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By *J Gemini OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Northumberland

I've got pissed off with time wasters, so maybe my profile is now a bit harsh.

Would it scare you off?

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I've read it and you're contradicting yourself... Point number 3...you don't meet males alone unless they make it worth your while .. BUT earlier in your profile you clearly state that you won't meet them... maybe review that bit...

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By *J Gemini OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Northumberland

Agreed, missed that, thanks,

Xx

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By *ltcouple666Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

I think it's ace....assertive but not arrogant...and will hopefully filter out those not suitable (if they bother to read it first of course) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not harsh. A few inconsistencies and overly long perhaps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can never be too long I prefer long ones to short ones and ones that say nothing at all or say will fill this in later mylarky. Great profile Jenna or John? Which do you prefer?

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By *itsAndTaffCouple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex

Your profile put what you want

We changed ours at the weekend, as we were fed up having to sift through messages from guys who clearly hadn’t read it

Ours is now a bit rude & to the point & has probably scared off women & couples but thankfully we’ve gone from getting 20-30 messages a day from guys we are not interested to 2-3 a day from guys we aren’t interested in & a few a week from guys we hopefully will meet at some point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it. A lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got pissed off with time wasters, so maybe my profile is now a bit harsh.

Would it scare you off?

Xx"

You should read our profile..

Your profile is lovely..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didnt read it.

You wanna fuck? My mrs will never know....

Joking obviously, but however well crafted your profile is some pillock is going to message you anyway.

Read mine. Clear and direct i think, but we still regularly get blokes on the other side of the fucking solar system asking if i want to watch them fuck my wife.

I dont. I really dont

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By *J Gemini OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Northumberland


"I think it's ace....assertive but not arrogant...and will hopefully filter out those not suitable (if they bother to read it first of course) x "

Thanks

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By *J Gemini OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Northumberland


"It can never be too long I prefer long ones to short ones and ones that say nothing at all or say will fill this in later mylarky. Great profile Jenna or John? Which do you prefer?"

Thanks, depends on how I am dressed, but Jemma sounds better than John

Xx

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By *J Gemini OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Northumberland


"I've got pissed off with time wasters, so maybe my profile is now a bit harsh.

Would it scare you off?

Xx

You should read our profile..

Your profile is lovely.. "

Love the profile,

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We also recently added a few lines to our profile to hopefully avoid the people we're not interested in . I think if you're clear about what you expect/want then people who genuinely want to meet would be ok with that on your profile!

The only thing I wondered about was only sending a face picture if you knew you were going to meet, as we'd prefer to see a face picture before we got that far in to a meet commitment

Personally, I think your profile is good!

Mrs

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By *ere4U1000Man
over a year ago

Newcastle Upon Tyne

Not sure about your profile being harsh but it sure is long-winded. I've read novels shorter than your profile. Less is more.

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By *he James gangCouple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY

Pics great, Gettysburg address of a profile not so. Just saying, no offense.

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By *J Gemini OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Northumberland


"Pics great, Gettysburg address of a profile not so. Just saying, no offense."

None taken, all feedback is good feedback, thank you,

Xx

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By *J Gemini OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Northumberland


"We also recently added a few lines to our profile to hopefully avoid the people we're not interested in . I think if you're clear about what you expect/want then people who genuinely want to meet would be ok with that on your profile!

The only thing I wondered about was only sending a face picture if you knew you were going to meet, as we'd prefer to see a face picture before we got that far in to a meet commitment

Personally, I think your profile is good!

Mrs "

Thanks for the feedback, I am sick of talking to people who once I send a face pic either stop messaging me and then block me.

Now it could be that I am so dammed ugly that they are traumatised or it's just that they are picture hunters.

I like to think it's the later,

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got pissed off with time wasters, so maybe my profile is now a bit harsh.

Would it scare you off?

Xx"
It's very long, it's not to ranty, obviously it says guys not interested but it's not scary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We also recently added a few lines to our profile to hopefully avoid the people we're not interested in . I think if you're clear about what you expect/want then people who genuinely want to meet would be ok with that on your profile!

The only thing I wondered about was only sending a face picture if you knew you were going to meet, as we'd prefer to see a face picture before we got that far in to a meet commitment

Personally, I think your profile is good!

Mrs

Thanks for the feedback, I am sick of talking to people who once I send a face pic either stop messaging me and then block me.

Now it could be that I am so dammed ugly that they are traumatised or it's just that they are picture hunters.

I like to think it's the later,

Xx"

No one is ugly on here we just do not fancy each and every one on here we all have preferences. Now less of saying you are ugly. I get many messages with just cocks or no cock no face and have to ask for face photos because like others have said I do not want a conversation with a cock or no face I like to see who I might be meeting. Going for meets on looks alone is wrong because I go for connection first and foremost not looks!

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I can understand why you've written a long profile, I certainly had and having the same issues.

It is a bit too long as those guys who can't be bothered to read a more direct and condensed profile certainly won't read a very detailed list of preferences and requirements. But hopefully it will filter out some of the time wasters, nothing wrong with it and if it doesn't work, write another paragraph

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By *c1989Woman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Your profile put what you want

We changed ours at the weekend, as we were fed up having to sift through messages from guys who clearly hadn’t read it

Ours is now a bit rude & to the point & has probably scared off women & couples but thankfully we’ve gone from getting 20-30 messages a day from guys we are not interested to 2-3 a day from guys we aren’t interested in & a few a week from guys we hopefully will meet at some point "

This is what happened when I went from having very little to quite a lot written. It certainly acts as another filter.

OP. Top profile

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By *J Gemini OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Northumberland


"We also recently added a few lines to our profile to hopefully avoid the people we're not interested in . I think if you're clear about what you expect/want then people who genuinely want to meet would be ok with that on your profile!

The only thing I wondered about was only sending a face picture if you knew you were going to meet, as we'd prefer to see a face picture before we got that far in to a meet commitment

Personally, I think your profile is good!

Mrs

Thanks for the feedback, I am sick of talking to people who once I send a face pic either stop messaging me and then block me.

Now it could be that I am so dammed ugly that they are traumatised or it's just that they are picture hunters.

I like to think it's the later,

Xx

No one is ugly on here we just do not fancy each and every one on here we all have preferences. Now less of saying you are ugly. I get many messages with just cocks or no cock no face and have to ask for face photos because like others have said I do not want a conversation with a cock or no face I like to see who I might be meeting. Going for meets on looks alone is wrong because I go for connection first and foremost not looks!"

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder as they say. I know I am not ugly, far from it. When I look in the mirror I fall in love with myself every time

I just think alot of people aspire to getting the face pic then think.... Oh God what next... a meet! Then freak.

It happens so I need to get use to it,

Thanks for your kind word,

JJ

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By *J Gemini OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Northumberland

Thanks everyone for your time and effort in comments, they are much appreciated,

JJ

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"I've got pissed off with time wasters, so maybe my profile is now a bit harsh.

Would it scare you off?

Xx"

Harsh, and way too long.

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By *L300Man
over a year ago

YEOVIL

It is quite long...

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