it’s true. My friend did that and 6 months later she got a parking ticket. Karma in action.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys, this was a very very interesting little experiment that I've just had you all take part in.

I used the profile from a woman on here but edited a few little parts to emphasise it wasn't a carbon copy. This lady has had guys message here non stop looking for sex without any questions asked.

However it seems that guys and women are different from what they want on this site because as you all see from the response on here and from the messages I received were very rude and had me being called all sorts.

I have since changed my profile to the real reasons I'm here. But guys, just think about this when you next want to write a profile....be nice, be true and just be friendly to others on here as we're not all sleazebags who just want sex.

Cheers

Good night "

Reading this after all of the'helpful' and 'constructive' feedback made me chuckle. Well played sir

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Experiment? Bullshit. Or do you really want us to believe that you intentionally wasted the time of all the people that posted on this thread?

So which is it? Are you a liar or a timewaster?

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London


"Guys, this was a very very interesting little experiment that I've just had you all take part in.

I used the profile from a woman on here but edited a few little parts to emphasise it wasn't a carbon copy. This lady has had guys message here non stop looking for sex without any questions asked.

However it seems that guys and women are different from what they want on this site because as you all see from the response on here and from the messages I received were very rude and had me being called all sorts.

I have since changed my profile to the real reasons I'm here. But guys, just think about this when you next want to write a profile....be nice, be true and just be friendly to others on here as we're not all sleazebags who just want sex.

Cheers

Good night "

What?

- You took a woman's profile

- You asked for advice on 'your' profile

- People told you it was rubbish

- Now you've reckon it was never your profile in the first place and this shows people should be more friendly

A. What a load of bollocks

B. Even if your story were true, your conclusion that this shows people should be friendlier makes no sense at all.

All we have to judge other people on here is their profile. If it's a profile that makes you sound totally sleazy, people are entitled not to be interested. What are people supposed to think 'oh wait, maybe this guy is just doing an experiment'?!

I'd maybe just delete this profile and start a new one, you've messed this one right up

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Experiment? Bullshit. Or do you really want us to believe that you intentionally wasted the time of all the people that posted on this thread?

So which is it? Are you a liar or a timewaster?

"

Both

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

[Removed by poster at 04/07/19 07:40:17]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello everyone,

I've been on here for ages now and not had a meet. I've had a woman say to me that my profile does nothing for her, so I decided to edit and changed it but I would really like your honest opinion on it and any positive criticism that could help change my fortunes.

Is it the profile or the pics or both??

Thanks"
in my opinion your write up is ok could maybe do with a little of your personality and some better pics but pics are fine, people can be brutal here and unfortunately some love to share the negativity which is the way this country works bad news sells newspapers and airtime but for me if you can't say anything nice don't say anything at all, good luck Op on your return and shame on any guy who sends filthy messages to a woman they've never met, you'll do much better being polite to them

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

New profile is not interesting.

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