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By *adame 2Swords OP   Woman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

So a younger guy seems to have my number, no big deal. But wants to meet with every intention of bareback sex. Repeatedly said no, but then he rings me, so as to persuade me.

Basically, I decide who and how I have sex. If we did meet, knowing his only intention is BB sex, he could rip off the condom as he cums, then there's a whole shit load of ramifications. Also having a break from my depo contraception.

What does he expect the meet (if it happended) to be like, doubt I'd be relaxed

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale

Block his number.

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By *essica jamiesonWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

What are u asking???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've said no, block and delete. It's a no brainer surely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you keep answering the call if you have already said no?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Wouldn't he have to take his penis out of you to "Rip off the condom" ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How did he get your number? If a friend passed it on I’d question their friendship.

As said above, just bock the guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would you keep answering the call if you have already said no?"
she likes him

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By *ummer breeze300Woman
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Why would you even consider meeting him !!!

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By *YC SausageMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Be careful what you say in here. I got a 48 hour ban for “airing my dirty laundry”. All I was doing was asking an opinion (like you are now)

But to answer your question, block him. He’s so adamant that he wants to do BB then he’ll find a way. He’ll start with a condom, then when you get on all fours, he’ll sneakily swipe it off.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Make it clear he's not welcome to contact you. Block his number. If he persists through other devices, talk to the police.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make out u have an std

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By *esires of HertsCouple
over a year ago

Herts and London Borders

a simple Block of his number. not sure why it even warrants a forum post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, I’ve just read your profile. It’s rather confusing.

Maybe you give out mixed signals? Just a thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So a younger guy seems to have my number, no big deal. But wants to meet with every intention of bareback sex. Repeatedly said no, but then he rings me, so as to persuade me.

Basically, I decide who and how I have sex. If we did meet, knowing his only intention is BB sex, he could rip off the condom as he cums, then there's a whole shit load of ramifications. Also having a break from my depo contraception.

What does he expect the meet (if it happended) to be like, doubt I'd be relaxed"

Block

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By *aul DeUther-OneMan
over a year ago

Sussex

There is no need for you to justify your stance with this guy or even to enter into a conversation with him at all.

The next time he rings you might try silent answering the call, that is press answer but do not say a word and let him use up his minutes listening to back ground noise.

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By *aul DeUther-OneMan
over a year ago

Sussex

[Removed by poster at 30/06/19 14:28:40]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be careful what you say in here. I got a 48 hour ban for “airing my dirty laundry”. All I was doing was asking an opinion (like you are now)

But to answer your question, block him. He’s so adamant that he wants to do BB then he’ll find a way. He’ll start with a condom, then when you get on all fours, he’ll sneakily swipe it off. "

this OP

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Block him and dont give out your number to anyone off here or get a burner phone for fab. I dont understand why you keep taking his calls OP. Do what people have suggested, then no drama. Simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So a younger guy seems to have my number, no big deal. But wants to meet with every intention of bareback sex. Repeatedly said no, but then he rings me, so as to persuade me.

Basically, I decide who and how I have sex. If we did meet, knowing his only intention is BB sex, he could rip off the condom as he cums, then there's a whole shit load of ramifications. Also having a break from my depo contraception.

What does he expect the meet (if it happended) to be like, doubt I'd be relaxed"

Im confused because one of your pics shows you having bareback sex. So maybe this is why he is persistent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block him.

No respect for your wishes should mean a no meet anytime.

Tony

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By *unlovers70Couple
over a year ago

Overseas

From reading the post I'd say OP wants to draw attention to her profile and the new business venture she's exploring on her barge! If not I apologise but just do the logical thing and block him, on here and your mobile phone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 30/06/19 15:24:19]

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Sounds like someone saying 'Hey there's a younger guy after me. Woohoo!'

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

[Removed by poster at 01/07/19 06:25:34]

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

You say on your profile anyone asking to meet will be blocked,why not take your own advice and v

Block him,unless you like the attention of him calling.

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I'm sure there's plenty of other guys looking to meet, block him and meet someone that doesn't want bareback

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd give him one notification that sex occurs to my rules only and then inform him to cease all contact. If he didn't, I'd block him and ultimately use the network and/or police for harassment, as they are very supportive.

I might use a temporary number for a few days - obviously major inconvenience if it's your main no he's got.

It does highlight the value of a sex friends only dim card and number.

I'm very friendly and understanding but I lose this, once someone becomes disrespectful. I then am clear and to the point.

I als report everyone else behaves inappropriately to site admin, as they may be a risk to others

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"So a younger guy seems to have my number, no big deal. But wants to meet with every intention of bareback sex. Repeatedly said no, but then he rings me, so as to persuade me.

Basically, I decide who and how I have sex. If we did meet, knowing his only intention is BB sex, he could rip off the condom as he cums, then there's a whole shit load of ramifications. Also having a break from my depo contraception.

What does he expect the meet (if it happended) to be like, doubt I'd be relaxed"

Why did you give him your number anyway if he only interested in bareback I'm sure you should have found out first.

Just block then threaten with police and harassment charge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love KIK as i dont like giving out my mobi. For exactly this reason. But most mobiles u can block unwanted callers

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By *wosmilersCouple
over a year ago

Heathrowish

Probably doesn't help that you apprar to be showing a bareback picture.

You do look gorgeous though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile states your not meeting? ???? Confusing

1.How did he get your number?

2.Don't answer his calls.

3.Move on and block his number.

Problem solved

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By *uckymooMan
over a year ago

Mid-Cheshire

Well it seems you are enjoying the attention to me

We all know how to block avoid etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well it seems you are enjoying the attention to me

We all know how to block avoid etc

"

Absolutely this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So a younger guy seems to have my number, no big deal. But wants to meet with every intention of bareback sex. Repeatedly said no, but then he rings me, so as to persuade me.

Basically, I decide who and how I have sex. If we did meet, knowing his only intention is BB sex, he could rip off the condom as he cums, then there's a whole shit load of ramifications. Also having a break from my depo contraception.

What does he expect the meet (if it happended) to be like, doubt I'd be relaxed"

Having read your profile, I've come to the conclusion you have multiple personality disorder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too much drama just block and ignore

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By *icole123Woman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I don't get what you're asking?,surely if you've told him No,and he's still calling you,then block him,easy!...and how has he got hold of your number?.you obviously gave it to him.

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