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By *sm30 OP   Couple
over a year ago

ferryhill

So we have our first proper meet this weekend we have had a social with the lovely lady and discussed our boundaries. We are currently flitting between excitement and nervousness so just wondering if anyone one has an advice for us?

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By *ng1983Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon tyne

If you're planning on going for drinks don't get d*unk. There's nothing worse than drinking because you're nervous and then the whole meet going downhill because you've drank too much. Enjoy the excitement,try and relax and remember you can end the meet at any point if you aren't feeling it. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah mistake we made first time was drinking too much for nervous we have found this is a much nicer hobby sober especially for the man if he is taking part

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By *sm30 OP   Couple
over a year ago

ferryhill

Yeah we won't be drinking thanks

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By *ltcouple666Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

Don't think about it too much. Just be yourselves, go with the flow and enjoy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try some deep breathing excercises that always helps to relieve tension and shake off any first time nerves. Try some chill out music that also help calm nerves or getting rid of tension and stress. I am sure you will be fine and like the rest say just be yourselves and do not get toxicated with alcohol instead intoxicate with fun and pleasure thoughts!

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

The social and talking prior to the meet, already shows you planned a great evening for all of you. Maybe think about what you want to wear, something easy to slip out of, when things get heated but apart from that enjoy

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