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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do couples and singles like to see on a single male profile thst would make you reply back ? And how should he address his first message to you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is different. So is not the easiest thing to answer.

For us. We expect to both be spoken to. A face pic.

Cock pics don't do it for us.

Boring run of the mill profile text. Puts us off, we like to see some humour.

Is still not a guarantee though unless we are attracted to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do couples and singles like to see on a single male profile thst would make you reply back ? And how should he address his first message to you ? "

Way way too many cock photos.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Teasing pictures, not explicit.

Profile text that sells the person and shows something about them.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

like - sincerity

dislike - arrogance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"like - sincerity

dislike - arrogance"

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I like:

A variety of photos

Well written text, using paragraphs

Positivity

Humour, if possible

Individuality

I don't like:

Photos where it is mostly of someone else

Lots of cock pics

Text language

Negativity

Words in CAPITAL letters

Disclaimer

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate profiles, is mine crap

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

A well dressed man in classy surroundings , cock pics in private but its outline visible thru his tight trousers etc , pics that ooze his quality and a well thought out write up , his first msg would be polite and mention things about my profile , he's preferably comfortable with his sexuality and doesn't try to treat me like a guilty pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Profile text that sells the person and shows something about them. "

This

The message should address both of us and be relevant to our profile.

A big turn off is when the message is clearly in reply to the pics and the profile hasn't been read.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Profile pictures that are classy, interesting, teasing....not just cock pic.

An indicated age range. 18 to 99 means they are too lazy to change it or really desperate.

Some information about themselves...what they enjoy, are looking forward to doing , and also what they can offer that makes me want to talk to them and find out more.

No silly meaningless bit about warnings, university or using pictures.

FIRST MESSAGE.

Address is to the lady or couple and mention why you are getting in touch. Personal message relating to their text. Most messages look like they have been sent to anyone within a 30 radius.

Treat people as humans with feelings, a little compliment or sense of humour can help too.

"FAF" or "how's you" are pointless and can be read without opening the message. So get deleted instantly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I receive a message I only look at the profile if the message is good, so although the profile is important I would take the time to personalise and make an effort in a first message.

Show that you’ve read their profile and never ask to meet straight away. Don’t be overly sexual, and try to show some personality.

As for the profile, some tasteful pictures such as torso/partial face/back, have a few dick pics but don’t use one as your profile picture. Write a decent profile by demonstrating what you’re looking for and again, showing some personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some people on here who would meet a 99 year old smoker.

We find that just so funny, but maybe they just aren't fussy??

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster


"There are some people on here who would meet a 99 year old smoker.

We find that just so funny, but maybe they just aren't fussy??"

or too damn lazy to consider just what there looking for and adjust default settings accordingly , it tells me a lot and it's a swerve from me , men seem to treat this site with very little motivation but expect the best from others , this is my own experience and perception only of course

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


"What do couples and singles like to see on a single male profile thst would make you reply back ? And how should he address his first message to you ? "

Certainly not the kind of photos you have there.

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By *ikerdude2017Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Some great tips in here thanks will go look at my profile??. Last time was here had lots of cock pics so now removed most of those. Now to look at the text. Also good tips on first messages as Im shite at those as well. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do couples and singles like to see on a single male profile thst would make you reply back ? And how should he address his first message to you ? "
dear sir or madam I've long awaited to receive an invite to yours for extra marital shenanigans I'm a clean cut young man who's penis dare I say it is erect a lot ( pic) if your delightful wife would like to make use of it I would be highly delighted to be of service........... Just say that it works every time with a couple and always attach a smiling face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do couples and singles like to see on a single male profile thst would make you reply back ? And how should he address his first message to you ? "

Your profile photos are hideous and would get instant delete and block from us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humour gets me everytime

The rest is irrelevant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do couples and singles like to see on a single male profile thst would make you reply back ? And how should he address his first message to you ?

Your profile photos are hideous and would get instant delete and block from us. "

Totally agree with your description.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Simple in both cases, intelligent, witty and polite

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"What do couples and singles like to see on a single male profile thst would make you reply back ? And how should he address his first message to you ? "

There is no real answer to either question except post the pictures you think best represent you (including cock pics if you want) and send the messages you want to send. They won't appeal to everyone but it will give people a better idea of who you are and not of what other folk want you to be.

Best advice of all is get yourself to a club and meet people face to face: use Fab to keep in touch with them.

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