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By *icole123 OP Woman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I had meet a month ago with a policeman,we'd met previously on his old account,he asked me to verify him,which i did,and vice versa...I've not heard from him,but he has 2 more verifications,and removed mine,i feel so fucking shit.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Why exactly do you feel like shit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why exactly do you feel like shit?"

This - Why would you feel like shit hun? The number is still there it's just the comment he has hidden. Some folk don't like overly sexual veries, some folk just don't like spelling mistakes it really could be for any reason and no reflection on you x

Did you use his real name? (Or the one he used on the meet) I find quite a few people do this on the comment they leave.

I was reading one guys veries left over a 2 year period the latest 3 veries people called him Paul before that some called Stuart earlier veries it was Peter and on the oldest it was Andy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try not to let it get to you. I've had similar and it smarts a bit but just try to move on and meet someone else

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By *icole123 OP Woman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

"Why exactly do you feel like shit?"
...because i was his first meet and just feel like I've been used to verify him,he has two new ones and removed mine.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Why exactly do you feel like shit?...because i was his first meet and just feel like I've been used to verify him,he has two new ones and removed mine."

Ok. I'd probably feel a bit miffed. It's really not worth feeling like shit though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people like to only display their most recent veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t let the bastards grind you down. Between them, the fakes and the no shows fab is a cesspit. But wade through the shite and there’s some real gems out there. It’s crap but you don’t get owt for nowt

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Some people like to only display their most recent veris"

Yep. We don't display any and one guy we met told us he would only display our veri for a couple of days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put it to the back of your mind x you will meet someone else x verifications are a 2 way thing x people like them and people like myself don't x people with lots of verifications and horny pics at 1st they are the dogs bollocks but after a while when people they know see them they are mortified x what a stigma x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't over think it too much we don't take anything on this site to seriously its just fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only show recent veri’s and only for a day or two. I don’t care for them really and I’m just being polite. I couldn’t give a rats-arse if mine was displayed or not.

It’s not personal. Just his choice. Not sure why it would make you feel like shit though

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I think with FAB you have to try not to read into things too much and grow a think skin. At the end of the day you don't know the motive, it could be the sinister motive you think, it may not. But no good comes of speculation and over thinking on here. Granted easier said than done if your like me. Just try and brush it off and move forward enjoying a brighter future.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Try not to let it bother you so much

People often mix up their veries ie hiding some /displaying them later.

Doesn't mean he didn't enjoy your meet.

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By *icole123 OP Woman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Its all sorted now..x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a similar thing a few weeks back. Met with someone, he was a charmer,lovely and made me feel also good about myself and after saying he wanted to meet me again I got completely ghosted. Blocks me on kik, doesn’t read my messages on here so I’ve not verified him.

I know it’s NSA but still kinda made me feel crap and put me off meeting anyone else at the moment.

I think I feel used. and I know on this site it’s meant to be just hookups but we gots feelings too!!

Pricks!

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